Honesty Hour: Have you ever been proposed to? Proposed to someone? Or would you

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Kurama

Quote from: Don Draper on July 26, 2016, 12:39:10 PM
Quote from: Ralf on July 26, 2016, 12:34:16 PM
Don, I want to talk to you.

Where u really ready for marriage?

Nah. I loved her but it was moreso a check box kinda thing. And all my friends were getting married around that time as welk. Just seemed like the thing to do  :letsmessfag:

That's so crazy how hetero couples have that pressure of doing the marriage, house, and family thing around like 25 or so.

GLOCK

Quote from: Tanya Turner on July 26, 2016, 12:38:01 PM
Quote from: GRAND on July 26, 2016, 12:30:19 PM
Quote from: Tanya Turner on July 26, 2016, 12:29:30 PM
My ex really was my soul mate though, so I don't see myself getting married, unless I'm yet to find my true soul mate.
why did he dump you the?

:traciandchelle:

Nnn

The last 3 months were just awful. Both of us were clearly unhappy. We had two 24 hour break ups djdjjjddj he broke up with me, then I broke up with him and then the last time he called it. He said he wasn't ready to settle down and that was the only way he saw us going and I was just bored, cause he became boring.

But since the break up he told me he still loves me and "you'll always be mine" and he knows we'll be together eventually.

I said "Nah, Hun", I'm no ones consolation prize.

He stays messaging me though, in his words, "Let GO". :uhh:
this is the capricorn guy?

Rxxf

Quote from: 'lock on July 26, 2016, 12:13:22 PM
Quote from: Don Draper on July 26, 2016, 12:09:49 PM
Quote from: Ralf on July 26, 2016, 12:06:27 PM
Quote from: 'lock on July 26, 2016, 12:05:29 PM
What's ur zodiac cousin, if you don't mind me asking?

Let me try something different and answer a question.
I'm a Pisces.

Wait Ralf. Open book self
!!
LOLZ what will they say now :blessed:

Lol. Yeah.
We're cousins for sure tho, cause I am black. We're related through my mom.
:wub:
And you know my dad (your uncle by marriage) is Asian.
:wub:

By the way, I always found it crazy that most never assumed that I was black! It was always white, asian, etc. It was so annoying. Lol. Like hello, WE can slay the fucking scene too!
:dead:

But it's all love. :wub: It wasn't a big deal (race), by the way. I just choose to not disclose much of anything (at all), period. But I'm trying something different now. All love.
BRANDY

GLOCK

Quote from: Tanya Turner on July 26, 2016, 12:42:43 PM
Quote from: 'lock on July 26, 2016, 12:41:41 PM
Quote from: Tanya Turner on July 26, 2016, 12:38:01 PM
Quote from: GRAND on July 26, 2016, 12:30:19 PM
Quote from: Tanya Turner on July 26, 2016, 12:29:30 PM
My ex really was my soul mate though, so I don't see myself getting married, unless I'm yet to find my true soul mate.
why did he dump you the?

:traciandchelle:

Nnn

The last 3 months were just awful. Both of us were clearly unhappy. We had two 24 hour break ups djdjjjddj he broke up with me, then I broke up with him and then the last time he called it. He said he wasn't ready to settle down and that was the only way he saw us going and I was just bored, cause he became boring.

But since the break up he told me he still loves me and "you'll always be mine" and he knows we'll be together eventually.

I said "Nah, Hun", I'm no ones consolation prize.

He stays messaging me though, in his words, "Let GO". :uhh:
this is the capricorn guy?

My ex was a Cancer.

N

v

oh! couldve sworn u were fucking with a cap at one point

GLOCK

Quote from: Ralf on July 26, 2016, 12:44:34 PM
Quote from: 'lock on July 26, 2016, 12:13:22 PM
Quote from: Don Draper on July 26, 2016, 12:09:49 PM
Quote from: Ralf on July 26, 2016, 12:06:27 PM
Quote from: 'lock on July 26, 2016, 12:05:29 PM
What's ur zodiac cousin, if you don't mind me asking?

Let me try something different and answer a question.
I'm a Pisces.

Wait Ralf. Open book self
!!
LOLZ what will they say now :blessed:

Lol. Yeah.
We're cousins for sure tho, cause I am black. We're related through my mom.
:wub:
And you know my dad (your uncle by marriage) is Asian.
:wub:

By the way, I always found it crazy that most never assumed that I was black! It was always white, asian, etc. It was so annoying. Lol. Like hello, WE can slay the fucking scene too!
:dead:

But it's all love. :wub: It wasn't a big deal (race), by the way. I just choose to not disclose much of anything (at all), period. But I'm trying something different now. All love.

ugh! our family slays..
especially the black in us lmao
:receipts:

Rxxf

Quote from: Don Draper on July 26, 2016, 12:39:10 PM
Quote from: Ralf on July 26, 2016, 12:34:16 PM
Don, I want to talk to you.

Where u really ready for marriage?

Nah. I loved her but it was moreso a check box kinda thing. And all my friends were getting married around that time as welk. Just seemed like the thing to do  :letsmessfag:

Aww, I understand.
I'm happy you made the right choice for you and her.
:wub:
BRANDY

Rxxf

Quote from: 'lock on July 26, 2016, 12:46:11 PM
Quote from: Ralf on July 26, 2016, 12:44:34 PM
Quote from: 'lock on July 26, 2016, 12:13:22 PM
Quote from: Don Draper on July 26, 2016, 12:09:49 PM
Quote from: Ralf on July 26, 2016, 12:06:27 PM
Quote from: 'lock on July 26, 2016, 12:05:29 PM
What's ur zodiac cousin, if you don't mind me asking?

Let me try something different and answer a question.
I'm a Pisces.

Wait Ralf. Open book self
!!
LOLZ what will they say now :blessed:

Lol. Yeah.
We're cousins for sure tho, cause I am black. We're related through my mom.
:wub:
And you know my dad (your uncle by marriage) is Asian.
:wub:

By the way, I always found it crazy that most never assumed that I was black! It was always white, asian, etc. It was so annoying. Lol. Like hello, WE can slay the fucking scene too!
:dead:

But it's all love. :wub: It wasn't a big deal (race), by the way. I just choose to not disclose much of anything (at all), period. But I'm trying something different now. All love.

ugh! our family slays..
especially the black in us lmao
:receipts:

Won't WE do it!
:ohwow:
BRANDY



Zankou.

Quote from: Kurama on July 26, 2016, 12:40:33 PM
Quote from: Don Draper on July 26, 2016, 12:39:10 PM
Quote from: Ralf on July 26, 2016, 12:34:16 PM
Don, I want to talk to you.

Where u really ready for marriage?

Nah. I loved her but it was moreso a check box kinda thing. And all my friends were getting married around that time as welk. Just seemed like the thing to do  :letsmessfag:

That's so crazy how hetero couples have that pressure of doing the marriage, house, and family thing around like 25 or so.


!!!!!!!!!!!!

GLOCK

Quote from: Tanya Turner on July 26, 2016, 12:49:17 PM
Quote from: 'lock on July 26, 2016, 12:45:05 PM
Quote from: Tanya Turner on July 26, 2016, 12:42:43 PM
Quote from: 'lock on July 26, 2016, 12:41:41 PM
Quote from: Tanya Turner on July 26, 2016, 12:38:01 PM
Quote from: GRAND on July 26, 2016, 12:30:19 PM
Quote from: Tanya Turner on July 26, 2016, 12:29:30 PM
My ex really was my soul mate though, so I don't see myself getting married, unless I'm yet to find my true soul mate.
why did he dump you the?

:traciandchelle:

Nnn

The last 3 months were just awful. Both of us were clearly unhappy. We had two 24 hour break ups djdjjjddj he broke up with me, then I broke up with him and then the last time he called it. He said he wasn't ready to settle down and that was the only way he saw us going and I was just bored, cause he became boring.

But since the break up he told me he still loves me and "you'll always be mine" and he knows we'll be together eventually.

I said "Nah, Hun", I'm no ones consolation prize.

He stays messaging me though, in his words, "Let GO". :uhh:
this is the capricorn guy?

My ex was a Cancer.

N

v

oh! couldve sworn u were fucking with a cap at one point

No, bby.

But Libras and Cancers really aren't compatible, I dunno how we lasted as long as we did.


The new guy I'm liaising is an Aquarius. Which is very good.
my dude is a scorpio and im a cap
we arent compatible .. sometimes i wonder how weve lasted this long
but i guess we are similar in some ways!!!

what makes this Aq so good?


Rxxf

Quote from: GoDiegoGo on July 26, 2016, 12:24:27 PM
Quote from: Ralf on July 26, 2016, 12:22:06 PM
I like the IDEA of marriage, but I don't want do it (put in the work) at this point.
I don't know if I can live with someone just yet.
I like the control of my own place and want to experience that some more.

At least you're honest and self aware about that. Some fools don't realize this until they are at the damn altar.

Thank you.
I have friends who had kids and did the "living together" thing knowing damn well they didn't want to.
BRANDY


GLOCK

Quote from: Tanya Turner on July 26, 2016, 12:52:38 PM
Quote from: 'lock on July 26, 2016, 12:50:21 PM
Quote from: Tanya Turner on July 26, 2016, 12:49:17 PM
Quote from: 'lock on July 26, 2016, 12:45:05 PM
Quote from: Tanya Turner on July 26, 2016, 12:42:43 PM
Quote from: 'lock on July 26, 2016, 12:41:41 PM
Quote from: Tanya Turner on July 26, 2016, 12:38:01 PM
Quote from: GRAND on July 26, 2016, 12:30:19 PM
Quote from: Tanya Turner on July 26, 2016, 12:29:30 PM
My ex really was my soul mate though, so I don't see myself getting married, unless I'm yet to find my true soul mate.
why did he dump you the?

:traciandchelle:

Nnn

The last 3 months were just awful. Both of us were clearly unhappy. We had two 24 hour break ups djdjjjddj he broke up with me, then I broke up with him and then the last time he called it. He said he wasn't ready to settle down and that was the only way he saw us going and I was just bored, cause he became boring.

But since the break up he told me he still loves me and "you'll always be mine" and he knows we'll be together eventually.

I said "Nah, Hun", I'm no ones consolation prize.

He stays messaging me though, in his words, "Let GO". :uhh:
this is the capricorn guy?

My ex was a Cancer.

N

v

oh! couldve sworn u were fucking with a cap at one point

No, bby.

But Libras and Cancers really aren't compatible, I dunno how we lasted as long as we did.


The new guy I'm liaising is an Aquarius. Which is very good.
my dude is a scorpio and im a cap
we arent compatible .. sometimes i wonder how weve lasted this long
but i guess we are similar in some ways!!!

what makes this Aq so good?

He's attentive and low maintenance. Which is so new to me.

Plus our signs are highly compatible.

:stressed:

im really happy for you
ur a great catch!