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[KING BENTLEY.]

It's kinda hard to maintain a relationship with any man when most men are conditioned to suppress every emotion that isn't anger or lust, even more difficult when you factor in the internalized homophobia, the inflated male ego and shallowness in general.

But yea...I guess there's someone out there for everyone n stuff.

I shouldn't have to do this



Just for you to wake up and emote to me. I'm TIRED!

[Kurama]

It's kinda hard to maintain a relationship with any man when most men are conditioned to suppress every emotion that isn't anger or lust, even more difficult when you factor in the internalized homophobia, the inflated male ego and shallowness in general.

But yea...I guess there's someone out there for everyone n stuff.

That's interesting. I know it's common for hetero men to suppress their emotions, but it's common for gay men too? I really wouldn't know -- I'm so openly emotional and wear my heart on my sleeve. I assumed many other people were like that as well.

I don't wanna sound ignorant, but I think the lot of black gay men have adopted one of two emotional personalities: the Regina George Mean Girl act, ready to read somebody at the drop of a hat or the masc-only DL guy who is too concerned with whether or not people will still see the average straight man when they look at him. Any and everything in between is ostracized or seen as less than.

[yummy]

And I know that Mean Girl mess sounds like a lot of us, but keep in mind a lot of what goes on here is in jest.

I would hope no one here is over the age of eighteen still acting like they're still perched in the HS cafeteria

[yummy]

Oh fuck it. Niggas ain't shit. Even the "nice" ones are trash.

Let's talk about this "nice guy" shit for a minute...because I see a lot of men (gay and straight) trying to play up the nice guy trope when there's really a self entitled, emotionally selfish asshole underneath the exterior.

And it's alwaaaays the one screaming "I have a good job, I have a car, I don't go to clubs n stuff, I'm different from the others!"

[Eternal Bell]

Oh fuck it. Niggas ain't shit. Even the "nice" ones are trash.

















but they're everything.

!!!!!!!

i HATE blck men

like i loathe em
can b so damns stubborn, annoyin', tryna alway controls stuff!
jus UGH!..nigga wait to u go to sleep..see wat happ'n
















but there nothin like a blck man all up in ur house
protectin ya
luvin..ya

[🦚]

Out of the people I know, the swirly couples do seem to be lasting, A LOT longer though.

I just don't feel comfortable dating a white man. They are so fetishized.

[BAPHOMET.]

Oh fuck it. Niggas ain't shit. Even the "nice" ones are trash.

Let's talk about this "nice guy" shit for a minute...because I see a lot of men (gay and straight) trying to play up the nice guy trope when there's really a self entitled, emotionally selfish asshole underneath the exterior.

And it's alwaaaays the one screaming "I have a good job, I have a car, I don't go to clubs n stuff, I'm different from the others!"

Well cut straight to the Patti Pudding. And I agree

[Eternal Bell]

im open to datin other races

but i think i do deep downs wanna marry a blck man

[Palladium]

Oh fuck it. Niggas ain't shit. Even the "nice" ones are trash.

Let's talk about this "nice guy" shit for a minute...because I see a lot of men (gay and straight) trying to play up the nice guy trope when there's really a self entitled, emotionally selfish asshole underneath the exterior.

And it's alwaaaays the one screaming "I have a good job, I have a car, I don't go to clubs n stuff, I'm different from the others!"

U betta preach in hea...

[Eternal Bell]

b

[Eternal Bell]

[🦚]

im open to datin other races

but i think i do deep downs wanna marry a blck man

Luv is luv. I don't care what race he is - if there's love, attraction and respect that's all we need.

I'm in NYC so it's only a given that I ran into other races as I stepped back into dating/talking/whatever.

A ho on the prowl.

[Eternal Bell]

i do 'gree wit 'fro tho

i dnt particularly look at race wen a guy approaches me n starts beggin for my number (which is vry damns often)
im open to watever

idk if this is offensive or not tho but i jus..feel more...'at home'?..wit blck men
we may have tha same fav blck movies frm our childhood & stuff

im open to watever tho!

[BAPHOMET.]

White gays are terrible as well guys. Trust me. Tbh they're more likely to be aiding it up with someone else behind your back.

[Kurama]