Serious question. Am I in the wrong?

Started by CHOKE, March 12, 2017, 01:36:33 PM

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Vonc2002

My friend just had a bday celebration and i didn't go.  I was going thru some shit of my own and just wasnt in the mood tbh. I  told my friend just that and she understood.  Honestly, if she didn't then i would have a problem with her and not really care about the friendship.  Yea, its your bday. Congrats. My life and my problems don't cease because of that. 
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





Rxxf

March 12, 2017, 01:54:45 PM #16 Last Edit: March 12, 2017, 01:55:32 PM by SingBran
Get to the truth of it
Don't be a brat, cause then you're acting "the same way" as your friend

TALK about it
One-on-One

Some people just don't care to MINGLE in a group setting like that, with people they have issues with
Especially if the only person they care for is the Birthday Boy -- who will be too busy jumping from friend to friend all night

Allow her to celebrate you in her OWN way
Not celebrate you the WAY YOU WANT IT
BRANDY



CHOKE

March 12, 2017, 01:58:20 PM #19 Last Edit: March 12, 2017, 01:59:11 PM by Cho-Ku
Why am I being attacked. I'm the victim in this

:diddraispoot:

Everyone who I invited showed up. There  were people there who didn't like eachother but they came because it was my day and they put the mess aside.

If I cant even get your ass to come to my birthday day are you not going to show up to my wedding, baby shower etc?

KING BENTLEY.

'Chard isn't telling the full truth. A bit of alternative facts tea

This girl is prolly fed up with how 'Chard act, cause why would she say "doubt it"

I don't think 'Chard is good friend material, I wouldn't go to his parties unless it was to steal the show or fight him tbh
:damselindistress:


Oh .... and also .... none of this story is true. So we have to remember that as well
:butwait!:

H.#.G.*.Z

LOONA.

Quote from: Cho-Ku on March 12, 2017, 01:41:17 PM

She's the type of person who has a problem with everyone so this behavior isn't new



So why are you friends with her?   :uhh:     

Rxxf

Quote from: Cho-Ku on March 12, 2017, 01:58:20 PM
Why am I being attacked. I'm the victim in this

:diddraispoot:

Everyone who I invited showed up. There  were people there who didn't like eachother but they came because it was my day and they put the mess aside.

If I cant even get your ass to come to my birthday day are you not going to show up to my wedding, baby shower etc?

The KII is...
The same people who showed up, probably don't give a fuck about you, really.
Friendship isn't always measured in that way.
BRANDY

Nine

Quote from: SingBran on March 12, 2017, 02:00:46 PM
Quote from: Cho-Ku on March 12, 2017, 01:58:20 PM
Why am I being attacked. I'm the victim in this

:diddraispoot:

Everyone who I invited showed up. There  were people there who didn't like eachother but they came because it was my day and they put the mess aside.

If I cant even get your ass to come to my birthday day are you not going to show up to my wedding, baby shower etc?

The KII is...
The same people who showed up, probably don't give a fuck about you, really.
Friendship isn't always measured in that way.
what the

:omgwatshappening:

CHOKE

Quote from: Drais. on March 12, 2017, 02:00:31 PM
Quote from: Cho-Ku on March 12, 2017, 01:41:17 PM

She's the type of person who has a problem with everyone so this behavior isn't new



So why are you friends with her?   :uhh:     

All my friends share at least some part of my personality

We both like to sit back and kii at people and she's the only girl that can stay in the mall as long as me and not get tired

Vonc2002

Quote from: Cho-Ku on March 12, 2017, 01:58:20 PM
Why am I being attacked. I'm the victim in this

:diddraispoot:
U sound like a terrible friend.  Did u die?  She told u that she was uncomfortable and ur response is "so what. ME!  MY BIRTHDAY!" Everyone isnt the same.  Just because someone else can deal with confrontation or being in the midst of people they arent comfortable around doesnt mean this girl should just suck it up cause they did.  U aren't being considerate of her at all but somehow u expect all the consideration in the world.  She should just say good riddance and call it a day
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





Vonc2002

Quote from: Drais. on March 12, 2017, 02:00:31 PM
Quote from: Cho-Ku on March 12, 2017, 01:41:17 PM

She's the type of person who has a problem with everyone so this behavior isn't new



So why are you friends with her?   :uhh:     
And this!!!!!!!!
U don't sound like u give 2 shits about her anyway.  U sound like one of those shady friends that talk about her when she isn't around.  Just leave each other alone tbh :dead:
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





Camo

You're not being attacked you're getting a difference of opinions. I think you're maybe being a brat and you are hurt that she's not putting it aside for you but..... You're gonna have more birthdays. If she sticks around she will come to one lol.

Vonc2002

Quote from: Cho-Ku on March 12, 2017, 02:02:37 PM
Quote from: Drais. on March 12, 2017, 02:00:31 PM
Quote from: Cho-Ku on March 12, 2017, 01:41:17 PM

She's the type of person who has a problem with everyone so this behavior isn't new



So why are you friends with her?   :uhh:     

All my friends share at least some part of my personality

We both like to sit back and kii at people and she's the only girl that can stay in the mall as long as me and not get tired
f
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





CHOKE

wtf

:omgwatshappening:

Am not here for these excuses that y'all are making for this inconsiderate gorl