Sometimes I just hate dealing with blacks for my business (stories)

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brocka4life

Quote from: TheNextLew on January 02, 2017, 02:43:23 PM
Quote from: brocka4life on January 02, 2017, 02:31:22 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on January 02, 2017, 02:24:25 PM
Quote from: brocka4life on January 02, 2017, 02:15:41 PM
It's just you.
I don't mean any harm but people judge people on their appearance and are always more likely to treat people better based on how they view that person's attractiveness. Maybe they just don't view you in the best light.

Black people are just as capable of providing outstanding service than any other group of people.

For someone who dates drug addicts, I wouldn't guess that you would generalize like this. Do better!

Besides, they have a business to run. Letting somebody drive 5 cars all below $5000 is a waste of time. You know what you want by that point, especially if you put in a paperwork for one. Time is money and they don't have it to waste on you; that's time that could be spent on another sale or processing necessary paperwork.


Secondly u cant say say in one breath they are judging me based on how i look and then say they can give good customer service in the next

Thirdly we have Proof that blacks are a hell of a lot more judgmentals just in general so


To your second point, I said "people" not "black people"

To your third point, can you point me in the direction of the studies that provided this proof?

I didn't comment to argue or to offend. What I mean by "it's just you" is that it's just your experience. You cannot generalize an entire race of people based off your experience alone. That's basically what a lot of racists do...base it off the few interactions they've had with the other group.

I'm sorry you feel that you have not been provided the respect you feel you deserve. But based on your stories, you tend to allow yourself to be treated as a doormat. Perhaps that carries over into your business interactions as well. Or maybe it's just your interactions with blacks which could be based off whatever pre-existing feelings or insecurities you have about interacting with blacks or what you feel they want out of you.

Oh i dont studies sweetie
I grew up in the hood and in the hood

It was embarrasing to have food stamps
It was embarrasing to be on housing assistance
It was embarrasing if u didnt have new clothes
It was embarrasing if ur shoes wasnt freh
And thats because blacks are very judgmental of other blacks

But lets move in to a white state (as i did)

All the above is no big deal


Now.im.fine with bomquisha at the drive thru being rude

But if im going to a bank or a car dealership or calling a supervisor at a nother business or a hospital  i expect nothing but the best
There are some blacks that are fine and others that are a bit judgmental and it affects their job

The customer service itself  may be ok but the overall experience isnt pleasant if that makes sense

And like i said its usually enviromental

When ive gone down south it aint even an issue


But its not just me

Ive got 30 years of dealing with this in various enviroments and has nothing to do with u kust thinking im ugly and not dressing rite

Just like I thought, these are thoughts based on childhood/adolescent interactions.

I don't think you're ugly and I don't really know how you dress. I just know that people, in general, are willing to go the extra mile for people they feel attracted to (not necessarily speaking romantic/sexual attraction).

It's clear that you want to be liked. But at what cost?

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Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 02, 2017, 02:47:42 PM
And not that it's right, but people most certainly do judge on appearance. And yea, i would think u were wasting my time based on appearance. Car salesman work off of commission. It probably had less to do with him being black and more to do with him not wanting to waste his time

There is no such thing as wasting time with a customer and their used vehicle he was a prick and he didnt last long and i bought my car anyway :supluv:



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Quote from: brocka4life on January 02, 2017, 02:50:53 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on January 02, 2017, 02:43:23 PM
Quote from: brocka4life on January 02, 2017, 02:31:22 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on January 02, 2017, 02:24:25 PM
Quote from: brocka4life on January 02, 2017, 02:15:41 PM
It's just you.
I don't mean any harm but people judge people on their appearance and are always more likely to treat people better based on how they view that person's attractiveness. Maybe they just don't view you in the best light.

Black people are just as capable of providing outstanding service than any other group of people.

For someone who dates drug addicts, I wouldn't guess that you would generalize like this. Do better!

Besides, they have a business to run. Letting somebody drive 5 cars all below $5000 is a waste of time. You know what you want by that point, especially if you put in a paperwork for one. Time is money and they don't have it to waste on you; that's time that could be spent on another sale or processing necessary paperwork.


Secondly u cant say say in one breath they are judging me based on how i look and then say they can give good customer service in the next

Thirdly we have Proof that blacks are a hell of a lot more judgmentals just in general so


To your second point, I said "people" not "black people"

To your third point, can you point me in the direction of the studies that provided this proof?

I didn't comment to argue or to offend. What I mean by "it's just you" is that it's just your experience. You cannot generalize an entire race of people based off your experience alone. That's basically what a lot of racists do...base it off the few interactions they've had with the other group.

I'm sorry you feel that you have not been provided the respect you feel you deserve. But based on your stories, you tend to allow yourself to be treated as a doormat. Perhaps that carries over into your business interactions as well. Or maybe it's just your interactions with blacks which could be based off whatever pre-existing feelings or insecurities you have about interacting with blacks or what you feel they want out of you.

Oh i dont studies sweetie
I grew up in the hood and in the hood

It was embarrasing to have food stamps
It was embarrasing to be on housing assistance
It was embarrasing if u didnt have new clothes
It was embarrasing if ur shoes wasnt freh
And thats because blacks are very judgmental of other blacks

But lets move in to a white state (as i did)

All the above is no big deal


Now.im.fine with bomquisha at the drive thru being rude

But if im going to a bank or a car dealership or calling a supervisor at a nother business or a hospital  i expect nothing but the best
There are some blacks that are fine and others that are a bit judgmental and it affects their job

The customer service itself  may be ok but the overall experience isnt pleasant if that makes sense

And like i said its usually enviromental

When ive gone down south it aint even an issue


But its not just me

Ive got 30 years of dealing with this in various enviroments and has nothing to do with u kust thinking im ugly and not dressing rite

Just like I thought, these are thoughts based on childhood/adolescent interactions.

I don't think you're ugly and I don't really know how you dress. I just know that people, in general, are willing to go the extra mile for people they feel attracted to (not necessarily speaking romantic/sexual attraction).

It's clear that you want to be liked. But at what cost?

Thoughts???? These are experiences hun

No matter which way u slice it

Ur rationalization is that if i encounter a black that that isnt attracted to me cuz im ugly and im not dressed rite om gonna get treated a certain way

But see most cases the average white guy with the same level of attractivness and dress wouldnt get that same treatment

And thats real

We all judge and size up and whatnot and of course if a cute nigga comin in there u gon be like.hey what can i do.for you :wellheythere:

But the real test is when the average joe walks in with average joe issues
Then what

Smh



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brocka4life

A white guy with the same level of attractiveness and appearance wouldn't get that because as fucked as society is, they see White as more attractive than black. So he would already be at an advantage.

I'm not saying it's right. I'm not saying your experienced aren't real. I'm saying your generalizations about black people are possibly rooted in shit you went through with blacks people when you were younger. We tend to focus on the negative more than the positive.

Aren't you black? Are you saying you treat people the same way you feel black people treat you? Or do you view yourself as an exception?

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Quote from: brocka4life on January 02, 2017, 03:03:27 PM
A white guy with the same level of attractiveness and appearance wouldn't get that because as fucked as society is, they see White as more attractive than black. So he would already be at an advantage.

I'm not saying it's right. I'm not saying your experienced aren't real. I'm saying your generalizations about black people are possibly rooted in shit you went through with blacks people when you were younger. We tend to focus on the negative more than the positive.

Aren't you black? Are you saying you treat people the same way you feel black people treat you? Or do you view yourself as an exception?

Not me seeking revenge on blacks :kii: :plzstop:
I am the opposite im not here for whites
And i try to treat and aknowledge  blacks with care as much as i can
From my job to everyday stuff

But see blacks living in white area creates a different animal in blacks but i fight against that



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GRAND

you know what

i didnt read the mess but you test drove 7 cars?

xccccccccccccc

i wouldve said fck you too

como la whore

Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on January 02, 2017, 07:16:30 PM
you know what

i didnt read the mess but you test drove 7 cars?

xccccccccccccc

i wouldve said fck you too

i'm crying

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Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on January 02, 2017, 07:16:30 PM
you know what

i didnt read the mess but you test drove 7 cars?

xccccccccccccc

i wouldve said fck you too

No it was 4



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FlowerBomb

Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on January 02, 2017, 07:16:30 PM
you know what

i didnt read the mess but you test drove 7 cars?

xccccccccccccc

i wouldve said fck you too
:plzstop:
must have been some meth in that nutt he swallowed
Weird self

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Quote from: Jayda on January 03, 2017, 06:00:31 AM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on January 02, 2017, 07:16:30 PM
you know what

i didnt read the mess but you test drove 7 cars?

xccccccccccccc

i wouldve said fck you too
:plzstop:
must have been some meth in that nutt he swallowed
Weird self
fuk u

i know no body is drivin off of a used car lot without a test drive  :hmph:



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Vonc2002

Aint nobody test driving 5 cars. U sound like a complete waste of time and u don't even realize how annoying u are
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





FlowerBomb

Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 03, 2017, 06:15:44 AM
Aint nobody text driving 5 cars. U sound like a complete waste of time and u don't even realize how annoying u are
:plzstop:

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Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 03, 2017, 06:15:44 AM
Aint nobody text driving 5 cars. U sound like a complete waste of time and u don't even realize how annoying u are

u sound like a nigger driving off with used lemon  :supluv: :supluv:



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FlowerBomb

Their treatment of you was justified.
No one has patience for all that mess, let this be a lesson to you Lewis Hibbert.