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[Glenda]

First of all, Happy Holidays



I need your expert advice, sisters. If a guy that you like and are friends with is struggling with his sexuality and he latches on to you a bit, how do you deal with that?

I mean, it's cute that he wants to hook up and explore a bit, but I'm looking for something more. I need to figure out where his head is at before I drop down to my knees for him and stuff. But at the same time I'm like... this fag is giving me a headache with his foolishness and I want out.



This morning I woke up to a message from him after not talking for like a week and he apologized for being a mess and he says that he knows I'm worthy and he wants to build a connection... but nigga I need to see actions. Words without action is fluff, boo.

What would you do?

[FlowerBomb]

If it were me, I'd drop him
Don't have time for that foolishness

[JRocka]

I agree with Jay'd....Glenda you are a great guy honestly it feels like he's messing with your emotion and trying to explore the sexual side and not the compassionate side tbh just be careful when it boils down to the final decision of what you wanna do with this guy.

[Glenda]

If it were me, I'd drop him
Don't have time for that foolishness

I've dropped him like 4 times tho

[Glenda]

I agree with Jay'd....Glenda you are a great guy honestly it feels like he's messing your emotion and trying to explore the sexual side and not the compassionate side tbh

!!!!!!!!!!!!! That's what it feels like to me too 

[FlowerBomb]

If it were me, I'd drop him
Don't have time for that foolishness

I've dropped him like 4 times tho

[Kurama]

If he's curious and you're open to showing him thats fine. Don't get too attached though that curiosity can turn into full fledged immersion, no telling how he will be when he really dabbles in the culture.

I wouldn't though, I can't deal with anyone who isn't secure with who they are, even while discovering new facets of life.

[JRocka]

If it were me, I'd drop him
Don't have time for that foolishness

I've dropped him like 4 times tho

wait what...the fifth time is the charm  is the same one we use to chat about?

[FlowerBomb]

cut him off, those closet cases can get too attached and stalkerish

[JRocka]

cut him off, those closet cases can get too attached and stalkerish

!!!! they don't know what they want till you move to greener pastures ...all of sudden they keep popping up and wanna be there for you

[Glenda]

If it were me, I'd drop him
Don't have time for that foolishness

I've dropped him like 4 times tho

This fag takes me back even after I block him on all social media for a month

"Sor' bae! I know we didn't talk for a month. You know I'm kinda craz' and 'motional! LMAO!"

[FlowerBomb]

If it were me, I'd drop him
Don't have time for that foolishness

I've dropped him like 4 times tho

This fag takes me back even after I block him on all social media for a month

"Sor' bae! I know we didn't talk for a month. You know I'm kinda craz' and 'motional! LMAO!"

fffff he's a liar and a user
I see MESS

[Glenda]

cut him off, those closet cases can get too attached and stalkerish

!!!! they don't know what they want till you move to greener pastures ...all of sudden they keep popping up and wanna be there for you

Gorl Imma have to send you the messages, because....

[Glenda]

If it were me, I'd drop him
Don't have time for that foolishness

I've dropped him like 4 times tho

wait what...the fifth time is the charm  is the same one we use to chat about?

YES! The Latino dude. 

[Glenda]

If he's curious and you're open to showing him thats fine. Don't get too attached though that curiosity can turn into full fledged immersion, no telling how he will be when he really dabbles in the culture.

I wouldn't though, I can't deal with anyone who isn't secure with who they are, even while discovering new facets of life.

!!!!!!!!!!!

This poor closet case....

I have a soft spot for him because he's so sweet. But I see he can be manipulative af.