Is monogamy important to you?

Started by Kurama, April 04, 2017, 02:32:42 PM

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Boomz

Quote from: Kurama on April 04, 2017, 03:34:28 PM
Quote from: Boomer on April 04, 2017, 03:16:30 PM
Quote from: Baphomet. on April 04, 2017, 03:03:12 PM
Quote from: Boomer on April 04, 2017, 03:00:38 PM
Quote from: RIGS on April 04, 2017, 02:55:24 PM
its important to me, but i dont judge anyone that does whatever else if their man agrees to it.

I wish it wasn't important to me tho. I feel like people would be a lot happier

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OMF! Cause it's hard out here trying to find someone who is willing to commit to JUST u.
Sometimes I find myself thinking to myself, "Damn, am I too uptight? Should I just go with flow?
:uhh:"

This goes back to that discussion before about being ok with being alone and still being alone at a certain age (40 something) because u haven't found what you're looking for.

I be thinking about this when it comes to other people tbh. When people who seem like they are perfect for each other or the guy seems like the sweetest and most honest person in the world. But they STILL cheat



It's crazy
And Snapchat, Instagram, etc. have done nothing but make it harder to maintain monogamy.
I don't have the time to give an Inspector Gadget mess and creeping on your social media to make sure you ain't messin on the side. At the same time I couldn't be Tammy (Waka's gal) or Tiny and let shit fly for so long that it becomes MY NORM.

Agreed, what the fuck do ya do?

Occupation? An accounts payable clerk

Kurama

Quote from: Corporate Cannibal. on April 04, 2017, 04:31:59 PM
VERY important. Cheating is a deal breaker. I don't care if it was just once! Because if you do it once you will PROBABLY do it again. And that trust has been broken. Ain't no threesomes and all of that bullshit either. You either want to just be with ME, or you don't.
:calmdownsis:

BigDawg

I like monogamy, I can not get into open relationships. What is the point...just be single.

BigDawg

Quote from: Corporate Cannibal. on April 04, 2017, 04:33:33 PM
I really feel like I'll never be in a relationship. Everyone just wants to fuck.

Boomz

Quote from: Kurama on April 04, 2017, 03:41:27 PM
Quote from: Sleigh It Right on April 04, 2017, 03:36:54 PM
If social media is a "threat" to you relationship... it's built on a very weak foundation.

Anyone can get cheated on ...I'm not going to act exempt to the mess. But y'all know when you're dealing with a straight up dog.

At first I thought the same thing. Social media does give you access to a larger pool of folks, new interactions to monitor, and essentially a new platform that has its own way tempting someone. Your partner definitely is responsible but it's not reasonable to think that having all this access to new/different folks at the touch of a button doesn't affect things.

Flat the fck OWT!

"Secure in mines!"

If u say so  :kii:

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Quote from: stillpretti. on April 04, 2017, 04:32:17 PM
men just aren't designed for monogamy.

for the ones that feel that way they don't need to enter into a relationship. Stay single and fuck around then.

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Kurama

Quote from: stillpretti. on April 04, 2017, 04:32:17 PM
men just aren't designed for monogamy. I think thats something women can do almost effortlessly unless they feel neglected. But I feel that men have to make an EFFORT to simply NOT stick their peen in anything with a hole.

Idk, do biosocial factors outweigh critical thinking though?

LOONA.

April 04, 2017, 04:38:56 PM #112 Last Edit: April 04, 2017, 04:39:08 PM by Drais.
Quote from: stillpretti. on April 04, 2017, 04:32:17 PM
men just aren't designed for monogamy.

You're designed for this beatdown though.     

Kurama

Quote from: BigDawg on April 04, 2017, 04:36:02 PM
Quote from: Corporate Cannibal. on April 04, 2017, 04:33:33 PM
I really feel like I'll never be in a relationship. Everyone just wants to fuck.

Eh, I think its normal to feel this way given the state of things. Don't think its necessarily true though.

BigDawg

Quote from: stillpretti. on April 04, 2017, 04:32:17 PM
men just aren't designed for monogamy. I think thats something women can do almost effortlessly unless they feel neglected. But I feel that men have to make an EFFORT to simply NOT stick their peen in anything with a hole.
I don't agree with that. Either someone wants to be in a relationship or fuck everything that moves, but I think it is moreso based on the individual.

FlowerBomb

April 04, 2017, 05:12:01 PM #115 Last Edit: April 04, 2017, 05:13:05 PM by Saint
Yh
The thought of my other half being with someone else makes me want to vomit, I've had experiences where I thought I could tolerate, but nope.




FlowerBomb