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I think Kandi annoys me so much because she reminds me of Riley now. I normally don?t mind her but she had a nasty, uninterested attitude from what I?ve seen on this show.



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Don?t like Tocha
but Kandi should try to let her guard down a little if this group thing is gonna happen
It?s not gonna be overnight though so I understand a little hesitation

Young

Quote from: MARS. on November 07, 2017, 10:57:19 AM
or maybe the fact that it was 20 years ago Kandi doesn't remember specific incidents and/or has let them go but she certainly remembers how tocha made her feel

If it was big enough to keep her in her feelings then she should be able to remember SOME instances

I get what others are saying about Toch as far as her trying to act like everything is cool; but I think she moreso is just trying to start FRESH and get the groove back with the rest of the girls.

This sit down w/ her would have been the perfect time to address some specific things and Kandi couldn?t quite BRING it

Like what is Queen suppose to say? ?Sorry for making you feel left out all those times. We both can?t remember any specific instances but sorr? !?

No :dead:
If someone PISSED me off I?m gonna be able to point to the exact location and time they got me FUCKED up  :dead:



LOONA.


Young

Quote from: Kaeli. on November 07, 2017, 11:01:11 AM
Quote from: Young on November 07, 2017, 10:54:26 AM
Quote from: Kaeli. on November 07, 2017, 10:51:54 AM
Quote from: Young on November 07, 2017, 10:42:06 AM
Yeah See I can?t take ?andi




She?s that girl I would be blunt with too

A Debby downer mess OWT

She screams insecure and paranoid sometimes  :dead:

:dead:

Kandi seems to get her point across by acting like a child, which is annoying...but idk why ppl want her to just get over the MESS so quickly. It's not good to repress things the way she's been doing & I believe her when she says Tocha was being a BITCH! Tocha just doesn't wanna admit it  :plzstop:



I think Tocha has a big personality and that intimidates Kan? a bit

And she does seem like she can be bitchy or was to them as a CHILD maybe

But if someone is asking you in the present to explain what they did wrong and you can?t ; then we might as well BOTH get over it

I think Tocha was a bitch and doesn't wanna admit to her asshole tendencies. That flopping humbled her bc I know she was a fucking terror in that group. It still slips out and I can tell that from this one episode. Idk if he comes down to her being a strong personality because we've seen how Kandi deals with those.

And we also haven't seen the episode yet, so we can't rly say if Kandi told Tocha what happened and what didn't. I'm sure she did

Tocha probably was a bit of a mess in those days
It kinda seems like she was the leader
She was the oldest so it makes sense

But I dunno ; it?s easy to stay stagnant over mess in the past and I feel like Kandi is being that way as far as the group dynamic is concerned

She has to let her guard down and enter into this differently
She just isn?t quite Vibing like the other girls yet

But I was team Kandi when it came to the song choice and setlist mess


Young



Scott.

Quote from: MARS. on November 07, 2017, 10:43:03 AM
if you can't see thru tocha's lies and fakeness in that clip I feel sorry for you :dead:

I SWEAR. Like seriously.

Scott.

Quote from: Kaeli. on November 07, 2017, 10:51:54 AM
Quote from: Young on November 07, 2017, 10:42:06 AM
Yeah See I can?t take ?andi




She?s that girl I would be blunt with too

A Debby downer mess OWT

She screams insecure and paranoid sometimes  :dead:

:dead:

Kandi seems to get her point across by acting like a child, which is annoying...but idk why ppl want her to just get over the MESS so quickly. It's not good to repress things the way she's been doing & I believe her when she says Tocha was being a BITCH! Tocha just doesn't wanna admit it  :plzstop:
:plzstop: :plzstop:

Even Tiny said LaTocha thought she was greater than them on their "Unsung" special. Tocha isn't innocent in this at all

Young

Yeah I don?t think innocent was ever used to describe Queen Toch



Young

Quote from: Scott. on November 07, 2017, 11:13:05 AM
Quote from: MARS. on November 07, 2017, 10:43:03 AM
if you can't see thru tocha's lies and fakeness in that clip I feel sorry for you :dead:

I SWEAR. Like seriously.

If she was being fake wouldn?t have asked for ANSWERS


Scott.

Quote from: Young on November 07, 2017, 11:16:22 AM
Yeah I don?t think innocent was ever used to describe Queen Toch
Let you tell it, Kandi is wrong to feel the way she does because Tocha wants to move on. Yeah. It's easy for that pumpkin faced bitch to move on because she wasn't the one that was hurt. Kandi was. It was 20 years ago. I've said this several times already, but I don't mind repeating it. They aren't the same girls. It's easier for Tiny because she's remained friendly with them, but Kandi has been in years. So it's difficult.

And next episode is the therapy session, so Kandi WILL tell Tocha why she feels the way she does.

Scott.

Quote from: Young on November 07, 2017, 11:16:57 AM
Quote from: Scott. on November 07, 2017, 11:13:05 AM
Quote from: MARS. on November 07, 2017, 10:43:03 AM
if you can't see thru tocha's lies and fakeness in that clip I feel sorry for you :dead:

I SWEAR. Like seriously.

If she was being fake wouldn?t have asked for ANSWERS
She KNOWS the answers, that's why she's being FAKE to me. Like gtfoh. She know what went down between them. They had a damn special on "Unsung" about that where they discussed it, so how is she oblivious.  :dead:

Young

Quote from: Scott. on November 07, 2017, 11:18:51 AM
Quote from: Young on November 07, 2017, 11:16:22 AM
Yeah I don?t think innocent was ever used to describe Queen Toch
Let you tell it, Kandi is wrong to feel the way she does because Tocha wants to move on. Yeah. It's easy for that pumpkin faced bitch to move on because she wasn't the one that was hurt. Kandi was. It was 20 years ago. I've said this several times already, but I don't mind repeating it. They aren't the same girls. It's easier for Tiny because she's remained friendly with them, but Kandi has been in years. So it's difficult.

And next episode is the therapy session, so Kandi WILL tell Tocha why she feels the way she does.

And I hope that clears the air for them .
Because like you said it was 20 years ago and they are GROWN
and have grown.

Hopefully she drags Tocha for her mess and vise versa



Young

Quote from: Scott. on November 07, 2017, 11:20:08 AM
Quote from: Young on November 07, 2017, 11:16:57 AM
Quote from: Scott. on November 07, 2017, 11:13:05 AM
Quote from: MARS. on November 07, 2017, 10:43:03 AM
if you can't see thru tocha's lies and fakeness in that clip I feel sorry for you :dead:

I SWEAR. Like seriously.

If she was being fake wouldn?t have asked for ANSWERS
She KNOWS the answers, that's why she's being FAKE to me. Like gtfoh. She know what went down between them. They had a damn special on "Unsung" about that where they discussed it, so how is she oblivious.  :dead:

Drama doesn?t equate to lasting memories that affect me and I still hold on to 20 years later.

They just seem like two different women .
But what can?t be denied is that fact that she asked for answers and she nor Kandi got them

n

So I hope this therapy sess? Helps Kandi get whatever she?s looking for