Could You Date a Grown Man who is Not Productive

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Rxxf

BRANDY

KING BENTLEY.

all depends on how he looks

the Game could post up all day, and I would work my hardest to make sure the bills were paid and he was comfy tbh

H.#.G.*.Z


Vonc2002

This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





CHOKE

February 09, 2018, 03:51:58 AM #51 Last Edit: February 09, 2018, 03:52:20 AM by Wild Bitch
Yeah, even Choke has draw the line on this one

I?d put up with domestic abuse before dealing with a lazy broke nigga

Sor


LOONA.


KING BENTLEY.

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Yawl know Ralf speaks in code.

Ralf tell him you want him to be more ambitious and set goals. If he doesn?t meet those and you?re not comfy accommodating him, kick him out.

Is he fine tho?

H.#.G.*.Z

Rxxf

Quote from: SAINT BENTLEY. on February 09, 2018, 09:29:43 AM
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Yawl know Ralf speaks in code.

Ralf tell him you want him to be more ambitious and set goals. If he doesn?t meet those and you?re not comfy accommodating him, kick him out.

Is he fine tho?

I did.  And I broke things off last week.  It just came to a point.

He is fine as fuck.  But honestly, it's not enough... I can always find another. 
He does have money, from family (mind you) and thinks since I never had to support him, what is the big deal?

The big deal is... I can't complete with someone's FREE time.  Him just waiting for me to return home all day.
The relationship became all about US... vs it being balanced (me, him, us).  All he cared about was us, together.  I couldn't take!
And I feel if he was more productive, he'd have a better outlook on his life.

He had me feeling like I was forcing him to do something.  And he didn't need to.
And honestly, he doesn't.  He'll find someone willing to deal with him.  There's more to it than him not being productive...

We didn't live together, so that's good.
You live and you learn.  And you learn that sometimes you entertain a relationship you otherwise wouldn't.
BRANDY

ya rock muh world.

Yeah looks are important but you can't bump up a credit score with a selfie.

Attraction is definitely key and not to be ignored but there's so many things that have to be taken into account if you're actually dating someone and looking into the possibility of a relationship.

If you just looking to fuck and go that's a different story.


LOONA.

Quote from: ???? on February 09, 2018, 10:56:46 AM
Quote from: SAINT BENTLEY. on February 09, 2018, 09:29:43 AM
s

Yawl know Ralf speaks in code.

Ralf tell him you want him to be more ambitious and set goals. If he doesn?t meet those and you?re not comfy accommodating him, kick him out.

Is he fine tho?

I did.  And I broke things off last week.  It just came to a point.

He is fine as fuck.  But honestly, it's not enough... I can always find another. 
He does have money, from family (mind you) and thinks since I never had to support him, what is the big deal?

The big deal is... I can't complete with someone's FREE time.  Him just waiting for me to return home all day.
The relationship became all about US... vs it being balanced (me, him, us).  All he cared about was us, together.  I couldn't take!
And I feel if he was more productive, he'd have a better outlook on his life.

He had me feeling like I was forcing him to do something.  And he didn't need to.
And honestly, he doesn't.  He'll find someone willing to deal with him.  There's more to it than him not being productive...

We didn't live together, so that's good.
You live and you learn.  And you learn that sometimes you entertain a relationship you otherwise wouldn't.

And how long have you been entertaining this bum?

:ummwhat:     


KING BENTLEY.

Quote from: ???? on February 09, 2018, 10:56:46 AM
Quote from: SAINT BENTLEY. on February 09, 2018, 09:29:43 AM
s

Yawl know Ralf speaks in code.

Ralf tell him you want him to be more ambitious and set goals. If he doesn?t meet those and you?re not comfy accommodating him, kick him out.

Is he fine tho?

I did.  And I broke things off last week.  It just came to a point.

He is fine as fuck.  But honestly, it's not enough... I can always find another. 
He does have money, from family (mind you) and thinks since I never had to support him, what is the big deal?

The big deal is... I can't complete with someone's FREE time.  Him just waiting for me to return home all day.
The relationship became all about US... vs it being balanced (me, him, us).  All he cared about was us, together.  I couldn't take!
And I feel if he was more productive, he'd have a better outlook on his life.

He had me feeling like I was forcing him to do something.  And he didn't need to.
And honestly, he doesn't.  He'll find someone willing to deal with him.  There's more to it than him not being productive...

We didn't live together, so that's good.
You live and you learn.  And you learn that sometimes you entertain a relationship you otherwise wouldn't.
we need to talk




and maybe a couple more things now that your single
:giveittomeddy:

H.#.G.*.Z

Jon


Genesis