I think the comment about my hair is so stupid. On my instagram you can literally see bantu knots, braids, relaxed hair, natural hair, short, long... I just switch it up. There is no reoccuring pattern of trying to look, like something I am not, or pass for a race that I am not.
The comment is just stupid. I am not even that fancy or boastful with my hair.
It would be a different story, if I tried to grease and oil up my hair every day for hours and then basking in comments about my curls, as if they are special. If somebody wants curls, they can have them. it is that easy. I know hair.