Gather around, gorls. If a guy is struggling with his sexuality and he...

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Glenda


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Let him go boo .  You know who you are , he doesn't . He will never choose you over a woman if he's struggling with his sexuality . Image is everything for these types . I've been there before . I don't care how fine he is . Not worth the headache . He's going to have you on an emotional roller coaster as long as you allow it .


Glenda

Quote from: Ntwadumela on December 21, 2016, 06:32:49 PM
Let him go boo .  You know who you are , he doesn't . He will never choose you over a woman if he's struggling with his sexuality . Image is everything for these types . I've been there before . I don't care how fine he is . Not worth the headache . He's going to have you on an emotional roller coaster as long as you allow it .

Thanks for your honest advice, sis.

:stressed:

I've already told him what it is in terms of me wanting a relationship. I guess I should have just followed my initial instinct and kept his ass blocked the first time.

:hmph:

Glenda

Quote from: Tahj Zezo. on December 21, 2016, 07:27:02 PM
Quote from: Glenda on December 21, 2016, 06:16:18 PM
Quote from: Tahj Zezo. on December 21, 2016, 06:14:39 PM
How attractive is he?



I haven't seen him in person in years. He's Latino. He's about an 8.

LiBra has seen him.



Oh boy. Just block his number and keep it to moving.



I block him but then I always end up feeling bad and unblock his ass.

He's a mess.


Lane Bryant Jumpsuit

with someone who is struggling with their sexuality you have to make them feel that its okay to talk about it
ok to explore and be supportive in their journey and thats as a friend first
if you are trying to get him to do some hanky panky or trying to push his boundaries pre maturely it will reverse the  process

its not an overnight deal
if you want to at least be friends with him your going to have to guide him thru it



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Glenda

Quote from: TheNextLew on December 21, 2016, 07:30:07 PM
with someone who is struggling with their sexuality you have to make them feel that its okay to talk about it
ok to explore and be supportive in their journey and thats as a friend first
if you are trying to get him to do some hanky panky or trying to push his boundaries pre maturely it will reverse the  process

its not an overnight deal
if you want to at least be friends with him your going to have to guide him thru it

I mean, I want to be his friend but this nigga needs to find some stability and consistency. He's so hot and cold. I've blown up on him once about it before. Even if we never end up dating, I still do care about him and his well being.

:dead:

Lane Bryant Jumpsuit

Quote from: Glenda on December 21, 2016, 07:44:56 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on December 21, 2016, 07:30:07 PM
with someone who is struggling with their sexuality you have to make them feel that its okay to talk about it
ok to explore and be supportive in their journey and thats as a friend first
if you are trying to get him to do some hanky panky or trying to push his boundaries pre maturely it will reverse the  process

its not an overnight deal
if you want to at least be friends with him your going to have to guide him thru it

I mean, I want to be his friend but this nigga needs to find some stability and consistency. He's so hot and cold. I've blown up on him once about it before. Even if we never end up dating, I still do care about him and his well being.

:dead:

I see well the best thing you can do is show him that its okay and that its normal
and wait for him to come around and decide whats what
some guys hide behind a girlfriend or whatever its a security blanket sometimes lol
just hug him and tell him you care :wub:



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Glenda

Quote from: TheNextLew on December 21, 2016, 07:50:40 PM
Quote from: Glenda on December 21, 2016, 07:44:56 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on December 21, 2016, 07:30:07 PM
with someone who is struggling with their sexuality you have to make them feel that its okay to talk about it
ok to explore and be supportive in their journey and thats as a friend first
if you are trying to get him to do some hanky panky or trying to push his boundaries pre maturely it will reverse the  process

its not an overnight deal
if you want to at least be friends with him your going to have to guide him thru it

I mean, I want to be his friend but this nigga needs to find some stability and consistency. He's so hot and cold. I've blown up on him once about it before. Even if we never end up dating, I still do care about him and his well being.

:dead:
some guys hide behind a girlfriend or whatever its a security blanket sometimes lol
just hug him and tell him you care :wub:

:usuresis:


L0NZ.

Just use him for what he wants, when you want the same thing. If you think he only wants to explore sexually, then oblige when you want a nut and let that be that.


MelMel


L0NZ.



Lane Bryant Jumpsuit




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Glenda

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Gorls, I have a little more self-respect than that  :uhh:

He keep playing his cards right tho...