When do YOU decide it's time to cut ties???

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Kurama

Quote from: MelMel on December 02, 2016, 03:10:47 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on December 02, 2016, 02:20:46 PM
When you've offended me to the core.  Like, not "those shoes are ugly" but something that just completely disagrees with my morality.  And with that, also when someone has shown character flaws that i just can't handle. But honestly, I'm pretty open to excepting people and their traits so i don't really lose true friends too often
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Fuck u still

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Mel answer the damn question and drag Vonc later
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MelMel

Quote from: Kurama on December 02, 2016, 03:16:37 PM
Quote from: MelMel on December 02, 2016, 03:10:47 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on December 02, 2016, 02:20:46 PM
When you've offended me to the core.  Like, not "those shoes are ugly" but something that just completely disagrees with my morality.  And with that, also when someone has shown character flaws that i just can't handle. But honestly, I'm pretty open to excepting people and their traits so i don't really lose true friends too often
awwwww

Fuck u still

s

Mel answer the damn question and drag Vonc later
:watchit:
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I have only cut off two people: my Church bottom Queen of an uncle because he's consistently rude and disrespectful and tries his whole life every time I see him, and my father for two years because he and my mom and siblings got into this huge fight and my family was almost destroyed.

I have to be fed up to the point of anger and disgust to cut you off from my life.

Stunna Gor’

For me.... There's never really a "time" or peak point. I usually let things build up overtime or I just realize somebody is adding nothing of value to my life and then I'll just randomly cut the person off without exchange of words or any significant "trigger".

I can say though when I feel like I'm being used and gaining nothing from a friendship, I'm definitely ready to cut it off.

MelMel


Stunna Gor’

Quote from: MelMel on December 02, 2016, 03:29:42 PM
I love you fag
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I just read yours we are always >><<

I drag mess out to the point where I literally can't stand to be around someone before I let them go. :dead: but once I move on from a friendship, I can make up n stuff and be friendly but I have no desire to reignite the friendship.

Love you more bby!!!!!
:traciandchelle:

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When you cross me it's over. Forever.
Plus I'm at the stage in my life where I refuse to argue, we can either respectfully disagree and move foreward or I can read you one got time and move forward without you.
Most of my friends I've known for over a decade. They know me through and through and I know them. And for the new friends I'm usually the turn up friend that's there for all fun purposes.
When friends get into it with each other, I pump. I want no parts of the mess.  :sobusyjetsetter:
Hear 'em swarmin', right? (Zz) 🐝 🐝  is known to bite (Zz, zz)
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https://justiceforbreonna.org/

Kurama

Quote from: Trey on December 02, 2016, 03:43:05 PM
Quote from: MelMel on December 02, 2016, 03:29:42 PM
I love you fag
SSDDDSSSSDDDDDDSDDDD

I just read yours we are always >><<

I drag mess out to the point where I literally can't stand to be around someone before I let them go. :dead: but once I move on from a friendship, I can make up n stuff and be friendly but I have no desire to reignite the friendship.

Love you more bby!!!!!
:traciandchelle:

wow we're kinda opposite guys  :ohwow:

Kurama

Quote from: Sleigh My Name on December 02, 2016, 03:49:34 PM
When you cross me it's over. Forever.
Plus I'm at the stage in my life where I refuse to argue, we can either respectfully disagree and move foreward or I can read you one got time and move forward without you.
Most of my friends I've known for over a decade. They know me through and through and I know them. And for the new friends I'm usually the turn up friend that's there for all fun purposes.
When friends get into it with each other, I pump. I want no parts of the mess.  :sobusyjetsetter:

What is crossing you though?

Kurama

I also mentioned relationships with lovers too yall.

What is crossing the line for you specifically?

Example: some people are okay with being cheated on, they continue to try to work it out with their partner. I have a zero tolerance pol' on physical cheating.

BAPHOMET.

Quote from: Kurama on December 02, 2016, 04:23:33 PM
. I have a zero tolerance pol' on physical cheating.

Same. If i tried to stay it'd just make me hostile towards every little thing they do. Thats no way to live.


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Quote from: Kurama on December 02, 2016, 04:21:39 PM
Quote from: Sleigh My Name on December 02, 2016, 03:49:34 PM
When you cross me it's over. Forever.
Plus I'm at the stage in my life where I refuse to argue, we can either respectfully disagree and move foreward or I can read you one got time and move forward without you.
Most of my friends I've known for over a decade. They know me through and through and I know them. And for the new friends I'm usually the turn up friend that's there for all fun purposes.
When friends get into it with each other, I pump. I want no parts of the mess.  :sobusyjetsetter:

What is crossing you though?

Crossing me is any malicious intent.
Number 1 being spilling my tea. I'm very big on trust.
Hear 'em swarmin', right? (Zz) 🐝 🐝  is known to bite (Zz, zz)
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https://justiceforbreonna.org/

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Quote from: Kurama on December 02, 2016, 04:23:33 PM
I also mentioned relationships with lovers too yall.

What is crossing the line for you specifically?

Example: some people are okay with being cheated on, they continue to try to work it out with their partner. I have a zero tolerance pol' on physical cheating.

Crossing the line to me is lying or withholding information.
If you fucked up, let me know and let's see if there's a way to work on it.
I'm not even saying I'd be forgiving. I'm just saying I'd respect it more.

Relationship or friendship, once you put your hands on me. It's over.
If me and my siblings have never had a physical altercation, i def dont see why i would tolerate one with anyone else.

Another thing for me is once it's over and it ended on bad terms. I'm going to act like you never fucking existed. No life will be given.
Hear 'em swarmin', right? (Zz) 🐝 🐝  is known to bite (Zz, zz)
——————///——————-
https://justiceforbreonna.org/

Kurama

Quote from: Sleigh My Name on December 02, 2016, 05:04:27 PM
Quote from: Kurama on December 02, 2016, 04:23:33 PM
I also mentioned relationships with lovers too yall.

What is crossing the line for you specifically?

Example: some people are okay with being cheated on, they continue to try to work it out with their partner. I have a zero tolerance pol' on physical cheating.



Another thing for me is once it's over and it ended on bad terms. I'm going to act like you never fucking existed. No life will be given.
wow im exactly the same


Kurama

My best friends and I used to scrap a bit.

I used to be okay with semi-physical disputes until I smacked my ex a lil too hard one day and he had a fit.

Now I wouldn't dream of it
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