Mixed guys / hot topic / do u hide parts of ur race

Started by Miranda, September 21, 2015, 04:34:15 PM

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Miranda

A gigolo / seduction mess out. Not pathetic self hate.

Miranda

Quote from: GYNandTONIC on September 22, 2015, 08:18:18 AM
Yea its pretty pathetic.

To change adjust, modify, smooth over anything about urself for a hookup is simply self degrading and show a lack of self worth (hence I never said self hate)

To lay up with someone who wouldnt lay up with you if they knew all of you is just stupid.

Nobody knows "all of you". And that is what sweet talk/flirting is about. You highlight features they like.

Herb.


Herb.


GYNandTONIC

September 22, 2015, 09:18:44 AM #64 Last Edit: September 22, 2015, 09:20:59 AM by GYNandTONIC
Im sorry I'm speaking in the context of hooking up/having sex. Are the pickings for non-whites seeking blacks that fucking thin?

In a average situation where there is no intimacy say what you feel. However, Im still not the type to lie about something as trivial as race. If it's unimportant to me then it should be unimportant to who Im fucking.

Adjusting from street lingo to professional vocabualry is one thing. But to switch from christian to budist or Blackrican to full Spaniard for sex is dumb IMO.

Herb.

September 22, 2015, 09:18:58 AM #65 Last Edit: September 22, 2015, 09:24:27 AM by Herb.
Quote from: MrMoon on September 22, 2015, 06:17:02 AM
If those hoes don't stop asking me if my hair is natural or not...

"oh yea you're black but not really black but you're still black"
Bitch did I say otherwise?

Like PLEASE... Now it's like I have to apologize cause I'm mixed.
Dont be mad cause my blood is mixed with african blood but with chinese and white blood as well.

"Oh you're just light cause you avoid the sun"

Bitch u been avoiding the sun for months and you're still CHOCOLATE. Give me a motherfucking explanation now...
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:everythingok:

Some people ignorantly believe all black people should have kinky hair.
if it's not kinky, that simply means you chemically altered it. to them

especially if you have a darker complexion.

you've always had BEAUTIFUL, thick hair .
i remember when u were sporting the big Afro....it was so cute :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
:stressed: :stressed:

now u simply went for a different style which is more sleek.
people don't realize how versatile hair can be.

Miranda

Quote from: GYNandTONIC on September 22, 2015, 09:18:44 AM
Im sorry I'm speaking in the context of hooking up/having sex. Are the pickings for non-whites seeking blacks that fucking thin?

In a average situation where there is no intimacy say what you feel. However, Im still not the type to lie about something as trivial as race. If it's unimportant to me then it should be unimportant to who Im fucking.

Adjusting from street lingo to professional vocabualry is one thing. But to switch from christian to budist or Blackrican to full Spaniard for sex is dumb IMO.
It's not dumb, it's running game.

SUPREME

I don't have this "problem" but is race really that big of a topic when you meet someone? Does anyone really fcking care once they deem you attractive?

AIDS!

Quote from: Miranda on September 22, 2015, 08:50:25 AM
Oh plea' we adjust every day of our life. Blacks are just so SENSITIVE, nobody woulda said shit if I don't accentuate my Arabic or white side.
blacks are not senistive
What kind of reaction did you think you were going to get asking a black board?
If you were Asian and asked this on a Asian board
You'd probably garner the same response

Miranda

And I think it is the opposite. To a real friend / real life contact u will break down my tea in full correctness. But for a sexual mess, I'll claim fckn Bahamas if I get the cakes.

Herb.

September 22, 2015, 09:26:39 AM #70 Last Edit: September 22, 2015, 09:27:23 AM by Herb.
Quote from: SUPREME on September 22, 2015, 09:23:57 AM
I don't have this "problem" but is race really that big of a topic when you meet someone? Does anyone really fcking care once they deem you attractive?
Well race is not ethnicity, I think people get the two confused.

Race is how people look at you, it is appearance based
so I would assume that it is important when it comes to attraction.

Someone can look at me and clearly see I'm a dark skinned black man.
Now as far as my ethnic makeup, is that something they'd care about....is the question.

GYNandTONIC

Quote from: Miranda on September 22, 2015, 09:23:04 AM
Quote from: GYNandTONIC on September 22, 2015, 09:18:44 AM
Im sorry I'm speaking in the context of hooking up/having sex. Are the pickings for non-whites seeking blacks that fucking thin?

In a average situation where there is no intimacy say what you feel. However, Im still not the type to lie about something as trivial as race. If it's unimportant to me then it should be unimportant to who Im fucking.

Adjusting from street lingo to professional vocabualry is one thing. But to switch from christian to budist or Blackrican to full Spaniard for sex is dumb IMO.
It's not dumb, it's running game.

Why is race part of the game  :shannonsmissing:

If it's that serious aint no game to play!  :ack:

SUPREME

Quote from: Herb. on September 22, 2015, 09:26:39 AM
Quote from: SUPREME on September 22, 2015, 09:23:57 AM
I don't have this "problem" but is race really that big of a topic when you meet someone? Does anyone really fcking care once they deem you attractive?
Well race is not ethnicity, I think people get the two confused.

Race is how people look at you, it is appearance based
so I would assume that it is important when it comes to attraction.

Someone can look at me and clearly see I'm a dark skinned black man.
Now as far as my ethnic makeup, is that something they'd care about....is the question.
yeah and what I'm saying is

Who the fuck asks that?
:hmph:

You look middle eastern. But.... Is there a bit of BLACK in there? :usuresis:

I'd be turned off.

Miranda

Quote from: SUPREME on September 22, 2015, 09:23:57 AM
I don't have this "problem" but is race really that big of a topic when you meet someone? Does anyone really fcking care once they deem you attractive?

That's what I wanna fckn know? It could be just an undertone subconscious mess. But to me it's the other way round. No race will make u less attractive but if a dude says he is Colombian of morrocan even if he looks the same he will gain some hotness points.

Herb.

Quote from: Miranda on September 22, 2015, 04:28:45 AM
Quote from: Herb. on September 21, 2015, 10:28:37 PM
I swear , so many of us have adopted that white man's way of thinking.
Sad part is that those who have adopted it, swear up and down that they're activists of some sort. (generally speaking, not you CJ)

"You just a nigger no matter what."

No , he's not just a nigger. We're a very complex and beautiful people with many origins and backgrounds.


Yes! Emphasis on "just", I won't my nigger my membership at all, but I might step into another club too.
:wub:

Yes bvy, be proud of ALL of you. If it's your TRUTH and your HERITAGE, claim it as you see fit.