Is monogamy important to you?

Started by Kurama, April 04, 2017, 02:32:42 PM

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its important to me, but i dont judge anyone that does whatever else if their man agrees to it.

I wish it wasn't important to me tho. I feel like people would be a lot happier

Opposites Attract.

Quote from: DVDDY. on April 04, 2017, 02:49:41 PM
I know a couple that lets a third person in their bedroom occasionally. The only caveats are that it has to be someone they don't know, someone they both like, and they both cannot bottom for the person.

Personally, I don't care but if my partner wants to, I wouldn't want him bottoming him for anyone else. I've been in a threesome before though. That was fun but I was more into one of them and the other dude was pissed lol

Hmmmy

Threesomes bother me. Sexually I'm like a Lion, I'm very spoiled, alpha and territorial. I just couldn't share my partner with another bottom but at the same time I can do two tops and have sex outside of him.


It's unconditional, these days you know....

Boomz

April 04, 2017, 03:00:38 PM #17 Last Edit: April 04, 2017, 03:02:13 PM by Boomer
Quote from: RIGS on April 04, 2017, 02:55:24 PM
its important to me, but i dont judge anyone that does whatever else if their man agrees to it.

I wish it wasn't important to me tho. I feel like people would be a lot happier

!!!
OMF! Cause it's hard out here trying to find someone who is willing to commit to JUST u.
Sometimes I find myself thinking to myself, "Damn, am I too uptight? Should I just go with the flow? :uhh:"

This goes back to that discussion before about being ok with being alone and still being alone at a certain age (40 something) because u haven't found what you're looking for.

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KippDaddy

Im far too emotional. 
Also far too cut and dry for an open relationship.
Either I love you or I don't.  If the relationship isn't fulfilling and  I am not even willing to put in the work than what is the need of a relationship

Open relationships are weird. lol

BAPHOMET.

Quote from: Boomer on April 04, 2017, 03:00:38 PM
Quote from: RIGS on April 04, 2017, 02:55:24 PM
its important to me, but i dont judge anyone that does whatever else if their man agrees to it.

I wish it wasn't important to me tho. I feel like people would be a lot happier

!!!
OMF! Cause it's hard out here trying to find someone who is willing to commit to JUST u.
Sometimes I find myself thinking to myself, "Damn, am I too uptight? Should I just go with flow?
:uhh:"

This goes back to that discussion before about being ok with being alone and still being alone at a certain age (40 something) because u haven't found what you're looking for.

I be thinking about this when it comes to other people tbh. When people who seem like they are perfect for each other or the guy seems like the sweetest and most honest person in the world. But they STILL cheat



Kurama

Quote from: Boomer on April 04, 2017, 03:00:38 PM
Quote from: RIGS on April 04, 2017, 02:55:24 PM
its important to me, but i dont judge anyone that does whatever else if their man agrees to it.

I wish it wasn't important to me tho. I feel like people would be a lot happier

!!!
OMF! Cause it's hard out here trying to find someone who is willing to commit to JUST u.
Sometimes I find myself thinking to myself, "Damn, am I too uptight? Should I just go with flow? :uhh:"

This goes back to that discussion before about being ok with being alone and still being alone at a certain age (40 something) because u haven't found what you're looking for.

That's a question ive been asking myself lately. I think I'd be content tbh. I think it's because I know who I am, Im comfortable with that, and I've found people in life who were comfortable too. As long as you're not giving a perfect catch type of list then I think relationship building can be easier than it seems.

If you have someone who is loyal that is.

Kurama

Quote from: KippDaddy on April 04, 2017, 03:01:59 PM
If the relationship isn't fulfilling and  I am not even willing to put in the work than what is the need of a relationship

:ohwow: :ohwow: :ohwow:

GLOCK

April 04, 2017, 03:05:46 PM #23 Last Edit: April 04, 2017, 03:07:15 PM by Whitney Glockston
Quote from: Kurama on April 04, 2017, 02:44:11 PM
Quote from: Whitney Glockston on April 04, 2017, 02:35:04 PM

I feel like anytime you invite someone into your bedroom you open the door for so many issues in ur relationship


What if you both have rules. A stranger in a city you visited, only when each other is involved, always protection etc.?
im sorry there just aren't any rules to cheating :letsmessfag:

And from my personal experience.. someone always ends up catching feelings
I fucked with a few couples before and they always ended up breaking up and the one that was into me the most .. always tries to come my way.. then the jealous further ensues because they feel like they have lost their lover to me..
I Just think it's a terrible environment to create and a can of worms that isn't worth opening.. .. one that I couldn't practice with someone I cherish.
Everyone's appetite is different .. I guarantee someone will step out eventually with one of their new friends or a new friend

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Quote from: Baphomet. on April 04, 2017, 03:03:12 PM
Quote from: Boomer on April 04, 2017, 03:00:38 PM
Quote from: RIGS on April 04, 2017, 02:55:24 PM
its important to me, but i dont judge anyone that does whatever else if their man agrees to it.

I wish it wasn't important to me tho. I feel like people would be a lot happier

!!!
OMF! Cause it's hard out here trying to find someone who is willing to commit to JUST u.
Sometimes I find myself thinking to myself, "Damn, am I too uptight? Should I just go with flow?
:uhh:"

This goes back to that discussion before about being ok with being alone and still being alone at a certain age (40 something) because u haven't found what you're looking for.

I be thinking about this when it comes to other people tbh. When people who seem like they are perfect for each other or the guy seems like the sweetest and most honest person in the world. But they STILL cheat



I think the fear of being alone makes the gerls accept and put up with certain mess.
Every relationship isn't meant to last forever.
Hear 'em swarmin', right? (Zz) 🐝 🐝  is known to bite (Zz, zz)
——————///——————-
https://justiceforbreonna.org/

BAPHOMET.

Quote from: KippDaddy on April 04, 2017, 03:01:59 PM
If the relationship isn't fulfilling and  I am not even willing to put in the work than what is the need of a relationship

:everythingok: you are speaking in here it seems


Kurama

Quote from: Marg. on April 04, 2017, 03:00:14 PM
Quote from: DVDDY. on April 04, 2017, 02:49:41 PM
I know a couple that lets a third person in their bedroom occasionally. The only caveats are that it has to be someone they don't know, someone they both like, and they both cannot bottom for the person.

Personally, I don't care but if my partner wants to, I wouldn't want him bottoming him for anyone else. I've been in a threesome before though. That was fun but I was more into one of them and the other dude was pissed lol

Hmmmy

Threesomes bother me. Sexually I'm like a Lion, I'm very spoiled, alpha and territorial. I just couldn't share my partner with another bottom but at the same time I can do two tops and have sex outside of him.

What's the big deal about who is positioned where, sexually?

BAPHOMET.

sidenote:

Im too honest and transparent to cheat. Before I even get to that point im just going to say how I feel and that this is the end.

Flat OUT.


MAY

April 04, 2017, 03:09:09 PM #28 Last Edit: April 04, 2017, 03:10:17 PM by MΛΥDΛΥ
Monogamy is important to me.

If I'm with you, then I'm with you. Relationships take a lot of work, and being monogamous is part of that.

However, I will say that all gay the couples I know that have been together over 7 years are open. So who knows if my view on that will change one day, but right now the whole open mess isn't for me.



LOONA.