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[Kurama]

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[yummy]

I was becoming cool with a girl at my job, but she started acting like Tamar Braxton around me after she found out I was gay.

I keep my distance now

[SouravMay]

Like I wanted to be 'Bert deep in my heart since I was like 3 and not fckn Britney Spears. Bert was always my inspiration, and I always rooted for the boys in all the gaming shows. But iono for some reason I wanted to fit in with the girls so bad back then and started rejecting things that I associated with males that were being mean to me. And now I am fuming that I missed out on some of the cool stuff like being in a soccer club for dummy going to shitty Atomic Kitten choreo dance classes.

[SouravMay]

I am jealous. I need to give females a chance. But it just feels weird. There is this bisexual girl, who I respect. Maybe I should hang out more with her.

[SouravMay]

I was becoming cool with a girl at my job, but she started acting like Tamar Braxton around me after she found out I was gay.

I keep my distance now

[GRAND]

I was becoming cool with a girl at my job, but she started acting like Tamar Braxton around me after she found out I was gay.

I keep my distance now

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The first time I told a stranger female I was gay at work, she said OMG WE CAN GO SHOPPING NOW

I almost slapped that bitch

[Kurama]

Wait, yall were talking about random girls? 

[SouravMay]

Do you also feel uncomfortable when/if you are in a friend group, and it is basically girl's night + you. I could NEVER. I don't see how gays do that.

[yummy]

I was becoming cool with a girl at my job, but she started acting like Tamar Braxton around me after she found out I was gay.

I keep my distance now

CCCVCCCXCCV

The first time I told a stranger female I was gay at work, she said OMG WE CAN GO SHOPPING NOW

I almost slapped that bitch

They always get always extra with you after they know what's up

I don't even act like that  why are you?

[Real]

And early on as a young black/Middle Eastern male I realized if I have a more sweet/soft demeanor and voice, I would not be villainified and demonized by teachers into some gangsta hoodlum. I developed an overtly articulate way of expressing myself and being super bubbly, so no one would ever think I am ghetto, mean or aggressive. The social stigma with being male and of color and working class, is hard to escape. You can basically x it out by acting a lil SWEET.

Now this I feel. I didn't act sweet, but I was very self conscious about the way that I spoke grammar/vocab wise growing up for those same reasons. I lived with white family members for a few years as a child and they always made me feel inferior as opposed to their children because of it and it followed me for years, until I started speaking and carrying myself like them. I didn't grow out of it until my teens. But even now in professional situations, I'll get done speaking and replay what I said in my head to make sure I was "correct." I have a black man's voice, I use slang, and naturally have an "ethnic" acvent. But I can turn it off and on in a split second. Pretty sure that's what started my disdain for white people

[SouravMay]

And early on as a young black/Middle Eastern male I realized if I have a more sweet/soft demeanor and voice, I would not be villainified and demonized by teachers into some gangsta hoodlum. I developed an overtly articulate way of expressing myself and being super bubbly, so no one would ever think I am ghetto, mean or aggressive. The social stigma with being male and of color and working class, is hard to escape. You can basically x it out by acting a lil SWEET.

it's pretty much like that in America



When you're a black male you're assumed to be aggressive and possibly violent but fags for the most part escape some of the sigma 

One of the few instances of feminine perceived/gay privilege for PoC's. 

[Real]

Do you guys like women and girls around as friends? Could you chill on a bed/couch with them or travel with them, share your deep feelings etc?

Some of my best friends in life or women. We do all of the above and more.

How much more 

[GRAND]

Do you also feel uncomfortable when/if you are in a friend group, and it is basically girl's night + you. I could NEVER. I don't see how gays do that.

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I perch with girls on vacation all the time.
There's usually 4 of us and posted to like 

Doesn't bother me

[Kurama]

I honestly am more skeptical about Blk gay men being real friends with Blk straight men. I was pretty biased about it and believed it was legit possible up until recently.

Anyway share sentiments or experienced a real Blk straight friend that you didnt try to sleep with & vice versa?

[Real]

I was becoming cool with a girl at my job, but she started acting like Tamar Braxton around me after she found out I was gay.

I keep my distance now

CCCVCCCXCCV

The first time I told a stranger female I was gay at work, she said OMG WE CAN GO SHOPPING NOW

I almost slapped that bitch