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[Kaeli.]

I only apologize for the WAY I say things

If I?m not sorry i ain?t gonna fckn say it

[Kaeli.]

Actually I apologize to my mom if I hurt her feelings bc I dont mean to do that

[Kaeli.]

fuck off you annoying stupid bitch

cccvvvvvvvgffffff

[Navyman]

No

It?s weird, people apologize to me when I?m wrong tho

And that's fucked up for you to do as a person.

[FlowerBomb]

No

It?s weird, people apologize to me when I?m wrong tho

And that's fucked up for you to do as a person.

He fucks his male cousins and uncles, you think he cares about morals?

[GLOCK]

hhhhhhh are you 13?

[🦚]

Fuck apologies

Stand in your mess as long as you don?t do things with malicious intend.

Well if there's a need to apologize, chances are you did or said something with malicious intent.

sdsd

So you agree with a few of us in here.

No, because we live in a society where you can?t do shit without somebody being offended. Fuck people and their feelings.

Let?s not act like people don?t apologize with alternative motives. Being the bigger person! Dead it before it becomes a thing! Divert the attention!

Apologies are useless. If you can?t stand by a decision you make or are contemplating...don?t fucking do it. 

[Navyman]

No

It?s weird, people apologize to me when I?m wrong tho

And that's fucked up for you to do as a person.

He fucks his male cousins and uncles, you think he cares about morals?

Makes sense now.

[ya rock muh world.]

I get it Sle, but why did you include the "as long as you don't do things with malicious intent" part if apologies are useless and you shouldn't look back?

Standing in your mess is just that. Wrong or right.

I made up the phrase "stand in your mess" and sometimes it's definitely called for. But there are times that it may be worth taking a step back and evaluating things a bit.

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[ya rock muh world.]

But I do agree that some people are more about the whole "event" of an apology than the actual results it can provide.

It's usually painfully obvious when someone's doing something simply to make themselves look better or "bigger" than others, and when someone is being honest and transparent as possible.

Anytime someone leads their apology with "Imma be the bigger person and....", they might as well just stop talking to me because that's an insult. I'm the smaller person in this situation? You can't apologize to me by insulting me first.

The foundation of a genuine apology is accountability - and accountability is something that can not only be useful in friendships, but business relationships as well. You should never be too big to admit your fault, own it, make no excuses for it, and keep it moving. Don't wait on an apology from the other person, or a pat on the back for the gesture. You shouldn't expect a cookie for something you should be doing as an adult anyway.

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I get it Sle, but why did you include the "as long as you don't do things with malicious intent" part if apologies are useless and you shouldn't look back?

Standing in your mess is just that. Wrong or right.

I made up the phrase "stand in your mess" and sometimes it's definitely called for. But there are times that it may be worth taking a step back and evaluating things a bit.

I had to include it as I can?t soeak on how the rest of you girls are and I don?t need nothing I said to be quoted for future references where it doesn?t apply.

I.E. I don?t sit and plot on ppl, I honestly don?t care enough to be consumed with anyone I don?t fuck with IRL. So I can?t picture a scenario where I feel I have to apologize to anyone. Not at this stage in life.

When I refer to stand in your mess (which I have been using long before I knew you) as of late it pertains to all the professional victims who always feel they?ve been wronged. I.E. I was in the grocery store the other day and this guy told these women ?it must be this busy in here today because of how hot you two are? ...these women thought nothing of it until this short dyke cut wearing ugly soccermom interjected herself and made this whole me too thing ...now was he wrong or was that bitch who wasn?t part of the conversation a dramatic cunt?

[ya rock muh world.]

When have you used stand in your mess here before I did, luv? lol

If you track the first time it was used on here I'm certain I'd be the first one saying it here.

Try it out.

And feeling no need to apologize says nothing about what stage you're at in life IMO. It just says you do or say things and don't feel a need to apologize for them.

Nothing "wrong" with that, though.

[🦚]

I never said it was on here (hence the before I knew you part)

[ya rock muh world.]