My bf of 7 years just called me a nigger after a heated argument

Started by Hatsumomo, August 16, 2017, 01:34:54 PM

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Hatsumomo

long story short..I've been dating an Italian guy for the past 7 years. We had a vicious argument and he called me a nigger..or said I was "acting like one" because I wouldn't let him control me. This is the danger of dating white men. The deep seated hatred comes out eventually in one way or the other. Now, he's acting as if it never happened and begging and pleading. I'm so devastated.

FlowerBomb


CHOKE


Barbie Dangerous

Quote from: Amir on August 16, 2017, 01:35:54 PM
Sorry to hear that
7 years and there weren't any signs?
Obviously not if he stayed for 7 years.


Vonc2002

Oh wow! Not acting like a nigger! U know what, I'm slowly starting to be swayed. Like, they'll always hold that card in their back pocket. U need to give all the deets. What was the argument over? Did u say sumn really horrific to him prior to him saying that?  Do u really think you'll be able to walk away from a 7 yr relationship?
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





FlowerBomb

Quote from: BowDown on August 16, 2017, 01:38:03 PM
Quote from: Amir on August 16, 2017, 01:35:54 PM
Sorry to hear that
7 years and there weren't any signs?
Obviously not if he stayed for 7 years.
You do realise how stupid this sounds, right?


Vonc2002

Quote from: Cho-Ku on August 16, 2017, 01:37:33 PM
Saying you were acting like one is a little different
How tf is acting like a nigger even remotely understandable in this context? Honestly, idgaf. U don't say that period. Ur a troll, i believe
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





Vonc2002

Bow  has ur father ever called ur mother sumn derogatory?
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





Barbie Dangerous

Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 16, 2017, 01:40:22 PM
Quote from: Cho-Ku on August 16, 2017, 01:37:33 PM
Saying you were acting like one is a little different
How tf is acting like a nigger even remotely understandable in this context? Honestly, idgaf. U don't say that period. Ur a troll, i believe
jhhhhhhhhhhh


como la whore

I'm so sorry. Inexcusable behavior.
he's disgusting too btw


como la whore



MAY

Wow, that's so sad & fucked up. I'm so sorry.

That would be immediate grounds for breaking up tho. I couldn't stay with him after that.