My bf of 7 years just called me a nigger after a heated argument

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Barbie Dangerous

Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 16, 2017, 01:41:24 PM
Bow  has ur father ever called ur mother sumn derogatory?
A "bitch" here and there under his breath but nothing racially derogatory lol. He'll joke with us about blacks but never anything offensive that I can recall with race involved. He's not one for name-calling in general..


MAY

Quote from: Cho-Ku on August 16, 2017, 01:37:33 PM
Saying you were acting like one is a little different

Naw. There's no excuse for him to even use that word.

There are plenty of other words or terms he could've used to get his argument across, but he just had to use "nigger".

FlowerBomb

Quote from: BowDown on August 16, 2017, 01:45:18 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 16, 2017, 01:41:24 PM
Bow  has ur father ever called ur mother sumn derogatory?
A "bitch" here and there under his breath but nothing racially derogatory lol. He'll joke with us about blacks but I Never anything offensive that I can recall with race involved.
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He's def called you a stupid nigger BITCH a few times
Believe me.

Vonc2002

7 yrs is a long ass time. Let's have an honest conversation. Were things really good outside of this argument? Do u think there's anything he could say to you to make u take him back?
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw






Vonc2002

Quote from: BowDown on August 16, 2017, 01:45:18 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 16, 2017, 01:41:24 PM
Bow  has ur father ever called ur mother sumn derogatory?
A "bitch" here and there under his breath but nothing racially derogatory lol. He'll joke with us about blacks but never anything offensive that I can recall with race involved. He's not one for name-calling in general..
That's good.  I'd be kinda waiting for it at every disagreement i feel like
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw






LOONA.

Drop that faggot like a rock and never look back. Let him suffer and forever regret what he did.     



LOONA.

But ghhhh

You've been with him 7 years and he's never said anything suspect or derogatory? There were never any signs?

I'm sure y'all have argued before. For hims to just randomly call you a nigger after 7 years is strange.     


:diddraispoot:

Hatsumomo

The fight was over money. He got mad because I refused to give him any. After all I've given him throughout the years, I expect him to bring something to the table also. Never any warning signs of racism prior to this. He was clearly frustrated over a number of things including his finances but this is a new low for him. He apologized, but I can't speak to him right now and don't have the strength yet to block his number. I just turned my phone off. I don't even wanna see his texts pop up. You want money from a NIGGER?!! 

L0NZ.

Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 16, 2017, 01:48:36 PM
7 yrs is a long ass time. Let's have an honest conversation. Were things really good outside of this argument? Do u think there's anything he could say to you to make u take him back?

Fuck that. 7 yrs ain't shit compared to the rest of gnutellas life. He has decades to go. Move on with it as soon as possible. You'll always, ALWAYS think about how he thinks you're a nigger he tolerates with something about you he happens to like a little bit.


fedswatchin

Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 16, 2017, 01:38:18 PM
Oh wow! Not acting like a nigger! U know what, I'm slowly starting to be swayed. Like, they'll always hold that card in their back pocket. U need to give all the deets. What was the argument over? Did u say sumn really horrific to him prior to him saying that?  Do u really think you'll be able to walk away from a 7 yr relationship?
r u oprah

Vonc2002

Quote from: Drais. on August 16, 2017, 01:52:49 PM
But ghhhh

You've been with him 7 years and he's never said anything suspect or derogatory? There were never any signs?

I'm sure y'all have argued before. For hims to just randomly call you a nigger after 7 years is strange.     


:diddraispoot:
YEA! Thats why im like wtf did u say before that.  It had to be sumn really terrible :plzstop:
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw