I'm conflicted. I see it from both sides...
On one hand, if you are cheating then I have no sympathy for you when you get caught or exposed.
It sucks for you, but it's your own fault. If you weren't out fuckin around you wouldn't be in that situation.
On the other hand, outing someone is just wrong. It's something that everyone needs to do in their own time,
but when you start getting messy & dragging other people into your double life then you kinda set yourself up for it.