Brandy obviously don't give a fuck about "backlash" from people at this point. Or else she would've stopped posting shit like this on social media. So all the people not in agreement with it will simply have to deal or move on lmao
And I don't think not being upset with her for it, giving her props for doing it, etc... Is being a "yes man", "hand holder" , or delusional
IMO is simply allowing an almost 40 year old woman to be whoever she wants to be and applauding the fact that she's comfortable enough to finally be whoever she wants to be. While others try so hard to please everyone.
And some of the most "respectable" artist were/are messy as fuck lmao and it doesn't/didn't take away from their art.