Quote from: Annie on January 06, 2018, 06:03:34 PM
I don?t know I guess a lot of Christians always blame God for things not happening. A Grammy is not an award for being a good wife. You should be grateful you have such a good relationship. I do believe there is a divine force but we are also reponsible ourselves. We have to somehow create our own happiness..this might not be being the next Bey because a lot of artists are struggling and you have to stand out to make it in the music industry
Preach GODnnie
I think that some people really take in this sense of entitlement when it comes to life..so much so that they begin to get out of touch with the reality of situations. Reality is that she is past 30 now still trying to do doo wop pop pop girl groups.
It's one thing to just shut up and hustle relentlessly in the face of all odds (
see: Dawn Richards) but it's another to victimize yourself and hand out a plate asking for pity points.
I agree that she doesn't really seem to be doing this out of the love of music, she wants to establish a steady and lucrative career. But music ain't really the basket to put all of your eggs in. I don't think she's taken time to build other skills for herself outside of music and now it may seem as if it's the be all and say all.
It's a really shitty spot to be in if all you know how to do is sing..as a grown 30+ year old woman. And it isn't popping off.
If that's the case, my heart really goes out to her. But she needs to toughen up and make some decisions.