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And change your name again for the day, and I will kick your damn ass.

[ssw4919]

the Lil' Duval situation has sparked quite the debate on twitter about this.

What do you think?

Yes, honesty is important in any sort of romantic entanglement.  Give people the right to choose once they know the truth about your sex at birth, your relationship status, STD status, etc.  Hiding or lying about those things is incredibly selfish.

[CHOKE]

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Yes.

It would be better telling him and maybe he doesn't care than him finding out on his own and stabbing you to death

[fedswatchin]

I would want to know

[SouravMay]

I don't think so to be honest. It doesn't define them.

[Vonc2002]

Yea, that literally makes no sense and is a very poor comparison

To be fair, so is asking,"Should a person disclose that they have an STD?"

Being Trans isn't a disease. How are they comparable?

But I'm sure u didn't mean it like that...

...I'm sure.

Im glad ur so sure because where did i say they were comparable? I asked a question because i genuinely wanted feedback and since we were talking about disclosing info, i posed ANOTHER question.   I didn't say they were related nor did i phrase it like "oh, the BETTER question" when in actuality it fckn wasnt. But im sure anyone with sense kinda got that.

[Drogon]

I don't think so to be honest. It doesn't define them.

If being born a man; chopping your dick and balls off doesn't define you nothing does

[Mel.]

It's easy for someone who isn't trans to say "yes they should"
I myself was just about to say "yes", but then I thought about it and I feel it's easier said than done.

Transsexuals, I could maybe understand that they should tell their partners who they really are
but Transgendered individuals I feel it would be much harder for them
especially post-op transgendered individuals, they've never felt like they were who they were born as
and a lot of them want to forget about who they "were" because it's not who they truly "are"

so, them having to tell someone I used to be a male/female wouldn't be an easy task
and I feel for them in that aspect, how do you tell someone something like that
how do you tell someone you were born something you never connected to or saw yourself as?

idk, it's a hard question to answer, even much moreso since that's not my struggle or truth
so idk if it's my place to say what they should or shouldn't disclose...

[SouravMay]

Actually before sex or when it gets serious yeah you should share it, but not on the first two, three dates.

[Opposites Attract.]

Yeah I don't think it should be disclosed until the person is ready.

[LOONA.]

Of course, but are we really gonna act like "straight" men don't actively seek them out and then switch up when their tea is threatened to be exposed?

Very rarely have I encountered a transgender I didn't know was trans.

It doesn't matter how hard or soft your features are or how your voice sounds. You can almost always tell when someone is trans.       

[AIDS]

But if a Trans person has to disclose that they are Trans to a man, men should have to disclose that they fuck both boys and girls.

this is silly

[GRAND]

Of course, but are we really gonna act like "straight" men don't actively seek them out and then switch up when their tea is threatened to be exposed?

Very rarely have I encountered a transgender I didn't know was trans.

It doesn't matter how hard or soft your features are or how your voice sounds. You can almost always tell when someone is trans.       

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And the ones that are truly passing are usually open about it

[GLOCK]

I Dunno I feel like they should be able to say it when they want too. There Shoudnt be any rules that say when they should have too

This is stupid and exactly why mfers die. U concerned about stripping them of their rights to privacy but not at all concerned about stripping someone else of the choice to engage if they so choose.  If being "fair" to a tranny results in being unfair to the other party then there's an issue

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