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Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 02:27:10 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 02:24:47 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 02:19:31 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 02:12:39 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 02:06:41 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 02:03:59 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 02:01:08 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:58:48 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:57:08 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:56:05 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:54:01 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:51:24 PMDo y'all know how to have a rationale conversation without let y'all pride or ego get in the way?it depends, sometimes yes. I have to feel like the other person is being completely transparent and open for me to completely let down my guard, otherwise im always ready to toss a bit I see. Does this go for just your significant other or anybody in general?any and everybody. I let my grandomter have it one day, dont play with me, grandma You're a hot head huh. How do you make it thru the day ?Im honestly not as hot headed as I come off on here. I just believe that EVERYONE can be put in their place, no one is exempt imoDefine putting in your place ? And shouldn't there be a way to settle things and find a common ground with out "putting someone in their place" or even leading up to that.It depends, too many variables. It depends on who it is, what the situation is, how strongly I feel about it, etc. Im honestly a very rational person and am open to calmly and peacefully settling things. Another factor is the way u come at me, very important if u expect me to not just hear u but LISTENVery true. The way you come at a person can set the tone of how the conversation will go. Sounds like to me it's either Vonc's way or no way with you. Do you have a hard time opening up to others ?no, im an open person. Its not my way or the highway BUT if I feel like im totally right about something, its not likely i'll submit easily. I definitely have to work on that. and like i said, this is the way i am in all relationships. I have a friend I had a petty ass argument with and I felt completely and totally justified in how I felt. we didnt speak for a yr and because he was the same unwilling to budge type, neither of us were willing to take down. I ultimately had to call him and was like I miss u man and this is stupid. we had a long, DUMB ass convo about it and we're better than ever. He also admitted he was wrong so that made me feel better LOLZ!That's good y'all both could admit it was petty and stupid and put behind y'all. It's also good that y'all friendship remained in tact. Losing friends over something so trivial is never worth it.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!That's ultimately how I saw it........plus I like having a place to stay in L.A. when I get there, needed to makeup with that faggot
Quote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 02:24:47 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 02:19:31 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 02:12:39 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 02:06:41 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 02:03:59 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 02:01:08 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:58:48 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:57:08 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:56:05 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:54:01 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:51:24 PMDo y'all know how to have a rationale conversation without let y'all pride or ego get in the way?it depends, sometimes yes. I have to feel like the other person is being completely transparent and open for me to completely let down my guard, otherwise im always ready to toss a bit I see. Does this go for just your significant other or anybody in general?any and everybody. I let my grandomter have it one day, dont play with me, grandma You're a hot head huh. How do you make it thru the day ?Im honestly not as hot headed as I come off on here. I just believe that EVERYONE can be put in their place, no one is exempt imoDefine putting in your place ? And shouldn't there be a way to settle things and find a common ground with out "putting someone in their place" or even leading up to that.It depends, too many variables. It depends on who it is, what the situation is, how strongly I feel about it, etc. Im honestly a very rational person and am open to calmly and peacefully settling things. Another factor is the way u come at me, very important if u expect me to not just hear u but LISTENVery true. The way you come at a person can set the tone of how the conversation will go. Sounds like to me it's either Vonc's way or no way with you. Do you have a hard time opening up to others ?no, im an open person. Its not my way or the highway BUT if I feel like im totally right about something, its not likely i'll submit easily. I definitely have to work on that. and like i said, this is the way i am in all relationships. I have a friend I had a petty ass argument with and I felt completely and totally justified in how I felt. we didnt speak for a yr and because he was the same unwilling to budge type, neither of us were willing to take down. I ultimately had to call him and was like I miss u man and this is stupid. we had a long, DUMB ass convo about it and we're better than ever. He also admitted he was wrong so that made me feel better LOLZ!That's good y'all both could admit it was petty and stupid and put behind y'all. It's also good that y'all friendship remained in tact. Losing friends over something so trivial is never worth it.
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 02:19:31 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 02:12:39 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 02:06:41 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 02:03:59 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 02:01:08 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:58:48 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:57:08 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:56:05 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:54:01 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:51:24 PMDo y'all know how to have a rationale conversation without let y'all pride or ego get in the way?it depends, sometimes yes. I have to feel like the other person is being completely transparent and open for me to completely let down my guard, otherwise im always ready to toss a bit I see. Does this go for just your significant other or anybody in general?any and everybody. I let my grandomter have it one day, dont play with me, grandma You're a hot head huh. How do you make it thru the day ?Im honestly not as hot headed as I come off on here. I just believe that EVERYONE can be put in their place, no one is exempt imoDefine putting in your place ? And shouldn't there be a way to settle things and find a common ground with out "putting someone in their place" or even leading up to that.It depends, too many variables. It depends on who it is, what the situation is, how strongly I feel about it, etc. Im honestly a very rational person and am open to calmly and peacefully settling things. Another factor is the way u come at me, very important if u expect me to not just hear u but LISTENVery true. The way you come at a person can set the tone of how the conversation will go. Sounds like to me it's either Vonc's way or no way with you. Do you have a hard time opening up to others ?no, im an open person. Its not my way or the highway BUT if I feel like im totally right about something, its not likely i'll submit easily. I definitely have to work on that. and like i said, this is the way i am in all relationships. I have a friend I had a petty ass argument with and I felt completely and totally justified in how I felt. we didnt speak for a yr and because he was the same unwilling to budge type, neither of us were willing to take down. I ultimately had to call him and was like I miss u man and this is stupid. we had a long, DUMB ass convo about it and we're better than ever. He also admitted he was wrong so that made me feel better LOLZ!
Quote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 02:12:39 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 02:06:41 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 02:03:59 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 02:01:08 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:58:48 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:57:08 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:56:05 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:54:01 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:51:24 PMDo y'all know how to have a rationale conversation without let y'all pride or ego get in the way?it depends, sometimes yes. I have to feel like the other person is being completely transparent and open for me to completely let down my guard, otherwise im always ready to toss a bit I see. Does this go for just your significant other or anybody in general?any and everybody. I let my grandomter have it one day, dont play with me, grandma You're a hot head huh. How do you make it thru the day ?Im honestly not as hot headed as I come off on here. I just believe that EVERYONE can be put in their place, no one is exempt imoDefine putting in your place ? And shouldn't there be a way to settle things and find a common ground with out "putting someone in their place" or even leading up to that.It depends, too many variables. It depends on who it is, what the situation is, how strongly I feel about it, etc. Im honestly a very rational person and am open to calmly and peacefully settling things. Another factor is the way u come at me, very important if u expect me to not just hear u but LISTENVery true. The way you come at a person can set the tone of how the conversation will go. Sounds like to me it's either Vonc's way or no way with you. Do you have a hard time opening up to others ?
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 02:06:41 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 02:03:59 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 02:01:08 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:58:48 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:57:08 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:56:05 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:54:01 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:51:24 PMDo y'all know how to have a rationale conversation without let y'all pride or ego get in the way?it depends, sometimes yes. I have to feel like the other person is being completely transparent and open for me to completely let down my guard, otherwise im always ready to toss a bit I see. Does this go for just your significant other or anybody in general?any and everybody. I let my grandomter have it one day, dont play with me, grandma You're a hot head huh. How do you make it thru the day ?Im honestly not as hot headed as I come off on here. I just believe that EVERYONE can be put in their place, no one is exempt imoDefine putting in your place ? And shouldn't there be a way to settle things and find a common ground with out "putting someone in their place" or even leading up to that.It depends, too many variables. It depends on who it is, what the situation is, how strongly I feel about it, etc. Im honestly a very rational person and am open to calmly and peacefully settling things. Another factor is the way u come at me, very important if u expect me to not just hear u but LISTEN
Quote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 02:03:59 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 02:01:08 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:58:48 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:57:08 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:56:05 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:54:01 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:51:24 PMDo y'all know how to have a rationale conversation without let y'all pride or ego get in the way?it depends, sometimes yes. I have to feel like the other person is being completely transparent and open for me to completely let down my guard, otherwise im always ready to toss a bit I see. Does this go for just your significant other or anybody in general?any and everybody. I let my grandomter have it one day, dont play with me, grandma You're a hot head huh. How do you make it thru the day ?Im honestly not as hot headed as I come off on here. I just believe that EVERYONE can be put in their place, no one is exempt imoDefine putting in your place ? And shouldn't there be a way to settle things and find a common ground with out "putting someone in their place" or even leading up to that.
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 02:01:08 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:58:48 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:57:08 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:56:05 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:54:01 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:51:24 PMDo y'all know how to have a rationale conversation without let y'all pride or ego get in the way?it depends, sometimes yes. I have to feel like the other person is being completely transparent and open for me to completely let down my guard, otherwise im always ready to toss a bit I see. Does this go for just your significant other or anybody in general?any and everybody. I let my grandomter have it one day, dont play with me, grandma You're a hot head huh. How do you make it thru the day ?Im honestly not as hot headed as I come off on here. I just believe that EVERYONE can be put in their place, no one is exempt imo
Quote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:58:48 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:57:08 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:56:05 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:54:01 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:51:24 PMDo y'all know how to have a rationale conversation without let y'all pride or ego get in the way?it depends, sometimes yes. I have to feel like the other person is being completely transparent and open for me to completely let down my guard, otherwise im always ready to toss a bit I see. Does this go for just your significant other or anybody in general?any and everybody. I let my grandomter have it one day, dont play with me, grandma You're a hot head huh. How do you make it thru the day ?
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:57:08 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:56:05 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:54:01 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:51:24 PMDo y'all know how to have a rationale conversation without let y'all pride or ego get in the way?it depends, sometimes yes. I have to feel like the other person is being completely transparent and open for me to completely let down my guard, otherwise im always ready to toss a bit I see. Does this go for just your significant other or anybody in general?any and everybody. I let my grandomter have it one day, dont play with me, grandma
Quote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:56:05 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:54:01 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:51:24 PMDo y'all know how to have a rationale conversation without let y'all pride or ego get in the way?it depends, sometimes yes. I have to feel like the other person is being completely transparent and open for me to completely let down my guard, otherwise im always ready to toss a bit I see. Does this go for just your significant other or anybody in general?
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:54:01 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:51:24 PMDo y'all know how to have a rationale conversation without let y'all pride or ego get in the way?it depends, sometimes yes. I have to feel like the other person is being completely transparent and open for me to completely let down my guard, otherwise im always ready to toss a bit
Quote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:51:24 PMDo y'all know how to have a rationale conversation without let y'all pride or ego get in the way?
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Quote from: GRAND on May 24, 2016, 02:27:38 PMEspecially real. I'd probably think he's cheating on me
Quote from: GRAND on May 24, 2016, 02:29:31 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 02:28:55 PMQuote from: ANIMMAI on May 24, 2016, 02:21:59 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:51:24 PMDo y'all know how to have a rationale conversation without let y'all pride or ego get in the way?I usually do my best to avoid arguments or confrontations with people, so yes.You can't just hear what you wanna hear from someone, there may be something beneficial underneath it all.I understand. I get where you coming.bWhy are you always trying to give therapist?
Quote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 02:28:55 PMQuote from: ANIMMAI on May 24, 2016, 02:21:59 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:51:24 PMDo y'all know how to have a rationale conversation without let y'all pride or ego get in the way?I usually do my best to avoid arguments or confrontations with people, so yes.You can't just hear what you wanna hear from someone, there may be something beneficial underneath it all.I understand. I get where you coming.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on May 24, 2016, 02:21:59 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:51:24 PMDo y'all know how to have a rationale conversation without let y'all pride or ego get in the way?I usually do my best to avoid arguments or confrontations with people, so yes.You can't just hear what you wanna hear from someone, there may be something beneficial underneath it all.
Quote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 02:30:53 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 02:27:10 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 02:24:47 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 02:19:31 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 02:12:39 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 02:06:41 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 02:03:59 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 02:01:08 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:58:48 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:57:08 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:56:05 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:54:01 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:51:24 PMDo y'all know how to have a rationale conversation without let y'all pride or ego get in the way?it depends, sometimes yes. I have to feel like the other person is being completely transparent and open for me to completely let down my guard, otherwise im always ready to toss a bit I see. Does this go for just your significant other or anybody in general?any and everybody. I let my grandomter have it one day, dont play with me, grandma You're a hot head huh. How do you make it thru the day ?Im honestly not as hot headed as I come off on here. I just believe that EVERYONE can be put in their place, no one is exempt imoDefine putting in your place ? And shouldn't there be a way to settle things and find a common ground with out "putting someone in their place" or even leading up to that.It depends, too many variables. It depends on who it is, what the situation is, how strongly I feel about it, etc. Im honestly a very rational person and am open to calmly and peacefully settling things. Another factor is the way u come at me, very important if u expect me to not just hear u but LISTENVery true. The way you come at a person can set the tone of how the conversation will go. Sounds like to me it's either Vonc's way or no way with you. Do you have a hard time opening up to others ?no, im an open person. Its not my way or the highway BUT if I feel like im totally right about something, its not likely i'll submit easily. I definitely have to work on that. and like i said, this is the way i am in all relationships. I have a friend I had a petty ass argument with and I felt completely and totally justified in how I felt. we didnt speak for a yr and because he was the same unwilling to budge type, neither of us were willing to take down. I ultimately had to call him and was like I miss u man and this is stupid. we had a long, DUMB ass convo about it and we're better than ever. He also admitted he was wrong so that made me feel better LOLZ!That's good y'all both could admit it was petty and stupid and put behind y'all. It's also good that y'all friendship remained in tact. Losing friends over something so trivial is never worth it.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!That's ultimately how I saw it........plus I like having a place to stay in L.A. when I get there, needed to makeup with that faggot Mmm I see you're one of those type of "friends".
Quote from: Don Draper on May 24, 2016, 02:30:59 PMQuote from: GRAND on May 24, 2016, 02:27:38 PMEspecially real. I'd probably think he's cheating on meI get this so much I don't wanna talk about my day so I'm cheating or I got into an argument with a side piece and that's why I'm upset the stories that are conjured up
Quote from: GLOCK for MOD 2016 on May 24, 2016, 02:33:27 PMTon how are you in a relationship?U just seem like a good lay .. No shade
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 02:33:34 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 02:30:53 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 02:27:10 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 02:24:47 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 02:19:31 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 02:12:39 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 02:06:41 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 02:03:59 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 02:01:08 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:58:48 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:57:08 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:56:05 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:54:01 PMQuote from: Zinc on May 24, 2016, 01:51:24 PMDo y'all know how to have a rationale conversation without let y'all pride or ego get in the way?it depends, sometimes yes. I have to feel like the other person is being completely transparent and open for me to completely let down my guard, otherwise im always ready to toss a bit I see. Does this go for just your significant other or anybody in general?any and everybody. I let my grandomter have it one day, dont play with me, grandma You're a hot head huh. How do you make it thru the day ?Im honestly not as hot headed as I come off on here. I just believe that EVERYONE can be put in their place, no one is exempt imoDefine putting in your place ? And shouldn't there be a way to settle things and find a common ground with out "putting someone in their place" or even leading up to that.It depends, too many variables. It depends on who it is, what the situation is, how strongly I feel about it, etc. Im honestly a very rational person and am open to calmly and peacefully settling things. Another factor is the way u come at me, very important if u expect me to not just hear u but LISTENVery true. The way you come at a person can set the tone of how the conversation will go. Sounds like to me it's either Vonc's way or no way with you. Do you have a hard time opening up to others ?no, im an open person. Its not my way or the highway BUT if I feel like im totally right about something, its not likely i'll submit easily. I definitely have to work on that. and like i said, this is the way i am in all relationships. I have a friend I had a petty ass argument with and I felt completely and totally justified in how I felt. we didnt speak for a yr and because he was the same unwilling to budge type, neither of us were willing to take down. I ultimately had to call him and was like I miss u man and this is stupid. we had a long, DUMB ass convo about it and we're better than ever. He also admitted he was wrong so that made me feel better LOLZ!That's good y'all both could admit it was petty and stupid and put behind y'all. It's also good that y'all friendship remained in tact. Losing friends over something so trivial is never worth it.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!That's ultimately how I saw it........plus I like having a place to stay in L.A. when I get there, needed to makeup with that faggot Mmm I see you're one of those type of "friends". im joking clearly If I felt like he was a terrible person id definitely be completely fine with never talking to him again and getting a damn hotel
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 02:34:38 PMQuote from: Don Draper on May 24, 2016, 02:30:59 PMQuote from: GRAND on May 24, 2016, 02:27:38 PMEspecially real. I'd probably think he's cheating on meI get this so much I don't wanna talk about my day so I'm cheating or I got into an argument with a side piece and that's why I'm upset the stories that are conjured upfwell...................