these conversations are healthy...im kinda surprised with how blunt Matthew is being but it seems as if a lot of shit is being called out these days.
there's really no time to pretend as if certain things don't exist and aren't there. certainly not with trump as our president
luv nicki to death but i have to call a spade a spade. she damn well KNOWS that there is advantage in being seen as "other" or "mixed" and she plays it up all the time. harajuku! china! my kitchen gewd! it's a bit much.
but i'm not too hard on her or anyone else who may have a complex because we're ultimately all victims when it comes down to that. its larger than just one person or lyric.
only way to really heal and address something is to have an open and honest conversation about it. we brush so much shit under the rug as Black people.