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[Scott.]

I've been dating this guy since July and we've finally made it official. We're both in love. But I find myself being very distant from him and it's only because my guards are up extremely, mainly due to past hurts from several men. It's like he's showing me the attention that I've always craved and doing things that no other guy has ever done for me Always compliments me, checks on me and appreciates me.  He even said that I'm very nonchalant . Which I am. I'm not exactly a warm and fuzzy person.

But I'm VERY scared. I've been single for so long, so it's hard to adjust being with someone else and compromising with someone when I'm so USED to doing shit JUST FOR ME and not worrying about how any person will feel. You know how you want something and once you get it, you're afraid? That's me.

[MelMel]

Jameesha gorl

[Scott.]

Jameesha gorl

Lmao the book is almost finished

[Buy The Stars✨]

I told you Scottie if you feel a certain way don?t voice it on the board just come to me and let me know ... i can tell you?re distant but know that I?ll do what i can for you and I?ll always fight for you till those wallsof yours break down... now come to bed  beautiful 

[Scott.]

I told you Scottie if you feel a certain way don?t voice it on the board just come to me and let me know ... i can tell you?re distant but know that I?ll do what i can for you and I?ll always fight for you till those wallsof yours break down... now come to bed  beautiful

[MelMel]

And you might let something good go away because you are clinging to the past and what other men did. Stop the madness love!

[Scott.]

And you might let something good go away because you are clinging to the past and what other men did. Stop the madness love!

It's like I'm always prepared for the bullshit. I'm just waiting for it So you're right.

[MelMel]

And you might let something good go away because you are clinging to the past and what other men did. Stop the madness love!

It's like I'm always prepared for the bullshit. I'm just waiting for it So you're right.

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

and this man is preventing me from having my book at the moment 

you know I love and support you bby 

[Young]

I've been dating this guy since July and we've finally made it official. We're both in love. But I find myself being very distant from him and it's only because my guards are up extremely, mainly due to past hurts from several men. It's like he's showing me the attention that I've always craved and doing things that no other guy has ever done for me Always compliments me, checks on me and appreciates me.  He even said that I'm very nonchalant . Which I am. I'm not exactly a warm and fuzzy person.

But I'm VERY scared. I've been single for so long, so it's hard to adjust being with someone else and compromising with someone when I'm so USED to doing shit JUST FOR ME and not worrying about how any person will feel. You know how you want something and once you get it, you're afraid? That's me.

Hun....

If God has given you exactly what you asked for then why not  live and relish in your blessing . It sounds like you have exactly what you?ve been looking for sis . Snap out of it . Love is REAL, and it sounds like it?s right  in front of you . We?ve talked about things in the past privately and this sounds like something totally different from those experiences .

Fall into this blessing sis. Sounds like you got a real One .
Don?t be afraid anymore . Live in the moment and bring down those guards . The feeling you want to have in love can happen if you give into it . I understand why its taking you time to warm up fully. And that?s smart that you held out and kind stood back a bit . But now it?s time for the next step .  Sounds like 2018 can be AMAZING for you if you let it 

[Buy The Stars✨]

Seriously though sis i feel you i been there.  I say get out of your own way.  I have lost a guy that i was very in love with  before cause he was just like you afraid to let me in because of some douche from the past. I would hate to see you lose out on someone great.  You cannot judge someone based of of another guy it?s not fair to do that to a guy who is good to you. If you let this stop you i promise you will regret it forever. 

[GRAND]

Tell him exactly what you wrote here.

[Scott.]

Tell him exactly what you wrote here.

l did. His ass is understanding af

[Scott.]

I've been dating this guy since July and we've finally made it official. We're both in love. But I find myself being very distant from him and it's only because my guards are up extremely, mainly due to past hurts from several men. It's like he's showing me the attention that I've always craved and doing things that no other guy has ever done for me Always compliments me, checks on me and appreciates me.  He even said that I'm very nonchalant . Which I am. I'm not exactly a warm and fuzzy person.

But I'm VERY scared. I've been single for so long, so it's hard to adjust being with someone else and compromising with someone when I'm so USED to doing shit JUST FOR ME and not worrying about how any person will feel. You know how you want something and once you get it, you're afraid? That's me.

Hun....

If God has given you exactly what you asked for then why not  live and relish in your blessing . It sounds like you have exactly what you?ve been looking for sis . Snap out of it . Love is REAL, and it sounds like it?s right  in front of you . We?ve talked about things in the past privately and this sounds like something totally different from those experiences .

Fall into this blessing sis. Sounds like you got a real One .
Don?t be afraid anymore . Live in the moment and bring down those guards . The feeling you want to have in love can happen if you give into it . I understand why its taking you time to warm up fully. And that?s smart that you held out and kind stood back a bit . But now it?s time for the next step .  Sounds like 2018 can be AMAZING for you if you let it 

love you.

[ya rock muh world.]

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[L0NZ.]

And you might let something good go away because you are clinging to the past and what other men did. Stop the madness love!

It's like I'm always prepared for the bullshit. I'm just waiting for it So you're right.

I mean you pack an umbrella on a cloudy day just in case, but you still fuckin go out and enjoy the day.