How do you handle disliking someone?

Started by Kurama, September 19, 2016, 05:15:03 PM

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Lazarus

Usually like to give people the benefit before making my call/assumption. However if I don't like you from jump I probably never will tbh. I simply ignore people I don't care for.

Kurama

What makes yall not like people from jump tho? Could your perception of someone be wrong or is it a done deal?

GRAND

Quote from: Kurama on September 19, 2016, 05:34:48 PM
I usually dislike people who are dishonest, selfish, and excessive.

I've recently have been really resentful of people who use things that they have or accomplished to other themselves or bully people.


Went to an ivy league! Make more a year!

Can't stand shit like that in my social life.

!!!

:plzstop:

The older I become, I realize that 99.999999999999% of Americans didn't grow up living like Richie Rich. Gloating has become the biggest turnoff for me.

The worst is when people try to sneak it into irrelevant topics.

'Discussion: Stuffed Teddy Bears'

"yeah when I went to the mall in my Ferrari(omg i had to get the oil changed that morning, it cost me 500 dollars), I stopped by build a bear workshop. They had cute stuff"

:kii: :kii: :kii:

Lazarus

Quote from: Kurama on September 19, 2016, 05:38:38 PM
What makes yall not like people from jump tho? Could your perception of someone be wrong or is it a done deal?

It's a done deal for me once I've observed the type of person you are in my surroundings.

GRAND

Quote from: Kurama on September 19, 2016, 05:38:38 PM
What makes yall not like people from jump tho? Could your perception of someone be wrong or is it a done deal?
I think most people have things that they perceive as negative personality traits

Cockiness, Attitude, Chipperness, Friendliness, Smugness, ect -- every way humans can come off.

All of these things, when we detect them early, we go 'oh. we won't be friends lolz'.

Usually I determine I'm not gonna like someone early, but I don't want to rule everyone out, so I give them a chance (IF I have to deal with them) and fake like I'm not annoyed/turned off by them. Sometimes we hit it off, sometimes we don't.

GRAND

I like this topic

btw mayday I don't like you

Kurama

Quote from: GRAND on September 19, 2016, 05:45:04 PM
Quote from: Kurama on September 19, 2016, 05:38:38 PM
What makes yall not like people from jump tho? Could your perception of someone be wrong or is it a done deal?
I think most people have things that they perceive as negative personality traits

Cockiness, Attitude, Chipperness, Friendliness, Smugness, ect -- every way humans can come off.

All of these things, when we detect them early, we go 'oh. we won't be friends lolz'.

Usually I determine I'm not gonna like someone early, but I don't want to rule everyone out, so I give them a chance (IF I have to deal with them) and fake like I'm not annoyed/turned off by them. Sometimes we hit it off, sometimes we don't.

We're definitely similar in that regard. Cockiness really bothers me too. Especially if someone is cocky and I don't really see why. Idk.

BAPHOMET.

Once i start to dislike someone its just best for me to ignore them completely to avoid confrontation. I do not like arguments and giving people who i dont use anymore my energy. Its as simple as that. And there's no coming back. I don't give people a second chance on anything ever.


SouravMay

I don't dislike people for the most part. Either I like you or I don't care.
B7

Kurama

Quote from: Baphomet. on September 19, 2016, 05:54:34 PM
I do not like arguments and giving people who i dont use anymore my energy.

Important af. I used to hate seeing friend's go back in forth with people they disliked.

SouravMay

Don't like boring, ?ber quiet, pessimistic, super sceptical or extremely introverted people. Hate people who get offended easily and fear confrontation.
B7

Kurama

Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on September 19, 2016, 05:58:30 PM
Don't like boring, ?ber quiet, pessimistic, super sceptical or extremely introverted people. Hate people who get offended easily and fear confrontation.

What do you mean by skeptical? Anything in particular?

Vonc2002

I usually just dont deal with people I dont like irl. Im very good with selective sight, so i can walk right past someone and not even see em. If it's someone I HAVE to deal with (work) the conversation is the bare minimum, work related only. If they try to talk about anything else im pretty short and that drives the point that i dont wanna engage in conversation
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Kurama

Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 19, 2016, 06:32:46 PM
I usually just dont deal with people I dont like irl.

What makes u dislike them?

Vonc2002

September 19, 2016, 06:54:20 PM #29 Last Edit: September 19, 2016, 06:55:31 PM by Vonc2002
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I cant say what makes me dislike someone, that depends on TOO MUCH and is a case by case thing. Usually it's  just the type of person u are, how u treat people, etc. There are other cases where I wouldnt say I necessarily DISLIKED someone but I dont respect them and I choose not to associate myself with them. There were a couple of incidents on here that changed my mind about people. I dont deal with bigotry, discrimination, and prejudices being upheld. Tha whole race relation conversation on here really made me lose respect for a few and people that I would once be cool with, I wouldnt dare at this point. When something affects me on that level, where I now question your character or disagree with your core values, im no longer interested in associating myself with u. So the reasons I'd "dislike" someone or dont deal with people can be a multitude of things
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw