If someone WANTS to be in your life...

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ya rock muh world.

Quote from: XXX. on November 07, 2017, 07:31:34 PM
Quote from: M??D?? on November 07, 2017, 07:23:06 PM
Quote"Let me say BYE! in hopes that they chase me. Hehe!"

So many fags try this and end up looking dumb as fuck when it doesn't happen :plzstop:

!!!!

I told one of my girls that for years.  If you're done, BE DONE!  Don't tell him bye, because you're banking on him chasing you.

SMH.

But I try not to judge.  I know how it is to be emotional and think all that shit is the most important thing.  It can physically make you sick if you let it.  Been there.  Done that.

But I honestly noticed the energy I attracted started shifting A LOT when I decided to start choosing me.  And you almost notice a shift right away.  It's the weirdest thing.  When you treat yourself like you are the best, you attract people that treat you the best.  And the people already in your life reciprocate the same energy.  That law of attraction stuff is real!

I feel bad for people losing their shit over people who don't give a damn about them or settling for marriages or relationships where that's the case.  People really out here believing they can't do better.
True tea.

I think there's nothing wrong with realizing that whoever you're with is lucky to have you around. And expecting to see their appreciation - not just in words but actions.


ya rock muh world.

Quote from: XXX. on November 07, 2017, 07:32:49 PM
Quote from: rollercoaster on November 07, 2017, 07:30:31 PM
Quote from: XXX. on November 07, 2017, 07:25:26 PM
Quote from: rollercoaster on November 07, 2017, 07:20:40 PM
Quote from: XXX. on November 07, 2017, 07:04:29 PM
Quote from: rollercoaster on November 07, 2017, 06:58:47 PM
Quote from: XXX. on November 07, 2017, 06:54:56 PM
She is PREACHING!

My revolving door is closed.  And I've honestly been a much happier person once I chose myself.
oh-tay?! tuh. :plea:

BITCH i almost threw this book owt my window that night.

"do u understand? :usureuok: "

sis wanted to make sure the gorls ABSORBED the mess thoroughly

I think the biggest lesson in the context of what she's saying is that you also have to know when to walk away.  It's not always, "Let me say BYE! in hopes that they chase me. Hehe!"

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Everything and everybody ain't for you. 

And once you realize your own worth, tolerance and value, no one else can have control over your emotions.  And you won't settle for anything less than what you deserve.

Rid them toxins out ya life!


!!!!

Like May said, it's about putting yourself first.

And I agree that knowing your worth is important to. It's not about being "high maintenance", it's about knowing what you deserve.

What do I deserve?
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ack!


ACK!

Bitch, wait till you get that nude painting your man painted of me!

C'MHERE YOU!


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XXX.

Quote from: rollercoaster on November 07, 2017, 07:34:58 PM
Quote from: XXX. on November 07, 2017, 07:31:34 PM
Quote from: M??D?? on November 07, 2017, 07:23:06 PM
Quote"Let me say BYE! in hopes that they chase me. Hehe!"

So many fags try this and end up looking dumb as fuck when it doesn't happen :plzstop:

!!!!

I told one of my girls that for years.  If you're done, BE DONE!  Don't tell him bye, because you're banking on him chasing you.

SMH.

But I try not to judge.  I know how it is to be emotional and think all that shit is the most important thing.  It can physically make you sick if you let it.  Been there.  Done that.

But I honestly noticed the energy I attracted started shifting A LOT when I decided to start choosing me.  And you almost notice a shift right away.  It's the weirdest thing.  When you treat yourself like you are the best, you attract people that treat you the best.  And the people already in your life reciprocate the same energy.  That law of attraction stuff is real!

I feel bad for people losing their shit over people who don't give a damn about them or settling for marriages or relationships where that's the case.  People really out here believing they can't do better.
True tea.

I think there's nothing wrong with realizing that whoever you're with is lucky to have you around. And expecting to see their appreciation - not just in words but actions.

I KNOW that's right!   :plea:

You would love some of my friends, Afro!  Me and my best friend/brother and one of my girls were on a 3-way call talking about this last week.  Who made the rule that we can't be in love with ourselves?  We call it conceited, cocky, arrogant, self absorbed and all these other negative words when someone let's it be known they are a blessing to your life.  People are so intimidated by someone that's self assured in that way.

If we built people up more to have strong self esteem and actually feel great about themselves, and know that it is absolutely OKAY to believe they are the hottest thing since sliced bread, there'd be less room for this culture of settling and accepting bullshit in your life.


ya rock muh world.

Quote from: XXX. on November 07, 2017, 07:40:15 PM
Quote from: rollercoaster on November 07, 2017, 07:34:58 PM
Quote from: XXX. on November 07, 2017, 07:31:34 PM
Quote from: M??D?? on November 07, 2017, 07:23:06 PM
Quote"Let me say BYE! in hopes that they chase me. Hehe!"

So many fags try this and end up looking dumb as fuck when it doesn't happen :plzstop:

!!!!

I told one of my girls that for years.  If you're done, BE DONE!  Don't tell him bye, because you're banking on him chasing you.

SMH.

But I try not to judge.  I know how it is to be emotional and think all that shit is the most important thing.  It can physically make you sick if you let it.  Been there.  Done that.

But I honestly noticed the energy I attracted started shifting A LOT when I decided to start choosing me.  And you almost notice a shift right away.  It's the weirdest thing.  When you treat yourself like you are the best, you attract people that treat you the best.  And the people already in your life reciprocate the same energy.  That law of attraction stuff is real!

I feel bad for people losing their shit over people who don't give a damn about them or settling for marriages or relationships where that's the case.  People really out here believing they can't do better.
True tea.

I think there's nothing wrong with realizing that whoever you're with is lucky to have you around. And expecting to see their appreciation - not just in words but actions.

I KNOW that's right!   :plea:

You would love some of my friends, Afro!  Me and my best friend/brother and one of my girls were on a 3-way call talking about this last week.  Who made the rule that we can't be in love with ourselves?  We call it conceited, cocky, arrogant, self absorbed and all these other negative words when someone let's it be known they are a blessing to your life.  People are so intimidated by someone that's self assured in that way.

If we built people up more to have strong self esteem and actually feel great about themselves, and know that it is absolutely OKAY to believe they are the hottest thing since sliced bread, there'd be less room for this culture of settling and accepting bullshit in your life.
Preach.

I think that contributes to people staying in certain situations - if you're not confident enough to know that what you have to offer will have you not very waiting long for option #2 to swing by...What will you put up with?

You must not know bout me, nigga. :woohoo: Bye!



XXX.

Quote from: rollercoaster on November 07, 2017, 07:48:12 PM
Quote from: XXX. on November 07, 2017, 07:40:15 PM
Quote from: rollercoaster on November 07, 2017, 07:34:58 PM
Quote from: XXX. on November 07, 2017, 07:31:34 PM
Quote from: M??D?? on November 07, 2017, 07:23:06 PM
Quote"Let me say BYE! in hopes that they chase me. Hehe!"

So many fags try this and end up looking dumb as fuck when it doesn't happen :plzstop:

!!!!

I told one of my girls that for years.  If you're done, BE DONE!  Don't tell him bye, because you're banking on him chasing you.

SMH.

But I try not to judge.  I know how it is to be emotional and think all that shit is the most important thing.  It can physically make you sick if you let it.  Been there.  Done that.

But I honestly noticed the energy I attracted started shifting A LOT when I decided to start choosing me.  And you almost notice a shift right away.  It's the weirdest thing.  When you treat yourself like you are the best, you attract people that treat you the best.  And the people already in your life reciprocate the same energy.  That law of attraction stuff is real!

I feel bad for people losing their shit over people who don't give a damn about them or settling for marriages or relationships where that's the case.  People really out here believing they can't do better.
True tea.

I think there's nothing wrong with realizing that whoever you're with is lucky to have you around. And expecting to see their appreciation - not just in words but actions.

I KNOW that's right!   :plea:

You would love some of my friends, Afro!  Me and my best friend/brother and one of my girls were on a 3-way call talking about this last week.  Who made the rule that we can't be in love with ourselves?  We call it conceited, cocky, arrogant, self absorbed and all these other negative words when someone let's it be known they are a blessing to your life.  People are so intimidated by someone that's self assured in that way.

If we built people up more to have strong self esteem and actually feel great about themselves, and know that it is absolutely OKAY to believe they are the hottest thing since sliced bread, there'd be less room for this culture of settling and accepting bullshit in your life.
Preach.

I think that contributes to people staying in certain situations - if you're not confident enough to know that what you have to offer will have you not very waiting long for option #2 to swing by...What will you put up with?

You must not know bout me, nigga. :woohoo: Bye!



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TUH!



XXX.


ya rock muh world.

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XXX.

Quote from: fallen on November 07, 2017, 08:10:08 PM
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