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[Kurama]

Is it just gay men?

[Young]

I've been in a relationship for almost 7 years thank u.

And the fags I see going to clubs every weekend looking for hookups and the next hottest boy toy can't hold down a stable relationship because they are so consumed with the desires of their flesh and they lust after ever cute thing they see. Sorry, not sorr' ! LMAO

[Young]

Is it just gay men?

It's men period.

But when u have two trying to have a relationship,it can be extremely hard and it requires sacrifice and discipline.

[Bulldagger]

This ain't about no damn lust. You niggas don't know how to love because you never learned how!!

You sound hurt Hun. But don't speak for everyone.

I am not hurt. This isn't about me personally. This thread was created based off of conversations I've had with other gay men and listening to various podcasts and things of that nature. I will say that dating in the gay community is hard and if I was straight, I'd probably be married with children right now. I think that pretty much says it all.

[Bulldagger]

I've been in a relationship for almost 7 years thank u.

And the fags I see going to clubs every weekend looking for hookups and the next hottest boy toy can't hold down a stable relationship because they are so consumed with the desires of their flesh and they lust after ever cute thing they see. Sorry, not sorr' ! LMAO

Well, you're an oddity love. You can't speak on what hasn't been your experience for quite some time. When was the last time you were out there dating? Exactly.

[CarseyWerner]

Lust could be a factor, but that's fixable through communication. I've never met a gay couple in a long term relationship who didn't invite other people into their bedroom / had an open relationship. That's how the majority of them survive

[Hugo]

Is it just gay men?

It's men period.

But when u have two trying to have a relationship,it can be extremely hard and it requires sacrifice and discipline.

Preach Young!

[Miranda]

I think it is because we as men can get straight to the point. If you are straight you need to reconsider if you let this puss go, you might not get another one for a while. A man will always find some dick.

[Young]

I've been in a relationship for almost 7 years thank u.

And the fags I see going to clubs every weekend looking for hookups and the next hottest boy toy can't hold down a stable relationship because they are so consumed with the desires of their flesh and they lust after ever cute thing they see. Sorry, not sorr' ! LMAO

Well, you're an oddity love. You can't speak on what hasn't been your experience for quite some time. When was the last time you were out there dating? Exactly.

I'm sorry, did things change now all of the sudden? Did the genetic makeup of a male change over the last 7 years or something? U sound mad hunny bun.

I'm not missing out on anything . You fags wanna have a lasting relationship but then wanna club hop every weekend and post pics to get attention on insta for other trade to notice you, but then wanna act confused as to why your man is up in the wee hours of the night on Grindr. Men LUST. It's nature Hun.

A lasting relationship for two MEN is extremely tough, but it requires discipline, sacrifice and commitment. My guy and I have pretty much dropped the club scene, social media, and any other lustful setting/environment.

The key is treating it like any other working, normal relationship.

[Kurama]

Is it just gay men?

It's men period.

But when u have two trying to have a relationship,it can be extremely hard and it requires sacrifice and discipline.

I agree

[hewritez]

Aside from the obvious: that all men are lustful.

There's also another point to consider. The average man, gay or straight, isn't as capable of maintaining steady relationships the way women do. We're distracted. We're immature. We get bored. It's not in our biological makeup. In nature, males are programmed to scatter their seed all over the place. It's usually women who hold men down and keep the relationship going, through sacrifice and patience.

Eliminate the woman and you have a big fucking mess.

That's not to say it doesn't work. It just takes more effort to make it work IMO.

[Kurama]

Oh my last relationship was 7-8 yrs. We didn't invite anyone else into our bedroom. That's not a requirement for longevity.

[Young]

Aside from the obvious: that all men are lustful.

There's also another point to consider. The average man, gay or straight, just isn't as capable of maintaining steady relationships the way women do. We're distracted. We're immature. We get bored. It's not in our biological makeup. In nature, males are programmed to scatter their seed all over the place. It's usually women who hold men down and keep the relationship going, through sacrifice and patience.

Eliminate the woman and you have a big fucking mess.

That's not to say it doesn't work. It just takes alot more effort to make it work IMO.

!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Young]

Oh my last relationship was 7-8 yrs. We didn't invite anyone else into our bedroom. That's not a requirement for longevity.

Right. I saw that and was like..

[Admin]

I've been in a relationship for almost 7 years thank u.

Yass! Proud of u