Quote from: brocka4life on January 02, 2017, 02:31:22 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on January 02, 2017, 02:24:25 PM
Quote from: brocka4life on January 02, 2017, 02:15:41 PM
It's just you.
I don't mean any harm but people judge people on their appearance and are always more likely to treat people better based on how they view that person's attractiveness. Maybe they just don't view you in the best light.
Black people are just as capable of providing outstanding service than any other group of people.
For someone who dates drug addicts, I wouldn't guess that you would generalize like this. Do better!
Besides, they have a business to run. Letting somebody drive 5 cars all below $5000 is a waste of time. You know what you want by that point, especially if you put in a paperwork for one. Time is money and they don't have it to waste on you; that's time that could be spent on another sale or processing necessary paperwork.
Secondly u cant say say in one breath they are judging me based on how i look and then say they can give good customer service in the next
Thirdly we have Proof that blacks are a hell of a lot more judgmentals just in general so
To your second point, I said "people" not "black people"
To your third point, can you point me in the direction of the studies that provided this proof?
I didn't comment to argue or to offend. What I mean by "it's just you" is that it's just your experience. You cannot generalize an entire race of people based off your experience alone. That's basically what a lot of racists do...base it off the few interactions they've had with the other group.
I'm sorry you feel that you have not been provided the respect you feel you deserve. But based on your stories, you tend to allow yourself to be treated as a doormat. Perhaps that carries over into your business interactions as well. Or maybe it's just your interactions with blacks which could be based off whatever pre-existing feelings or insecurities you have about interacting with blacks or what you feel they want out of you.
Oh i dont studies sweetie
I grew up in the hood and in the hood
It was embarrasing to have food stamps
It was embarrasing to be on housing assistance
It was embarrasing if u didnt have new clothes
It was embarrasing if ur shoes wasnt freh
And thats because blacks are very judgmental of other blacks
But lets move in to a white state (as i did)
All the above is no big deal
Now.im.fine with bomquisha at the drive thru being rude
But if im going to a bank or a car dealership or calling a supervisor at a nother business or a hospital i expect nothing but the best
There are some blacks that are fine and others that are a bit judgmental and it affects their job
The customer service itself may be ok but the overall experience isnt pleasant if that makes sense
And like i said its usually enviromental
When ive gone down south it aint even an issue
But its not just me
Ive got 30 years of dealing with this in various enviroments and has nothing to do with u kust thinking im ugly and not dressing rite