That Was Mean

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Barbie Dangerous

Quote from: Amir on August 26, 2017, 07:57:11 AM
Quote from: BowDown on August 26, 2017, 07:55:14 AM
Quote from: EYASKETV on August 26, 2017, 07:50:01 AM
Quote from: BowDown on August 26, 2017, 07:43:58 AM
Quote from: EYASKETV on August 26, 2017, 07:37:05 AM
I honestly think this guy was just being the typical guy.
Really don't think it's as deep as insecurity or anything.

A lot of straight men are like that. They'll make silly comments like this - generally they aren't very sensitive people and they don't expect other guys to be.
Exactly, filled with insecurities and intimidation: he's standing next to a beautiful Nick Jonas so he had to point out his "flaws" in one way or another. I don't think it goes too deep but "sizing up" is definitely a level of insecurity and straight men are the lead example..
I do agree that straight men do a lot of "sizing up", but I'd say its more competitiveness than insecurity or projection of some sort.
But why do you think they compete?
straight men are competitive in nature
Exactly. Stemming from being able to beat out the next man who seems to even remotely be a threat to them.

Short! I can take him!


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Doesn't Nick have a fat ass?

Barbie Dangerous

Quote from: EYASKETV on August 26, 2017, 08:01:07 AM
Quote from: Amir on August 26, 2017, 07:57:11 AM
Quote from: BowDown on August 26, 2017, 07:55:14 AM
Quote from: EYASKETV on August 26, 2017, 07:50:01 AM
Quote from: BowDown on August 26, 2017, 07:43:58 AM
Quote from: EYASKETV on August 26, 2017, 07:37:05 AM
I honestly think this guy was just being the typical guy.
Really don't think it's as deep as insecurity or anything.

A lot of straight men are like that. They'll make silly comments like this - generally they aren't very sensitive people and they don't expect other guys to be.
Exactly, filled with insecurities and intimidation: he's standing next to a beautiful Nick Jonas so he had to point out his "flaws" in one way or another. I don't think it goes too deep but "sizing up" is definitely a level of insecurity and straight men are the lead example..
I do agree that straight men do a lot of "sizing up", but I'd say its more competitiveness than insecurity or projection of some sort.
But why do you think they compete?
straight men are competitive in nature
!!!!

It's really instinctive for them.

I used to hang around a lot of straight guys back in the hood and they play rough.
Their mouths are reckless, they crack jokes on each other for sport....it's like - they literally take none of that stuff seriously.

Throw the same elements into a group of women and you'll have people catching feelings and not speaking to each other for months.
:plzstop: It's just how it is. I think this guy was just being silly. He changed the caption though.
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Just us boyz in da hood! Rough neck thugger!

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Barbie Dangerous

But I don't understand how it's so easy to label a woman insecure but when it comes to a man he's just being a man.


FlowerBomb

Quote from: BowDown on August 26, 2017, 08:04:59 AM
But I don't understand how it's so easy to label a woman insecure but when it comes to a man he's just being a man.
women tend to be more sensitive about their appearance than men.
Men can read each other for weeks and think nothing of it and get along right after :dead:
My older and younger brothers stay reading each other daily and move on, but when my sisters do it its a brawl :plzstop:

BigDawg

Quote from: Trinker Brell Lee Kim Long Crab Ragoon 他妈的你 on August 26, 2017, 07:51:03 AM
Quote from: BigDawg on August 26, 2017, 07:29:31 AM
Why take a picture with someone to just throw shade, that is tacky as hell.

Nick is fine af
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social media gives ppl fas access to beiin corny assholes rlly
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Barbie Dangerous

Quote from: Amir on August 26, 2017, 08:11:21 AM
Quote from: BowDown on August 26, 2017, 08:04:59 AM
But I don't understand how it's so easy to label a woman insecure but when it comes to a man he's just being a man.
women tend to be more sensitive about their appearance than men.
Men can read each other for weeks and think nothing of it and get along right after :dead:
My older and younger brothers stay reading each other daily and move on, but when my sisters do it its a brawl :plzstop:
But the same can easily be said about compliments. Women have no problem complimenting other women, the same cannot be said for men. And I think guys are a lot of times more sensitive than women..


Barbie Dangerous

Quote from: EYASKETV on August 26, 2017, 08:15:05 AM
Quote from: Amir on August 26, 2017, 08:11:21 AM
Quote from: BowDown on August 26, 2017, 08:04:59 AM
But I don't understand how it's so easy to label a woman insecure but when it comes to a man he's just being a man.
women tend to be more sensitive about their appearance than men.
Men can read each other for weeks and think nothing of it and get along right after :dead:
My older and younger brothers stay reading each other daily and move on, but when my sisters do it its a brawl :plzstop:
!!!!

Bow knows how it is.

Don't mean to offend her with generalizations, as I know she's a female

But she knows. :plea:
I get what you're saying but I think it's sexist and a double-standard.
:plea:


FlowerBomb

Quote from: BowDown on August 26, 2017, 08:18:02 AM
Quote from: Amir on August 26, 2017, 08:11:21 AM
Quote from: BowDown on August 26, 2017, 08:04:59 AM
But I don't understand how it's so easy to label a woman insecure but when it comes to a man he's just being a man.
women tend to be more sensitive about their appearance than men.
Men can read each other for weeks and think nothing of it and get along right after :dead:
My older and younger brothers stay reading each other daily and move on, but when my sisters do it its a brawl :plzstop:
But the same can easily be said about compliments. Women have no problem complimenting other women, the same cannot be said for men. And I think guys are a lot of times more sensitive than women..
Yh men are inherently built not to place so much emphasis on looks.
They'd compliment each others outfits or whatever not physical appearance :dead:

Barbie Dangerous

Quote from: Amir on August 26, 2017, 08:20:42 AM
Quote from: BowDown on August 26, 2017, 08:18:02 AM
Quote from: Amir on August 26, 2017, 08:11:21 AM
Quote from: BowDown on August 26, 2017, 08:04:59 AM
But I don't understand how it's so easy to label a woman insecure but when it comes to a man he's just being a man.
women tend to be more sensitive about their appearance than men.
Men can read each other for weeks and think nothing of it and get along right after :dead:
My older and younger brothers stay reading each other daily and move on, but when my sisters do it its a brawl :plzstop:
But the same can easily be said about compliments. Women have no problem complimenting other women, the same cannot be said for men. And I think guys are a lot of times more sensitive than women..
Yh men are inherently built not to place so much emphasis on looks.
They'd compliment each others outfits or whatever not physical appearance :dead:
But that's not insecurity either?


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FlowerBomb

Quote from: BowDown on August 26, 2017, 08:22:23 AM
Quote from: Amir on August 26, 2017, 08:20:42 AM
Quote from: BowDown on August 26, 2017, 08:18:02 AM
Quote from: Amir on August 26, 2017, 08:11:21 AM
Quote from: BowDown on August 26, 2017, 08:04:59 AM
But I don't understand how it's so easy to label a woman insecure but when it comes to a man he's just being a man.
women tend to be more sensitive about their appearance than men.
Men can read each other for weeks and think nothing of it and get along right after :dead:
My older and younger brothers stay reading each other daily and move on, but when my sisters do it its a brawl :plzstop:
But the same can easily be said about compliments. Women have no problem complimenting other women, the same cannot be said for men. And I think guys are a lot of times more sensitive than women..
Yh men are inherently built not to place so much emphasis on looks.
They'd compliment each others outfits or whatever not physical appearance :dead:
But that's not insecurity either?
It could be, I honestly think men don't care about stuff like that.
With them a physically appealing thing would be a women, not how his friend looks with a new haircut.
Men do compliment each other, just not how females would compliment each other with their new shoes, bags, purses, hairdo ect
Appearance and fashion are literally 80% of a females world,  they take that shit seriously  :plzstop:

CHOKE

Was sized up in highschool all the time

I'm tall and my parents always had me in the cutest fits

I don't think they knew how to take me so I was constantly assaulted

In the locker room, stairwell, bathroom

But as I got older and realized I'm taller I can stomp these faggots owt   :uhh:

The mess kinda stopped

FlowerBomb

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