Is monogamy important to you?

Started by Kurama, April 04, 2017, 02:32:42 PM

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Quote from: Baphomet. on April 04, 2017, 02:37:41 PM
There's just no point to even call it a "relationship" with all the revolving door of people in and out of it.  :ummwhat:

of course an open mess can on longer in most cases because well... You're doing the "cheating" in plain sight and its LOL! lmao! How good were they bae?  :guys:

Basically

An open relationship is basically an oxymoron.     


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Quote from: Baphomet. on April 04, 2017, 03:08:53 PM
sidenote:

Im too honest and transparent to cheat. Before I even get to that point im just going to say how I feel and that this is the end.


It pains me to have something in common with you, but YEAH. I usually tell my partners if I find someone else attractive, if I dont feel connected, if Im not happy etc.


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Quote from: Kurama on April 04, 2017, 03:08:04 PM
Quote from: Marg. on April 04, 2017, 03:00:14 PM
Quote from: DVDDY. on April 04, 2017, 02:49:41 PM
I know a couple that lets a third person in their bedroom occasionally. The only caveats are that it has to be someone they don't know, someone they both like, and they both cannot bottom for the person.

Personally, I don't care but if my partner wants to, I wouldn't want him bottoming him for anyone else. I've been in a threesome before though. That was fun but I was more into one of them and the other dude was pissed lol

Hmmmy

Threesomes bother me. Sexually I'm like a Lion, I'm very spoiled, alpha and territorial. I just couldn't share my partner with another bottom but at the same time I can do two tops and have sex outside of him.

What's the big deal about who is positioned where, sexually?

Well I'm not a top or verse. That's not what I'm into sexually. I might get my dick sucked but I prefer the guys I'm intimate with you be tops.


It's unconditional, these days you know....


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April 04, 2017, 03:16:30 PM #39 Last Edit: April 04, 2017, 03:17:36 PM by Boomer
Quote from: Baphomet. on April 04, 2017, 03:03:12 PM
Quote from: Boomer on April 04, 2017, 03:00:38 PM
Quote from: RIGS on April 04, 2017, 02:55:24 PM
its important to me, but i dont judge anyone that does whatever else if their man agrees to it.

I wish it wasn't important to me tho. I feel like people would be a lot happier

!!!
OMF! Cause it's hard out here trying to find someone who is willing to commit to JUST u.
Sometimes I find myself thinking to myself, "Damn, am I too uptight? Should I just go with flow?
:uhh:"

This goes back to that discussion before about being ok with being alone and still being alone at a certain age (40 something) because u haven't found what you're looking for.

I be thinking about this when it comes to other people tbh. When people who seem like they are perfect for each other or the guy seems like the sweetest and most honest person in the world. But they STILL cheat



It's crazy
And Snapchat, Instagram, etc. have done nothing but make it harder to maintain monogamy.
I don't have the time to give an Inspector Gadget mess and creeping on your social media to make sure you ain't messin on the side. At the same time I couldn't be Tammy (Waka's gal) or Tiny and let shit fly for so long that it becomes MY NORM.

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Quote from: Marg. on April 04, 2017, 03:00:14 PM
Quote from: DVDDY. on April 04, 2017, 02:49:41 PM
I know a couple that lets a third person in their bedroom occasionally. The only caveats are that it has to be someone they don't know, someone they both like, and they both cannot bottom for the person.

Personally, I don't care but if my partner wants to, I wouldn't want him bottoming him for anyone else. I've been in a threesome before though. That was fun but I was more into one of them and the other dude was pissed lol

Hmmmy

Threesomes bother me. Sexually I'm like a Lion, I'm very spoiled, alpha and territorial. I just couldn't share my partner with another bottom but at the same time I can do two tops and have sex outside of him.

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well alright, Scar

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The relationship has to be solid to feel "good" about it.
If your relationship isnt solid than its just side piecing

ppul say gender is a social construct
but i believe monogamy is
we are all meant to love and enjoy one another
if someone is your soulmate enjoying someone else (to spice things up) wont ruin ya



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No solid relationship require a 3rd party.

Besides it's usually 1 partner that's bored and wants to "openly" cheat and the other that's scared of being alone and goes a long with it.

People lose themselves in relationships and accept all kind of mess. Don't know how they do it.

If you're in a relationship and you both feel like seeing other people, then you both need to be the fuck single.
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Quote from: Boomer on April 04, 2017, 03:16:30 PM
Quote from: Baphomet. on April 04, 2017, 03:03:12 PM
Quote from: Boomer on April 04, 2017, 03:00:38 PM
Quote from: RIGS on April 04, 2017, 02:55:24 PM
its important to me, but i dont judge anyone that does whatever else if their man agrees to it.

I wish it wasn't important to me tho. I feel like people would be a lot happier

!!!
OMF! Cause it's hard out here trying to find someone who is willing to commit to JUST u.
Sometimes I find myself thinking to myself, "Damn, am I too uptight? Should I just go with flow?
:uhh:"

This goes back to that discussion before about being ok with being alone and still being alone at a certain age (40 something) because u haven't found what you're looking for.

I be thinking about this when it comes to other people tbh. When people who seem like they are perfect for each other or the guy seems like the sweetest and most honest person in the world. But they STILL cheat



It's crazy
And Snapchat, Instagram, etc. have done nothing but make it harder to maintain monogamy.
I don't have the time to give an Inspector Gadget mess and creeping on your social media to make sure you ain't messin on the side. At the same time I couldn't be Tammy (Waka's gal) or Tiny and let shit fly for so long that it becomes MY NORM.

Agreed, what the fuck do ya do?