Why is it so hard for gay men to sustain relationships?

Started by Bulldagger, October 21, 2015, 01:41:39 PM

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CarseyWerner

October 21, 2015, 02:19:57 PM #30 Last Edit: October 21, 2015, 02:21:27 PM by CarseyWerner
Quote from: hewritez on October 21, 2015, 02:15:31 PM
Aside from the obvious: that all men are lustful.

There's also another point to consider. The average man, gay or straight, isn't as capable of maintaining steady relationships the way women do. We're distracted. We're immature. We get bored. It's not in our biological makeup. In nature, males are programmed to scatter their seed all over the place. It's usually women who hold men down and keep the relationship going, through sacrifice and patience.

Eliminate the woman and you have a big fucking mess.

That's not to say it doesn't work. It just takes more effort to make it work IMO.
Also you're eliminating the other incentives a lot of men stay with women: She's the mother of his children, She's a good look on his arm, His family adores her. None of those are there with a man so it's very easy to jump ship
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Quote from: CarseyWerner on October 21, 2015, 01:59:40 PM
I think they move too fast, women are generally the brake to the man's gas pedal.  Two guys screw first, then try to get to know each other, next week they're posting pics online and calling themselves a couple, 2 weeks later they're moving in with each other only to break up in a month's time.


Nnnnn but!!!

Young

Quote from: CarseyWerner on October 21, 2015, 02:19:57 PM
Quote from: hewritez on October 21, 2015, 02:15:31 PM
Aside from the obvious: that all men are lustful.

There's also another point to consider. The average man, gay or straight, isn't as capable of maintaining steady relationships the way women do. We're distracted. We're immature. We get bored. It's not in our biological makeup. In nature, males are programmed to scatter their seed all over the place. It's usually women who hold men down and keep the relationship going, through sacrifice and patience.

Eliminate the woman and you have a big fucking mess.

That's not to say it doesn't work. It just takes more effort to make it work IMO.
Also you're eliminating the other incentives a lot of men stay with women: She's the mother of his children, She's a good look on his arm, His family adores her. None of those are there with a man so it's very easy to jump ship

Now this is something to consider also.

It's much easier to jump ship in a gay relationship (if kids aren't involved)


hewritez

!!! @ the mother of his children part.

Women have a way of completing a man, making his life whole. They take care of him, stroke his ego, give him sex, give him children, a life, a home.

A man may cheat on his wife but he will think long and hard before leaving her, and will do anything in his power to keep her from leaving. Because when the wife leaves she takes everything with her.

Plank

Quote from: Bulldagger on October 21, 2015, 01:57:33 PM
This ain't about no damn lust. You niggas don't know how to love because you never learned how!!


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Hugo

Quote from: Plankesha on October 21, 2015, 02:38:47 PM
think u can come lick my coochie faggot


Coochie? You fuckin wish. No matter what you do, at the end of the day you're still a MAN!

Zankou.

Quote from: Kurama on October 21, 2015, 02:16:15 PM
Oh my last relationship was 7-8 yrs. We didn't invite anyone else into our bedroom. That's not a requirement for longevity.

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In fact it's a recipe for disaster IMO

Plank

Quote from: Hugo ❤️ Miles ???? on October 21, 2015, 02:40:28 PM
Quote from: Plankesha on October 21, 2015, 02:38:47 PM
think u can come lick my coochie faggot


Coochie? You fuckin wish. No matter what you do, at the end of the day you're still a MAN!

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Hugo

Quote from: Plankesha on October 21, 2015, 02:45:10 PM
Quote from: Hugo ❤️ Miles ???? on October 21, 2015, 02:40:28 PM
Quote from: Plankesha on October 21, 2015, 02:38:47 PM
think u can come lick my coochie faggot


Coochie? You fuckin wish. No matter what you do, at the end of the day you're still a MAN!

sdrfghjnmtfgvbhnm


def' r'porting this shit
transphobe

Nasty thing


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Quote from: Plankesha on October 21, 2015, 02:45:10 PM
Quote from: Hugo ❤️ Miles ???? on October 21, 2015, 02:40:28 PM
Quote from: Plankesha on October 21, 2015, 02:38:47 PM
think u can come lick my coochie faggot


Coochie? You fuckin wish. No matter what you do, at the end of the day you're still a MAN!

sdrfghjnmtfgvbhnm


def' r'porting this shit
transphobe
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