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[Kurama]

Ray's thread triggered a thought I've had a few times when I meet folks who have been together for years & years. Open relationships or relationships with "fun" are becoming a lot more visible these days.

A lot of gay men I've come across who have been with someone  1yr + invite other folks into their bedroom or know that there partner slips out sometimes.

That coupled with the way society glorifies "side chicks" and "mains" or the times our granddad step out on grandma and she stayed; Im wondering if being monogamous is becoming outdated??


Is monogamy something you value in relationships?

If you or your partner slip up, is that the end?

Can you be happy with someone who is casually with other folks?

[Cartierline]

Yes.

I'm too jealous, it has to be me and me alone.

[GLOCK]

I can't do any relationship that isn't monogamous tbh
I feel like anytime you invite someone into your bedroom you open the door for so many issues in ur relationship
It's already hard maintaining a faithful one ... but agreeing to other mess is agreeing to be cheated on imo

[BAPHOMET.]

I can't do any relationship that isn't monogamous tbh
I feel like anytime you invite someone into your bedroom you open the door for so many issues in ur relationship
It's already hard maintaining a faithful one ... but agreeing to other mess is agreeing to be cheated on imo

period.

[🦚]

Yes + I don't need you carrying home diseases from your tricking.

[BAPHOMET.]

There's just no point to even call it a "relationship" with all the revolving door of people in and out of it. 

of course an open mess can on longer in most cases because well... You're doing the "cheating" in plain sight and its LOL! lmao! How good were they bae? 

[Ｂｏｏｍｚ]

lmao! How good were they bae? 

dsaffffff

Why did I just yell at this?! 

[Kurama]

There's just no point to even call it a "relationship" with all the revolving door of people in and out of it. 

of course an open mess can on longer in most cases because well... You're doing the "cheating" in plain sight and its LOL! lmao! How good were they bae? 

dffff

shut up.

[Kurama]

I feel like anytime you invite someone into your bedroom you open the door for so many issues in ur relationship

What if you both have rules. A stranger in a city you visited, only when each other is involved, always protection etc.?

[Ｂｏｏｍｚ]

The idea of an open relationship sounds like fun but I just couldn't.

I've done the juggling of multiple partners before. I'm nearing 30 and want something more inclusive. "Open relationships" seem lazy to me. Like, for people who aren't willing to put in the work and dedication it takes to maintain a long term one-on-one relationship/partnership.

"Free-for-all! LOLz!"

[BAPHOMET.]

"Free-for-all! LOLz!"

zxcvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvv

[DVDDY.]

I know a couple that lets a third person in their bedroom occasionally. The only caveats are that it has to be someone they don't know, someone they both like, and they both cannot bottom for the person.

Personally, I don't care but if my partner wants to, I wouldn't want him bottoming him for anyone else. I've been in a threesome before though. That was fun but I was more into one of them and the other dude was pissed lol

[Opposites Attract.]

No, I can't see myself tied down to one person for the rest of my life. I enjoy meeting different individuals with different energies and experience.

[Kurama]

I know a couple that lets a third person in their bedroom occasionally. The only caveats are that it has to be someone they don't know, someone they both like, and they both cannot bottom for the person.

Personally, I don't care but if my partner wants to, I wouldn't want him bottoming him for anyone else. I've been in a threesome before though. That was fun but I was more into one of them and the other dude was pissed lol

I've heard this before. My friends who just married had a 3some but they said neither could bottom. What's the significance?

[Kurama]

No, I can't see myself tied down to one person for the rest of my life. I enjoy meeting different individuals with different energies and experience.

Hey Marg