How to deal with abusive parents?

Started by Hatsumomo, January 05, 2018, 11:48:17 AM

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Hatsumomo

Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 05, 2018, 12:03:21 PM
Quote from: Ntwadumela on January 05, 2018, 12:00:04 PM
Quote from: LORD GRAND SUPREME PRIME CELESTIAL MARSHALL on January 05, 2018, 11:59:00 AM
Get rid of her

Being related doesn't mean you have to tolerate disrespect

But have you ever just told her she's...well a BITCH!

She a Jehovah's Witness baby ..she thinks she knows everything and is perfect. We have vicious arguments.
Ntw' this is your fault.  U have to have a line that u don't allow people to cross.  U have to teach people how to treat u. If you're going to continue to allow the disrespect then don't whine about it.  Either deal or DONT

True.....

LOONA.

Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 05, 2018, 11:53:12 AM
People definitely posts mess about their parents here.  My parents aren't abusive but I have standards and stipulations for anyone in my life in regards to how I'm treated and what I'll allow. I don't subscribe to the whole  "it's family, so you gotta deal" thing. If you plan on being a part of my life you'll show me the respect I deserve. I don't disrespect my family or friends so I'll settle for nothing less.  U too can be booted from my life, if that's what you'd like

Barbie Dangerous

Quote from: LORD GRAND SUPREME PRIME CELESTIAL MARSHALL on January 05, 2018, 11:59:00 AM
Get rid of her


Being related doesn't mean you have to tolerate disrespect

But have you ever just told her she's...well a BITCH!
Murder?

:ohwow:





ya rock muh world.

Based on some of your posts I think it's best you seek professional help.

And that's not even being funny. Doesn't mean you're crazy or anything -  just based on some of the scenarios you've have to put up with recently.  I don't think BSource is going to give you answers you need.

Love you Marq...make sure you take care of yourself. :blush: :blush:


Drogon

January 05, 2018, 03:32:11 PM #22 Last Edit: January 05, 2018, 04:24:37 PM by FM
Quote from: Ntwadumela on January 05, 2018, 12:03:11 PM
Quote from: Genesis on January 05, 2018, 12:00:53 PM
If you are over 18, what are you afraid of?  :plzstop:

Parents can be wrong too. Just because they gave birth to you doesnt mean you have to give them a pass for being fucked up.

!!!!!!

Oh nvm

U can pay mi bills abd i luh you long time

VirgoMind

Quote from: Ntwadumela on January 05, 2018, 11:55:26 AM

I pay her bills every month, I buy her things ect.. but she keeps coming for me..  :everythingok:

Well then stop all of this and cut her off for a while. See if she changes her tune.


b7

Quote from: VirgoMind on January 05, 2018, 04:09:33 PM
Quote from: Ntwadumela on January 05, 2018, 11:55:26 AM

I pay her bills every month, I buy her things ect.. but she keeps coming for me..  :everythingok:

Well then stop all of this and cut her off for a while. See if she changes her tune.
ncncncncncn ok?! That?s that


Palladium

Quote from: Ntwadumela on January 05, 2018, 11:55:26 AM
It's scary though when you hear you own parent like say certain things about you and you're like...  :omgwatshappening:

I pay her bills every month, I buy her things ect.. but she keeps coming for me..  :everythingok:

You pay the bills of an abusive person?

Mama or not it's unacceptable.

I wou9ldnt pay shit until her attitude changed..


Drogon

Quote from: Palladium on January 05, 2018, 04:55:45 PM
Quote from: Ntwadumela on January 05, 2018, 11:55:26 AM
It's scary though when you hear you own parent like say certain things about you and you're like...  :omgwatshappening:

I pay her bills every month, I buy her things ect.. but she keeps coming for me..  :everythingok:

You pay the bills of an abusive person?

Mama or not it's unacceptable.

I wou9ldnt pay shit until her attitude changed..

Yea seems like he likes being tortured

Barbie Dangerous

Wait. She?s verbally abusive AND he pays her bills?

:usureuok:


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