#Honesty Hour: Have you ever been jealous of one of your friends?

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Vonc2002

Quote from: MelMel on October 18, 2016, 11:33:34 PM
never jealous. Always happy for their achievements. Only when I was at my lowest mentally did I feel like I haven't done much in my life compared to them though, I'll admit.
Yea, but that still isn't jealousy tho. I think seeing someone succeed can definitely make u reevaluate what ur doing and what u need to do to become more satisfied in ur own life
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MelMel

Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 18, 2016, 11:36:22 PM
Quote from: MelMel on October 18, 2016, 11:33:34 PM
never jealous. Always happy for their achievements. Only when I was at my lowest mentally did I feel like I haven't done much in my life compared to them though, I'll admit.
Yea, but that still isn't jealousy tho. I think seeing someone succeed can definitely make u reevaluate what ur doing and what u need to do to become more satisfied in ur own life
yes!!!!!

Young

Not jealous but I definitely have friends that have done and do things that I aspire to do.

And vice versa.

That's what friends are for IMO.
Make eachother better and inspire one another


MelMel

Quote from: Young on October 18, 2016, 11:41:02 PM
Not jealous but I definitely have friends that have done and do things that I aspire to do.

And vice versa.

That's what friends are for IMO.
Make eachother better and inspire one another
!!!!!!!!!!!  :stressed: :stressed:

Vonc2002

Quote from: Young on October 18, 2016, 11:41:02 PM
Not jealous but I definitely have friends that have done and do things that I aspire to do.

And vice versa.

That's what friends are for IMO.
Make eachother better and inspire one another
YES! Jealous has never come to my mind when thinking of my friends and/or their accomplishments.
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





Vonc2002

This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





Young



FINE.

Quote from: da trade b thirstay on October 18, 2016, 11:48:43 PM
I think the word "jealousy" is given such a heavy weight, that people disassociate themselves with it.

Example:

Now being "jealous" of your friend...and saying "awww that's so cool, dang I want that too!" (which is essentially what you're saying if their accomplishments move you to aspire for the same) Could easily be mistaken for one another, depending on who you ask.

Envy is a very dark and powerful word. And it's directly associate with jealousy. I don't think anyone should feel that type of thing towards anyone they consider to be a friend. But I do agree that saying "Awww, I want that too! Lemme get on my mess and get it!" To me it's a lil jealousy lol. but it's cute jealousy and useful jealousy.

Not sitting somewhere fuming at your own friend for them doing well. You should be happy you're associated with people who are making moves in life. Birds of the feather.
sdhshshshs

Everything you've said I said earlier

It's just..how I see it tbh

Rxxf

BRANDY

Rxxf

I can't tell the last time I focused on what someone else was doing, though.
:dead:
I have such a tight relationship with God/universe, that it's mainly just "us" that I attend to.
BRANDY

Vonc2002

Quote from: R on October 18, 2016, 11:53:32 PM
Inspired, the most.
Never jealous.
This seems to be the consensus, except for a couple of jealous ones here and there :ohwow:
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw






Rxxf

And no shade, but this shouldn't be limited to friends...

Some family members can do the most when they see you're doing well...
BRANDY

Vonc2002

Quote from: R on October 18, 2016, 11:56:40 PM
I can't tell the last time I focused on what someone else was doing, though.
:dead:
Now THIS is true too. Im very focused on me and how i can better myself. I don't look around to see who has what, who's doing what, etc. I take inventory and self reflect  on my life all by myself and decide "am i happy here", "why or why not", "if no, what can i do to get myself where i wanna go"
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





Rxxf

Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 19, 2016, 12:01:12 AM
Quote from: R on October 18, 2016, 11:56:40 PM
I can't tell the last time I focused on what someone else was doing, though.
:dead:
Now THIS is true too. Im very focused on me and how i can better myself. I don't look around to see who has what, who's doing what, etc. Im take inventory of my life all by myself and decide "am i happy here", "why or why not", "if no, what can i do to get myself where i wanna go"

!!!!!!!!!!!
In all honesty.
BRANDY