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[tarot]

he doesn't feel comfortable with you.
we all have issues with sex... in some way, shape or form.
especially in opening up and getting out of our heads.

also... lots of gay men bottom because they love the way it feels to submit.
...but physically... they hate it.
sucks. =(

omfg
It?s like u really broke him down to a T

Wtf
So what should i do king?

Also I?m a cap
And he?s a Taurus


Tell me the truth

don't really think it's an astrological challenge. lol.

does he have issues with his identity as a gay man?
not really sure what you can do because i still suffer from sex issues, too... lol.
we all do.
i will tell you this, though... if sex is the only thing lacking... find a way around it.
show him that you wanna know why there is a sexual block.
make it known that you are trying to find ways to get him to be comfortable and that you care about how the experiences are for him.

good sex can be found anywhere.
compatibility and true connection is rare.

[AIDS]

oh maybe hes not really into bottoming xcccccccccc

people do a lot of those they like.

[XXX.]

I've done a lot of things I never thought I would do over the last 3 years.  So, probably.  For me, sometimes sex is emotional.  If I'm not feeling you, I don't even want to have sex.  And that happens sometimes in long relationships.  You go through phases of doing it a LOT.  And then not doing it as much. 

Sex might be one of the least important things in a relationship to me now.  5 years ago, I would have been all, "OMFG NO WAY!!!!111" But there's just so much more to being in love and having a true soulmate. 

It's important, but it's not a deal breaker for me where I'm at in this particular moment.

okay so this is sorta how i feel
Yet.. im such a sexual being that it?s weird that slowly but surely I?m not desiring sex from this dude ..
And that I?m sorta racking a list up of niggas to smash in between time


Like I really like this dude..
Yet I?m thinking that maybe this behavior of me fucking other ppl won?t be good because I can Lowkey see myself with him
But I feel like sex with us may be ruined


Wtf do i do?
I tried the reverse mess like ?oh my fault? that the sex ain?t gewd!

?Oh next time will be better baby! It?s okay!?

But i can?t help but think.. he might have killed intercourse for us 

Glock, I'm gonna PM you.  I don't want to put all my business out there.  These girls love to jot it down to use later.

yeah ive taken 16 screenshots in this thread alone

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[GRAND]

I've done a lot of things I never thought I would do over the last 3 years.  So, probably.  For me, sometimes sex is emotional.  If I'm not feeling you, I don't even want to have sex.  And that happens sometimes in long relationships.  You go through phases of doing it a LOT.  And then not doing it as much. 

Sex might be one of the least important things in a relationship to me now.  5 years ago, I would have been all, "OMFG NO WAY!!!!111" But there's just so much more to being in love and having a true soulmate. 

It's important, but it's not a deal breaker for me where I'm at in this particular moment.

okay so this is sorta how i feel
Yet.. im such a sexual being that it?s weird that slowly but surely I?m not desiring sex from this dude ..
And that I?m sorta racking a list up of niggas to smash in between time


Like I really like this dude..
Yet I?m thinking that maybe this behavior of me fucking other ppl won?t be good because I can Lowkey see myself with him
But I feel like sex with us may be ruined


Wtf do i do?
I tried the reverse mess like ?oh my fault? that the sex ain?t gewd!

?Oh next time will be better baby! It?s okay!?

But i can?t help but think.. he might have killed intercourse for us 

Glock, I'm gonna PM you.  I don't want to put all my business out there.  These girls love to jot it down to use later.

yeah ive taken 16 screenshots in this thread alone

Sbshsshshshdjsjdjdjdjddjdjddjdjdjddjdjdjdjdjc


have you changed your password? I need to see something lol

,MMMMMMMMMMMN

no its still the 'ciara' one

[AIDS]

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[LOONA.]

Like girls
We were beating our mess and i busted ...
once when he wa sucking My dick
Then another time while we were jacking together .. same hour
And he couldn?t buss even after a good 20-30 mins of me munching and playing with his hole

hdjjkjff

Boy he's obviously uncomfortable

Sounds like he's self conscious and a nervous wreck. He's probably thinking too hard and wants to impress you. He might not be that experienced either.

     

[GLOCK]

oh maybe hes not really into bottoming xcccccccccc

people do a lot of those they like.

oh he?s a bottom HUN LMFAO

[GLOCK]

he doesn't feel comfortable with you.
we all have issues with sex... in some way, shape or form.
especially in opening up and getting out of our heads.

also... lots of gay men bottom because they love the way it feels to submit.
...but physically... they hate it.
sucks. =(

omfg
It?s like u really broke him down to a T

Wtf
So what should i do king?

Also I?m a cap
And he?s a Taurus


Tell me the truth

don't really think it's an astrological challenge. lol.

does he have issues with his identity as a gay man?
not really sure what you can do because i still suffer from sex issues, too... lol.
we all do.
i will tell you this, though... if sex is the only thing lacking... find a way around it.
show him that you wanna know why there is a sexual block.
make it known that you are trying to find ways to get him to be comfortable and that you care about how the experiences are for him.

good sex can be found anywhere.
compatibility and true connection is rare.

i have been doing this king
But this is good advice
I just need to keep going and continue to make him feel comfortable
It really is the only thing lacking

I?m gonna have a conversation with him again about it
I know it will be painful but hopefully it changes things
I told him that he really just wants everything to be so perfect so i can see him trying to do his best but that isn?t what Sex is

This helped tho.
Thank u

[GLOCK]

Like girls
We were beating our mess and i busted ...
once when he wa sucking My dick
Then another time while we were jacking together .. same hour
And he couldn?t buss even after a good 20-30 mins of me munching and playing with his hole

hdjjkjff

Boy he's obviously uncomfortable

Sounds like he's self conscious and a nervous wreck. He's probably thinking too hard and wants to impress you. He might not be that experienced either.

     

yeah this is what it is
But idk.. just wanted to make sure we can get past this
And if any of u girls have ever dealt with it
I?ve been with plenty dudes and I?ve never encountered this
Especially from someone who is semi out

[MAY]

If everything else is good then we can work on the sex part.

I'm a good teacher

[GRAND]

If everything else is good then we can work on the sex part.

I'm a good teacher

v

[tarot]

he doesn't feel comfortable with you.
we all have issues with sex... in some way, shape or form.
especially in opening up and getting out of our heads.

also... lots of gay men bottom because they love the way it feels to submit.
...but physically... they hate it.
sucks. =(

omfg
It?s like u really broke him down to a T

Wtf
So what should i do king?

Also I?m a cap
And he?s a Taurus


Tell me the truth

don't really think it's an astrological challenge. lol.

does he have issues with his identity as a gay man?
not really sure what you can do because i still suffer from sex issues, too... lol.
we all do.
i will tell you this, though... if sex is the only thing lacking... find a way around it.
show him that you wanna know why there is a sexual block.
make it known that you are trying to find ways to get him to be comfortable and that you care about how the experiences are for him.

good sex can be found anywhere.
compatibility and true connection is rare.

i have been doing this king
But this is good advice
I just need to keep going and continue to make him feel comfortable
It really is the only thing lacking

I?m gonna have a conversation with him again about it
I know it will be painful but hopefully it changes things
I told him that he really just wants everything to be so perfect so i can see him trying to do his best but that isn?t what Sex is

This helped tho.
Thank u

make sure he knows that he doesn't have to impress you.
"bottoms" value "tops" in an unrequited way.
even the score a bit.
he is taking a penis in his rectum. lol.

[United Nations Barbie 🇺🇳]

oh maybe hes not really into bottoming xcccccccccc

people do a lot of those they like.

oh he?s a bottom HUN LMFAO

So what?s wrong with your dick hun? Is it too big?

[MAY]

You can easily teach them how to please you in the bedroom.     

I was for certain that this was the case bruv..
But I?ve finally met someone who is everything but the sex is really terrible
Like this nigga runs from me during sex.. no matter how long i eat his mess ..
Play with his mess..
he tries to have conversation with me during sex..
He just overachieves
Saying he likes me so much so he wants to make sure he?s doing it right
But even when i pin him down and try to have my way .. he is still in his head and just not lost in the moment
It is the strangest thing..
He got so emotional because he knows that he?s just not good at this
He?s just very awkward
But only in the bedroom..
He?s a really sexy guy.. small ... fat ass.. submissive
Can suck a MEAN one.. but with sex..
He?s just not GEWD..

I?m really at a fork in the road.. tbh

Give him some weed before sex. That will help

[GLOCK]

he doesn't feel comfortable with you.
we all have issues with sex... in some way, shape or form.
especially in opening up and getting out of our heads.

also... lots of gay men bottom because they love the way it feels to submit.
...but physically... they hate it.
sucks. =(

omfg
It?s like u really broke him down to a T

Wtf
So what should i do king?

Also I?m a cap
And he?s a Taurus


Tell me the truth

don't really think it's an astrological challenge. lol.

does he have issues with his identity as a gay man?
not really sure what you can do because i still suffer from sex issues, too... lol.
we all do.
i will tell you this, though... if sex is the only thing lacking... find a way around it.
show him that you wanna know why there is a sexual block.
make it known that you are trying to find ways to get him to be comfortable and that you care about how the experiences are for him.

good sex can be found anywhere.
compatibility and true connection is rare.

i have been doing this king
But this is good advice
I just need to keep going and continue to make him feel comfortable
It really is the only thing lacking

I?m gonna have a conversation with him again about it
I know it will be painful but hopefully it changes things
I told him that he really just wants everything to be so perfect so i can see him trying to do his best but that isn?t what Sex is

This helped tho.
Thank u

make sure he knows that he doesn't have to impress you.
"bottoms" value "tops" in an unrequited way.
even the score a bit.
he is taking a penis in his rectum. lol.

this is really good advice 

Thank u foreal.
I have to stress it even more