Honesty Hour: If someone is willing to have sex with you or does on the 1st date

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Opposites Attract.

Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:12:36 PM
Quote from: Margeaux. on August 13, 2016, 01:10:25 PM
We aren't females, we're men. We shouldn't date like heterosexual people. Men are natural sexual beings. I'm firm in believing if he ain't fucking on me, he fucking on someone else. Even if it's just a suck on the first date, you're still engaging. I can't chill with any nigga without having sex. I'm a shy person anyways so the sex opens me up a bit.

You're so interesting Marg. Sexual liberation is cool tho if that's ur thing.

:whatfuneralbill:

I just think you learn so much about a person after you have sex with them. I can really on speak my experiences but Men are the most vulnerable after they cum.


It's unconditional, these days you know....

Vonc2002

Quote from: Margeaux. on August 13, 2016, 01:06:20 PM
Nope.

I prefer sex first then the date to make things less awkward. Sometimes sex while on a date is amazing as well.
U KILL ME :dead:
honestly, lets just fuck when we first meet to go head and get it out the way

:dead: :dead: :dead:
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





Purple Moon

Quote from: BigDawg on August 13, 2016, 01:10:13 PM
I mean what is the purpose of dating if we just fuckin at the end of the night? That in my opinion makes you a fwb.
also true. I wish it was that easy though.
Must be a purple moon, feel like one of those nights...

Purple Moon

Quote from: Margeaux. on August 13, 2016, 01:10:25 PM
We aren't females, we're men. We shouldn't date like heterosexual people. Men are natural sexual beings. I'm firm in believing if he ain't fucking on me, he fucking on someone else. Even if it's just a suck on the first date, you're still engaging. I can't chill with any nigga without having sex. I'm a shy person anyways so the sex opens me up a bit.
what if you're not in the mood and just wanna have a nice concersation, and they just wanna fuck every single time you see them?
Must be a purple moon, feel like one of those nights...


Opposites Attract.

Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 01:19:40 PM
Quote from: Margeaux. on August 13, 2016, 01:10:25 PM
We aren't females, we're men. We shouldn't date like heterosexual people. Men are natural sexual beings. I'm firm in believing if he ain't fucking on me, he fucking on someone else. Even if it's just a suck on the first date, you're still engaging. I can't chill with any nigga without having sex. I'm a shy person anyways so the sex opens me up a bit.
what if you're not in the mood and just wanna have a nice concersation, and they just wanna fuck every single time you see them?

That's why you establish the situation right then and there. Someone has to speak up and say what they're looking for. You should be engaging in conversation after yall fuck.


It's unconditional, these days you know....

Purple Moon

Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:11:14 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:08:09 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:06:45 PM
That's that new age shit. Im not here for it.
which stance bby?

Sex on the 1st date.  It's like people use sex as a means to getting to know one another or decide to date someone(these days). Then they get surprised when their mess crumbles 4 days later cuz someone cheated. No disrespect   :dead:
I'm torn. Sex isn't the sole decidinh factor for me, when dating somebody. On the other hand if we're both cuddling and are hard as fuck, are we gonna do something about it or nah? Even just a handjob.
Must be a purple moon, feel like one of those nights...

Opposites Attract.

Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 01:18:22 PM
Quote from: Margeaux. on August 13, 2016, 01:06:20 PM
Nope.

I prefer sex first then the date to make things less awkward. Sometimes sex while on a date is amazing as well.
U KILL ME :dead:
honestly, lets just fuck when we first meet to go head and get it out the way

:dead: :dead: :dead:

This is accurate as fuck lmfao


It's unconditional, these days you know....

FlowerBomb



Vonc2002

Quote from: Margeaux. on August 13, 2016, 01:22:15 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 01:18:22 PM
Quote from: Margeaux. on August 13, 2016, 01:06:20 PM
Nope.

I prefer sex first then the date to make things less awkward. Sometimes sex while on a date is amazing as well.
U KILL ME :dead:
honestly, lets just fuck when we first meet to go head and get it out the way

:dead: :dead: :dead:

This is accurate as fuck lmfao
:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





BigDawg

Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 01:18:26 PM
Quote from: BigDawg on August 13, 2016, 01:10:13 PM
I mean what is the purpose of dating if we just fuckin at the end of the night? That in my opinion makes you a fwb.
also true. I wish it was that easy though.
I have learned to set the standard from the beginning. If we are just smashing then it will strictly be only that. If we are dating and the potential is there to be in a relationship then having sex so early in the game taints things imo. It can in some cases send the wrong message. Men are so fickle, most of the time even if the sex is poppin they can simply just be adding you to the roster of "homies they break off now and again".

Cartierline

Yeah I kinda feel like if you fuck on the first date, what else is there to do really? It's possible that you COULD fuck on the first date and still have a long-term relationship after, but that's really unlikely imo.

Just keep it cute with some kissing.

GLOCK

Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:11:14 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:08:09 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:06:45 PM
That's that new age shit. Im not here for it.
which stance bby?

Sex on the 1st date.  It's like people use sex as a means to getting to know one another or decide to date someone(these days). Then they get surprised when their mess crumbles 4 days later cuz someone cheated. No disrespect   :dead:
im kinda here with u
But then on the other hand I know ppl who have lasted after doing this

I for one never had a relationship with any guy I did it on the first date with but that could possibly change if the vibe was 100%

My current dude did kiss the tip of my dick when I dropped him off after our first date
It was so random.. Yet hot but we didn't have intimacy until the 2nd month

Purple Moon

Quote from: Cartier on August 13, 2016, 01:24:45 PM
Yeah I kinda feel like if you fuck on the first date, what else is there to do really? It's possible that you COULD fuck on the first date and still have a long-term relationship after, but that's really unlikely imo.

Just keep it cute with some kissing.
what if you have it on the 2nd date? Or one month down the line? It goes downhill afterwards aswell or what?
Must be a purple moon, feel like one of those nights...