Quote from: rollercoaster on November 07, 2017, 07:34:58 PM
Quote from: XXX. on November 07, 2017, 07:31:34 PM
Quote from: M??D?? on November 07, 2017, 07:23:06 PM
Quote"Let me say BYE! in hopes that they chase me. Hehe!"
So many fags try this and end up looking dumb as fuck when it doesn't happen 
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I told one of my girls that for years. If you're done, BE DONE! Don't tell him bye, because you're banking on him chasing you.
SMH.
But I try not to judge. I know how it is to be emotional and think all that shit is the most important thing. It can physically make you sick if you let it. Been there. Done that.
But I honestly noticed the energy I attracted started shifting A LOT when I decided to start choosing me. And you almost notice a shift right away. It's the weirdest thing. When you treat yourself like you are the best, you attract people that treat you the best. And the people already in your life reciprocate the same energy. That law of attraction stuff is real!
I feel bad for people losing their shit over people who don't give a damn about them or settling for marriages or relationships where that's the case. People really out here believing they can't do better.
True tea.
I think there's nothing wrong with realizing that whoever you're with is lucky to have you around. And expecting to see their appreciation - not just in words but actions.
I KNOW that's right!

You would love some of my friends, Afro! Me and my best friend/brother and one of my girls were on a 3-way call talking about this last week. Who made the rule that we can't be in love with ourselves? We call it conceited, cocky, arrogant, self absorbed and all these other negative words when someone let's it be known they are a blessing to your life. People are so intimidated by someone that's self assured in that way.
If we built people up more to have strong self esteem and actually feel great about themselves, and know that it is absolutely OKAY to believe they are the hottest thing since sliced bread, there'd be less room for this culture of settling and accepting bullshit in your life.