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[Opposites Attract.]

Gay people are so weird.

[Navyman]

It makes sense. I mean ever since I was younger I was attracted to the guys, that we're well into guy things. If I wanted someone who plays in makeup, heels, sassy, perfume, snappy etc...i would just gotten a girl I think. I like I can hang out with, be good friends and sex etc... and still be men! This also may have to do with a lil tiny bit of my self hate as a gay men that I have identified in myself(been doing a lot of work on myself and it really is decreasing) but I just view a lot of them as weak(when in reality, that's just not the case because I admire and see their courage) I can be great friends with them now and not give a damn what anyone thinks(didn't like being see when near them years ago) and also I want rule all of them out now as I have done in the past. But yeah I perfer a man's man.

[XXX.]

Fems, where were ya?!

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Twin, Stfu!

[Navyman]

So glad I'm masculine DL trade with 5 baby mommas. LOL.

Your in the same category as fem men.

[SouravMay]

I do rarely even meet feminine men. I?d say 1 in 10 gays is ?fem?.

[ya rock muh world.]

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It makes sense. I think a lot of people actually try to find ways to swerve into a lane that they feel is more acceptable or will give them a better chance of snagging trade . I've seen so many stories of people saying "ch...he said he was trade. But one night at 6:20PM I caught him rolling his eyes. He one of the gorls." Meanwhile they were frontin' as well. sssss

But I take back what I said earlier in here about the gay community - that was sort of promoting stereotypes to say that the community is chock full of "fems". The media promotes the more feminine ones because it's more "fun". You get the gossip, the shade, the lingo...the fashion.

I can understand why some gay men who are genuinely a lot more tame may get annoyed with it. Because if they announce they're gay - people will begin sending them rainbows, saying "yasss honey!" and mess.

I'm far from the most masculine person myself but even I get annoyed with people assuming that because I'm gay that I want to hear a bunch of "yassss! work it! mmm hmmm! unh huh! gor u did dat! diva!" Unless I address you with all that , don't come to me with it.

[yummy]

So glad I'm masculine DL trade with 5 baby mommas. LOL.

do you need a place to stay 

[tarot]

most of us have fem qualities even if some of us don't want to embody that or admit to it.
femininity will naturally seek out masculinity for balance because it realizes it doesn't possess it on its own.
gay men usually grow up not feeling like men because of society's standards and expectations.
makes sense that most of us would seek that out as a way of compensating for what we feel we lack on our own.
this is the premise of most unhealthy relationships, gay or otherwise...

[GLOCK]

I do rarely even meet feminine men. I?d say 1 in 10 gays is ?fem?.

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[Kaeli.]

I do rarely even meet feminine men. I?d say 1 in 10 gays is ?fem?.

did u conduct a survey

[Purple Moon]

And I've definitely encountered "feminine" men who have no clue how "feminine" they are.

Tell me about it!

When I see these dating profiles:
"masculine and looking for the same!"

I'm like gurl you were fem as fuck the other day I saw ya outside, who you foolin? Not that there's anything wrong with that.

[SouravMay]

Some ppl give a lil fruity tease but I wouldn?t call them feminine.

Like Andy Cohen for example.

[yummy]

The masc/fem mess is usually subjective and way more complicated when you factor in how many men play trade in public and turn into Jay Alexander behind close doors.

At the end of the day, be yourself and stop trying to police other people's behavior, faggot.

[Kaeli.]

Andy Cohen is feminine af

[Purple Moon]

I think a lot of guys are into feminine men, but they are not comfortable with admitting it due to the attached stigma.