Qualities someone MUST have before dating???

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Real

Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:57:08 PM
Quote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:56:05 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:54:01 PM
Quote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:51:24 PM
Do y'all know how to have a rationale conversation without let y'all pride or ego get in the way?
it depends, sometimes yes. I have to feel like the other person is being completely transparent and open for me to completely let down my guard, otherwise im always ready to toss a bit :nowgorl:

I see. Does this go for just your significant other or anybody in general?
any and everybody. I let my grandomter have it one day, dont play with me grandma :plzstop:

sfsfffffffff

GRAND

Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:59:15 PM
Quote from: GRAND on May 24, 2016, 01:58:26 PM
You're going to hell luv
ssdsdsdsdsdsdsdsdsds
old people feel like they can say any and everything. Im not the type to play that game with :dead:
yeah I was kidding

I can't stand old people

Oh respect!

They think because they're dying they can be disrespectful

I get disrespectful right fcking back


Kurama

Yeah Malc I'm cringing tbh. Wish you didn't post in here, please dont fuck up the vibe

:melmel:

Vonc2002

Quote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:58:48 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:57:08 PM
Quote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:56:05 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:54:01 PM
Quote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:51:24 PM
Do y'all know how to have a rationale conversation without let y'all pride or ego get in the way?
it depends, sometimes yes. I have to feel like the other person is being completely transparent and open for me to completely let down my guard, otherwise im always ready to toss a bit :nowgorl:

I see. Does this go for just your significant other or anybody in general?
any and everybody. I let my grandomter have it one day, dont play with me, grandma :plzstop:

:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:

You're a hot head huh. How do you make it thru the day ?
Im honestly not as hot headed as I come off on here. I just believe that EVERYONE can be put in their place, no one is exempt imo
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





Lazarus

Quote from: Baphomet. on May 24, 2016, 01:58:47 PM
Quote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:51:24 PM
Do y'all know how to have a rationale conversation without let y'all pride or ego get in the way?

I try my hardest with my Bf.. I really... really do....... Now.
It was this one conversation when we were just getting to know each other and a topic came up and welll.... LMAO.

I couldn't hold back. I kinda laid into his scalp.

What were y'all discussing that made you BLOW UP?

Surely you two could've resolved y'all issue in a calming and rationale matter.

Real

Vonc and Supreme

So if your boyfriend/girlfriend comes home, obviously having a bad day or whatever.....you ask what's wrong and they say they don't really wanna talk about it. They just wanna go to their bedroom and chill out for a lil bit. That would bother you?

Vonc2002

Quote from: GRAND on May 24, 2016, 02:00:44 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:59:15 PM
Quote from: GRAND on May 24, 2016, 01:58:26 PM
You're going to hell luv
ssdsdsdsdsdsdsdsdsds
old people feel like they can say any and everything. Im not the type to play that game with :dead:
yeah I was kidding

I can't stand old people

Oh respect!

They think because they're dying they can be disrespectful

I get disrespectful right fcking back
:plea:
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





GRAND

I sometimes wonder if I'm delusional and I'm actually an evil person

I like want so many old people (racist ones mostly) to leave this earth

Like, death is us for best.

Lazarus

Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 02:01:08 PM
Quote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:58:48 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:57:08 PM
Quote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:56:05 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:54:01 PM
Quote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:51:24 PM
Do y'all know how to have a rationale conversation without let y'all pride or ego get in the way?
it depends, sometimes yes. I have to feel like the other person is being completely transparent and open for me to completely let down my guard, otherwise im always ready to toss a bit :nowgorl:

I see. Does this go for just your significant other or anybody in general?
any and everybody. I let my grandomter have it one day, dont play with me, grandma :plzstop:

:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:

You're a hot head huh. How do you make it thru the day ?
Im honestly not as hot headed as I come off on here. I just believe that EVERYONE can be put in their place, no one is exempt imo

Define putting in your place ? And shouldn't there be a way to settle things and find a common ground with out "putting someone in their place" or even leading up to that.

Vonc2002

Quote from: Don Draper on May 24, 2016, 02:02:04 PM
Vonc and Supreme

So if your boyfriend/girlfriend comes home, obviously having a bad day or whatever.....you ask what's wrong and they say they don't really wanna talk about it. They just wanna go to their bedroom and chill out for a lil bit. That would bother you?
oh no, I get that. Im very respectful of personal space because I need mine too. I definitely go thru my "leave me alone" phases but I will expect to be clued tf in at some point
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





BAPHOMET.

Quote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 02:01:24 PM
Quote from: Baphomet. on May 24, 2016, 01:58:47 PM
Quote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:51:24 PM
Do y'all know how to have a rationale conversation without let y'all pride or ego get in the way?

I try my hardest with my Bf.. I really... really do....... Now.
It was this one conversation when we were just getting to know each other and a topic came up and welll.... LMAO.

I couldn't hold back. I kinda laid into his scalp.

What were y'all discussing that made you BLOW UP?

Surely you two could've resolved y'all issue in a calming and rationale matter.

I honestly rather not go into full detail. Not trying to delve too much.
But he was caught off guard at how defensive I got. I dunno why I did at the time. But I apologized afterwards........ The next day.


GRAND

Quote from: Don Draper on May 24, 2016, 02:02:04 PM
Vonc and Supreme

So if your boyfriend/girlfriend comes home, obviously having a bad day or whatever.....you ask what's wrong and they say they don't really wanna talk about it. They just wanna go to their bedroom and chill out for a lil bit. That would bother you?
YES. We don't have to talk about it then, but eventually I need to know.

Why wouldn't you want to share why you're unhappy with me? Faggot I'm the love of your life.  :hmph:

Plus it builds trust. I'd feel insulted if someone constantly rejected conversations with me.

GRAND

Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 02:04:10 PM
Quote from: Don Draper on May 24, 2016, 02:02:04 PM
Vonc and Supreme

So if your boyfriend/girlfriend comes home, obviously having a bad day or whatever.....you ask what's wrong and they say they don't really wanna talk about it. They just wanna go to their bedroom and chill out for a lil bit. That would bother you?
oh no, I get that. Im very respectful of personal space because I need mine too. I definitely go thru my "leave me alone" phases but I will expect to be clued tf in at some point
!!

:ohwow:

Real

Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 02:04:10 PM
Quote from: Don Draper on May 24, 2016, 02:02:04 PM
Vonc and Supreme

So if your boyfriend/girlfriend comes home, obviously having a bad day or whatever.....you ask what's wrong and they say they don't really wanna talk about it. They just wanna go to their bedroom and chill out for a lil bit. That would bother you?
oh no, I get that. Im very respectful of personal space because I need mine too. I definitely go thru my "leave me alone" phases but I will expect to be clued tf in at some point

Oh ok  :dead: although I'm not clueing in later. Once I'm over it, I ain't rehashing.

Kurama

Quote from: GRAND on May 24, 2016, 02:05:10 PM
Quote from: Don Draper on May 24, 2016, 02:02:04 PM
Vonc and Supreme

So if your boyfriend/girlfriend comes home, obviously having a bad day or whatever.....you ask what's wrong and they say they don't really wanna talk about it. They just wanna go to their bedroom and chill out for a lil bit. That would bother you?
YES. We don't have to talk about it then, but eventually I need to know.

Why wouldn't you want to share why you're unhappy with me? Faggot I'm the love of your life.  :hmph:

Plus it builds trust. I'd feel insulted if someone constantly rejected conversations with me.

That has been an issue for my past partners. I need me time and I share with them eventually but not right off of the bat. Especially if I feel like they aren't as expressive or vulnerable as I am.