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[GRAND]

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I want someone that's just like me

If we BANG on the first day, so be it.

The issue comes if we can't decide on and workout being a couple

[CHOKE]

I don't judge if u wanna smash me on the first date. I'd be offended if they didn't tbh

But have never had sex on the first date. I did blow him tho.

[GRAND]

Nope.

I prefer sex first then the date to make things less awkward. Sometimes sex while on a date is amazing as well.

U KILL ME
honestly, lets just fuck when we first meet to go head and get it out the way

!!

Yes marg

Clearly we connected if we're on a date

[Cartierline]

Yeah I kinda feel like if you fuck on the first date, what else is there to do really? It's possible that you COULD fuck on the first date and still have a long-term relationship after, but that's really unlikely imo.

Just keep it cute with some kissing.

what if you have it on the 2nd date? Or one month down the line? It goes downhill afterwards aswell or what?

Idk it might


Do you, hun. That was just my opinion on things.

[GRAND]

With all my long term Bfs we never did it on the first date

the opposite for me

Everyone I waited with, was a FAILURE

[GLOCK]

To Tons point .. That's sorta true
If both ppl have the same outlook on it then I can see it def working
But if one person doesn't quite believe in it ... Then I can see why one wouldn't get a call back

[Kurama]

That's that new age shit. Im not here for it.

which stance bby?

Sex on the 1st date.  It's like people use sex as a means to getting to know one another or decide to date someone(these days). Then they get surprised when their mess crumbles 4 days later cuz someone cheated. No disrespect   

I'm torn. Sex isn't the sole decidinh factor for me, when dating somebody. On the other hand if we're both cuddling and are hard as fuck, are we gonna do something about it or nah? Even just a handjob.

I thought Glock meant full blown sex idk. I see ur point tho.

Im not saying it's not a possibility for something to flourish(probably wont be the healthiest tho) but I just think its really unlikely.

[charlie.]

I mean what is the purpose of dating if we just fuckin at the end of the night? That in my opinion makes you a fwb.

also true. I wish it was that easy though.

I have learned to set the standard from the beginning. If we are just smashing then it will strictly be only that. If we are dating and the potential is there to be in a relationship then having sex so early in the game taints things imo. It can in some cases send the wrong message. Men are so fickle, most of the time even if the sex is poppin they can simply just be adding you to the roster of "homies they break off now and again".

Okay but what if,

SCENARIO:
You had a nice dinner and movie.

Get back to your place and you invited him in because you wanted to show him something you told him you had on the date that he wanted to see.

Like something y'all vibed over, like you have a special "COLLECTION"

and he was like
"OH WOW, I LOVE THOSE!"



and you invite him in after the night is over to look at your collection.
and y'all giggling and talking and mess.



then, a small silence happens and you glance over into his eyes and you noticed the color of them, and he starts looking sexier at the specific moment up close.

y'all have y'all first kiss,
then one thing lead to another...

sexual tension is heavy...

WHAT WOULD YA DO?


plz explain

[GLOCK]

I am talking about full out sex

[Vonc2002]

but yea, I dont think waiting to have sex does anything tbh. Honestly, im the type of person that talks and talks anyway so im pretty familiar with anyone I like and have decided to go on a date with. having sex isnt gonna change my perspective. If a person's goal was to smash and go thats gonna happen whether its date 1 or date 5.

[FlowerBomb]

With all my long term Bfs we never did it on the first date

the opposite for me

Everyone I waited with, was a FAILURE

[Gilgamesh.]

Nope.

I prefer sex first then the date to make things less awkward. Sometimes sex while on a date is amazing as well.

U KILL ME
honestly, lets just fuck when we first meet to go head and get it out the way

d,m.dmf

[Vonc2002]

With all my long term Bfs we never did it on the first date

the opposite for me

Everyone I waited with, was a FAILURE

so fck waiting and ATLEAST get a nut off?

[Kurama]

Sometimes building a lil tension is more arousing then going straight for the mess right off the bat

thats just me tho

[GRAND]

To Tons point .. That's sorta true
If both ppl have the same outlook on it then I can see it def working
But if one person doesn't quite believe in it ... Then I can see why one wouldn't get a call back

I've never had feelings for someone who wasn't sexually aggressive or mannish



I'm going to tell you day one that I think you're attractive

So that's the hint right there that I'm not shy, so you better not be either



But if someone wants to wait that's fine. I usually don't mesh well with those folks