I'm just gonna go out and say it.

Afro you aren't necessarily conventionally attractive or handsome. And to be a feminine bottom you aren't tiny and petite either. So when you constantly talk about all these West Indian muscular men that you mate with, and who apparently chase you, it comes off either unrealistic or very very insecure on your part, cause you should be aware that your look isn't what society, especially in the gay world, deems top notch and therefore you might have a need to compensate that with showing that also you can bag atttactive men. Just a guess.
I hope you don't take this as an offense. Just trying to express what ppl might feel. And why there is tension.