How do you handle disliking someone?

Started by Kurama, September 19, 2016, 05:15:03 PM

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Kurama

What makes you dislike someone?

What are some of the signs you notice (internally) when you dislike someone?

Do you let the person know you dislike them? How?

Can someone you dislike ever become liked?

:ohwow:

b7

Overly negative, pessimistic people that constantly complain or put others and themselves down. Its all very very draining. Anyone
mean spirited and gossip-y

And if im stuck with these kind of people in the work place, it becomes even more irritating and makes it that much more unlikely that I'll
ever use :dead: 

Cartierline

I can't stand fake/loud people; total opposite of me.

I usually just ignore them and avoid contact whenever I can.

b7

or even people that i once liked or befriended ...  over time, u get to know people and their circumstances or environment cause them to start acting out or a bit differently.  I've been on trips with some and just couldn't TAKE

"why we gotta do that!?  ooh NO thats too expensive! nah i aint got no money for all dat! blah blah blah" complaint after
complaint. 

its just always something. i cant do it and completely dislike that vibe

b7

to answer ur question though :dead:, i just distance myself bit by bit.

if they mean a lot to me, then i just let them know that their energy isn't CUTE and im not feelin it at all. Like, ur
bringing everyone down and dont even realize it  :-/ 

BUT if its some dummy that i have no feelings for either way, i just remove myself entirely. Become dry and a bit
cold/short

:letsmessfag:

wizzy

Anyone overtly rude/mean
big mouths/talkative & bossy

GRAND

September 19, 2016, 05:27:43 PM #6 Last Edit: September 19, 2016, 05:28:29 PM by GRAND
If I feel like I'm going to dislike shortly after meeting them, I ignore them to avoid harboring any positive/negative feelings towards them, because it could cause problem in the future.

If it's someone I HAVE to see occasionally (work/family/friend of a friend), they usually figure out I don't like them when there's little to no communication outside of the necessities.

The way I treat people I HATE -- is completely different. I usually want them to know I hate them by immature antics. But currently I don't hate anyone.

Kurama

Quote from: Rig's on September 19, 2016, 05:25:17 PM
to answer ur question though :dead:, i just distance myself bit by bit.

if they mean a lot to me, then i just let them know that their energy isn't CUTE and im not feelin it at all. Like, ur
bringing everyone down and dont even realize it  :-/ 

BUT if its some dummy that i have no feelings for either way, i just remove myself entirely. Become dry and a bit
cold/short

:letsmessfag:

Love how elaborate you were tbh

:flamebroiled:

Kurama

Quote from: GRAND on September 19, 2016, 05:27:43 PM

The way I treat people I HATE -- is completely different. I usually want them to know I hate them by immature antics.

Like what love?

Sonic

Quote from: Rig's on September 19, 2016, 05:20:47 PM
Overly negative, pessimistic people that constantly complain or put others and themselves down. Its all very very draining. Anyone
mean spirited and gossip-y

Lazarus

Quote from: Kurama on September 19, 2016, 05:29:44 PM
Quote from: GRAND on September 19, 2016, 05:27:43 PM

The way I treat people I HATE -- is completely different. I usually want them to know I hate them by immature antics.

Like what love?

Steev for example  :dead:

yummy

I don't like people who are argumentative or always need to have the last word or people who dress being a rude asshole up as just being "honest".

I'l just ignore you and tune out any trace of your existence tbh.

GRAND

Quote from: Lazarus on September 19, 2016, 05:31:14 PM
Quote from: Kurama on September 19, 2016, 05:29:44 PM
Quote from: GRAND on September 19, 2016, 05:27:43 PM

The way I treat people I HATE -- is completely different. I usually want them to know I hate them by immature antics.

Like what love?

Steev for example  :dead:
yeah

doing things to antagonize them, because once i feel crossed, i don't really give a shit what anyone thinks of me or what i do towards that person and i don't give a fck who they tell either.

:letsmessfag:

Sonic


Kurama

I usually dislike people who are dishonest, selfish, and excessive.

I've recently have been really resentful of people who use things that they have or accomplished to other themselves or bully people.


Went to an ivy league! Make more a year!

Can't stand shit like that in my social life.

I usually just ignore people but Im more prone to telling people I have issues with the way they conduct themselves, if we have to interact with each other often.