Serious question. Am I in the wrong?

Started by CHOKE, March 12, 2017, 01:36:33 PM

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CHOKE

A person who I thought was a really good friend didnt come to my bday party because she claims she didn't like the people who were coming.

So I was just gonna write her ass off because it was MY birthday  :uhh:

But she starts hitting me up again. And I send all her mess to voice mail

But I shouldn't feel guilty right?

I was the victim in this. Right?

🦚

If someone feels uncomfortable you need to respect that.
Just place yourself in their shoes for a second.
Lastly you should be happy they chose not to come then to come and there to be a potential mess at your party.
Hear 'em swarmin', right? (Zz) 🐝 🐝  is known to bite (Zz, zz)
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https://justiceforbreonna.org/

Rxxf

Quote from: Cho-Ku on March 12, 2017, 01:36:33 PM
A person who I thought was a really good friend didnt come to my bday party because she claims she didn't like the people who were coming.

So I was just gonna write her ass off because it was MY birthday  :uhh:

But she starts hitting me up again. And I send all her mess to voice mail

But I shouldn't feel guilty right?

I was the victim in this. Right?

Don't get mad at her.
She still adores you.
You both should PLAN your own date together.
BRANDY

CHOKE

I really don't want an explanation.

She's the type of person who has a problem with everyone so this behavior isn't new

I feel like if you're a real friend you would have been there regardless

CHOKE

March 12, 2017, 01:43:10 PM #4 Last Edit: March 12, 2017, 01:44:06 PM by Cho-Ku
And when I texted her if she was coming she replied

"Doubt it"

Like GORl are you foreal?

There are other bitches more than willing to feel your space

:uhh:

Rxxf

You're doing too much.
Talk to her.
Understand why.

Create events for just you and her.
BRANDY

Nine



CHOKE

Quote from: SingBran on March 12, 2017, 01:44:06 PM
You're doing too much.
Talk to her.
Understand why.

Create events for just you and her.

This was my day and she wasn't there for me when I needed her

That's just how I feel


Camo

If you feel there are others to fill her place don't worry about it because you don't seem that caring of her feelings because of your birthday.
If she always has a problem with others don't force her to be uncomfortable for you.

🦚

Quote from: Cho-Ku on March 12, 2017, 01:47:13 PM
Quote from: SingBran on March 12, 2017, 01:44:06 PM
You're doing too much.
Talk to her.
Understand why.

Create events for just you and her.

This was my day and she wasn't there for me when I needed her

That's just how I feel



Was it your quinceanera??

Hear 'em swarmin', right? (Zz) 🐝 🐝  is known to bite (Zz, zz)
——————///——————-
https://justiceforbreonna.org/

Rxxf

Quote from: Cho-Ku on March 12, 2017, 01:47:13 PM
Quote from: SingBran on March 12, 2017, 01:44:06 PM
You're doing too much.
Talk to her.
Understand why.

Create events for just you and her.

This was my day and she wasn't there for me when I needed her

That's just how I feel



You can feel that way.
But it doesn't make it true.

You both sound selfish.
It's best to come together, TALK, and figure out how GROWN people can stay connected without all the extra negative energy they choose to not be around.
BRANDY

CHOKE

March 12, 2017, 01:50:42 PM #12 Last Edit: March 12, 2017, 01:51:57 PM by Cho-Ku
These are not the responses that I wanted

:guys:

Rxxf

Quote from: Cho-Ku on March 12, 2017, 01:50:42 PM
These are not these responses that I wanted

:guys:

Well it's the ones you're getting HUN.
BRANDY