Quote from: SAINT BENTLEY. on February 09, 2018, 09:29:43 AM
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Yawl know Ralf speaks in code.
Ralf tell him you want him to be more ambitious and set goals. If he doesn?t meet those and you?re not comfy accommodating him, kick him out.
Is he fine tho?
I did. And I broke things off last week. It just came to a point.
He is fine as fuck. But honestly, it's not enough... I can always find another.
He does have money, from family (mind you) and thinks since I never had to support him, what is the big deal?
The big deal is... I can't complete with someone's FREE time. Him just waiting for me to return home all day.
The relationship became all about US... vs it being balanced (me, him, us). All he cared about was us, together. I couldn't take!
And I feel if he was more productive, he'd have a better outlook on his life.
He had me feeling like I was forcing him to do something. And he didn't need to.
And honestly, he doesn't. He'll find someone willing to deal with him. There's more to it than him not being productive...
We didn't live together, so that's good.
You live and you learn. And you learn that sometimes you entertain a relationship you otherwise wouldn't.