Do you think Black women blame gay men for them being single?

Started by BranLover, November 22, 2016, 09:41:51 PM

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Quote from: Kurama on November 22, 2016, 10:23:59 PM
I do think generally though, both sides exaggerate what the other is doing.

I think some women definitely get bothered by the whole gay men & white women taking all the good men.

I do think some gay men feel like its a competition with black women, especially if they feel like Black women generally direct hate towards them.

I think it boils down to the pressure of women still feeling like they have to compete for a man's affection and gay men buy into that too, especially the ones who are more "feminine" oriented. The gender binary fucks shit up.

I was going to say something shady but I actually bothered to read this post.

Wait...  :ohwow:


Sinpool

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I wish I could meet the millions of black men that are turning gay since gays and lesbians outnumber straight like so many in the black community believe.

Reminds me of how white people just need to see 5% of minorities in their communities and they believe it's being over run.


Sinpool

Most of the time though if it's an effeminate gay men than only overtly homophobic women will drag him
but if it's somebody that looks like Boris Kojoe or Idris Alba then the disgust gets a bit extra.


Myron

Chile. its kind of Obvious.

Their pressed because they see so many attractive, successful gay men that they would want for themselves and cannot have.

its a " Dammm he gay too". Their disappointed.

I dont blame them though, being a black women looking for a man seems hard.

Scott.

I've always been told not to trust many women. The main ones that be here for you, using the lingo, getting the tea ain't really here for u. I learned that when the same sex marriage law was passed, and one of my homegirls from college when on a facebook rant about how demonic it is and disgusted she was by the thought of same sex marriage, when she was one of the first people I came out in college and she was holding my hand encouraging me to be who I was.

FAKE ho.


Scott.

Quote from: TAE! on November 22, 2016, 10:04:33 PM
Quote from: imani on November 22, 2016, 10:00:51 PM
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Y'all need to get real. These black girls are pressed about Susan and them getting wifed up by these black men. They could careless about the faggs. At most they don't find it normal due to religious reasons but they're not competing with them. ;ddd just being honest. If anything it's the other way around. Gay men try to compete with them.

I can agree with your last sentence, but it's not all gay men who are trying to compete just like all black women aren't mad at gay men. Definitely a good number of them though.

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Scott.

Quote from: Kaeli. on November 22, 2016, 10:09:04 PM
Quote from: imani on November 22, 2016, 10:00:51 PM
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Y'all need to get real. These black girls are pressed about Susan and them getting wifed up by these black men. They could careless about the faggs. At most they don't find it normal due to religious reasons but they're not competing with them. ;ddd just being honest. If anything it's the other way around. Gay men try to compete with them.

Kinda agrees

I feel like Black women are more annoyed by women of other races (specifically white) "stealing" the black men from them. Never really hear black women talk about gays negatively except for the whole "they wanna be me!!" Thing. I don't think black women find gays a threat when it comes to them stealing their man.

But I don't think we are "stealing" anything from them.



4 fucking k

Honestly ALL black American men are disgusting. Gay, straight, crossdressers, thugs, etc. ALL. Always trying to blame black women for their insecurities and issues but expecting them to be there when shit hits the fan. Weak selves. :blessed: and whats sad is that black women hold them down regardless.


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