How do you guys cope with homophobic parents/siblings/fam in general?

Started by navyn, October 15, 2015, 06:29:29 PM

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navyn

I'm a family oriented guy and its heart-breaking to realize that my family DOESN'T USE ME. I try to go around family functions but they don't want to around. They always lie about location and my own father has been doing some shady shit. I move to Atlanta in November, so I'm happy I'll be able to be on my own. But I really would love their support. I believe he's trying to get me in a psych ward. If I hadn't taken a friends advice on the colonics, I would've been relasped and fallen into his trap. My family can be hateful and luving at the same time. Its sad that because I came out to them, they have been treating me like a rat on the street. My own mother made this comment, "How can another man let another man stick his dick up his ass, where shit comes out...its disgusting." I was fuming but didn't respond because I'm under her roof and she's still paying the bills, while I work these two shitty jobs. Anyway, how did y'all cope with homophobic family?

Barbie Dangerous

Quote from: navyn on October 15, 2015, 06:29:29 PM
My own mother made this comment, "How can another man let another man stick his dick up his ass, where shit comes out...its disgusting."
:omgwatshappening:






Your mom is damn rude.
:overit:


SUPREME


XXXI

I avoid they asses...  :uhh: start paying them dust... watch they start acting like you abandoned them then you have the upper hand win/win

Nine

Quote from: navyn on October 15, 2015, 06:29:29 PM
I'm a family oriented guy and its heart-breaking to realize that my family DOESN'T USE ME. I try to go around family functions but they don't want to around. They always lie about location and my own father has been doing some shady shit. I move to Atlanta in November, so I'm happy I'll be able to be on my own. But I really would love their support. I believe he's trying to get me in a psych ward. If I hadn't taken a friends advice on the colonics, I would've been relasped and fallen into his trap. My family can be hateful and luving at the same time. Its sad that because I came out to them, they have been treating me like a rat on the street. My own mother made this comment, "How can another man let another man stick his dick up his ass, where shit comes out...its disgusting." I was fuming but didn't respond because I'm under her roof and she's still paying the bills, while I work these two shitty jobs. Anyway, how did y'all cope with homophobic family?
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navyn

Quote from: SUPREME on October 15, 2015, 06:38:14 PM
Aww

Why are they trying to send you to a psych ward

Because they don't understand why I'm gay. I believe they drove my Aunt into a psych ward as well. She was raped by her own brother. My father side of the family is sick and fucking looney. They think drug dealers is ok but if u a faggot then u damned.

RatherBe

i would just get focused on yourself.. you dont need to invest your time into anyone who's not gonna do the same for you. that goes for friends family ANYONE



Just Dropped In To See What Condition My Condition Was In

I've cut all ties with my family. Simple as that. Create your own family with your friends. Surround yourself with positive people who would love and support you no matter what. That's what I've done and I'm so much better for it. I haven't seen any of my family in nearly 10 years and could care less if I ever see them again or vice versa. There comes a time where you have to cut your family off. It's not easy to do, but you'll be so much happier and relieved when you do.
I am scarred, so fucking scarred
These are the scars of me
The very fucking scars of me
This is my tragic heart
My tragic heart

-Me "Tragic Heart"

Nine

Half of my family I don't even like so who gives a fuck what they think.

:supluv:

Sinpool

hjbhddd

Idk I got so used to homophobia growing up that I don't react to it as much as I should.
I mean if someone says something ignorant I'll call them out but I'd probably cackle if I heard someone call someone a faggot instead of being offended.


Just Dropped In To See What Condition My Condition Was In

I am scarred, so fucking scarred
These are the scars of me
The very fucking scars of me
This is my tragic heart
My tragic heart

-Me "Tragic Heart"

Barbie Dangerous

Quote from: navyn on October 15, 2015, 06:41:03 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on October 15, 2015, 06:38:14 PM
Aww

Why are they trying to send you to a psych ward

Because they don't understand why I'm gay. I believe they drove my Aunt into a psych ward as well. She was raped by her own brother. My father side of the family is sick and fucking looney. They think drug dealers is ok but if u a faggot then u damned.
They might be your family but it sounds to me like you need to limit the time you spend with them anyway. Maybe the distance will make them realize how valuable you are and get them to think differently.



Just Dropped In To See What Condition My Condition Was In

My brother and I never really used one another anyway. So fuck his criminal ass. :supluv:
I am scarred, so fucking scarred
These are the scars of me
The very fucking scars of me
This is my tragic heart
My tragic heart

-Me "Tragic Heart"

RatherBe

people dont understand that just because you dont agree doesnot give you the right to be disrespectful.

for instance my cousin doesnt agree with my lifestyle and is extremely rude... but i dont agree that she a 6 kids by 4 different fathers either, but it doesnt warrant me to just be rude off the bat. sooooo... :letsmessfag: