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[KING BENTLEY.]

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I'm sorry, but that was uncalled for and she needed a grade A ass beating

don't really know her story or her hurt but ...

if it had been one of my aunt's ... with no cameras around

she would've been in a headlock by a female cousin or somebody

you don't get to act like a monkey and disrespect somebody because you're MAD... tf 

[Vonc2002]

And actually Iyanla didn't even REALLY do anything to her. I've seen her on here and I could understand someone else maybe giving her this lashing. What she did in this episode didn't warrant all that

[Annie]

She lost her mother, the woman that raised her, and her biological parents don?t understand her. This young girl is so fragile and doesn?t even have an identity anymore, of course she is going to have a tantrum

[Annie]

And actually Iyanla didn't even REALLY do anything to her. I've seen her on here and I could understand someone else maybe giving her this lashing. What she did in this episode didn't warrant all that

She asked her to open up (she wasn?t ready) and made her uncomfortable in this womb room. I think it must?ve been the anxiety building

[Vonc2002]

She lost her mother, the woman that raised her, and her biological parents don?t understand her. This young girl is so fragile and doesn?t even have an identity anymore, of course she is going to have a tantrum

But that's not the way she was acting on the show. And she could've simply said I'm uncomfortable and wanna leave. There was no excuse for this girl acting like a wild ape. BYE

[KING BENTLEY.]

right

alot of serial killers were hurt badly as well ... let's start handing out get out of jail free cards to them too

she needs to understand healing is a choice, if you choose to stay mad, that's on you

even when you're hurting, it doesn't excuse making your situation worse by acting out

[Freemala Harris]

I think its deeper

She might have undiagnosed mental issues. That's way outta Iyanla grasp imo

[brocka4life]

Ivanla gave her the choice to leave.
She lied and said Iyanla made her stay.
Her bio parents are going to tip-toe around her and give in because they missed her for all of those year and in their heads, she was a perfect angel for all those years. It?s hard to change a mindset.

I think Iyanla was very fair but firm. She needed to be. Everybody around her seems to give into the pity party the girl throws.

Why have your bio mom on your social media as a friend but post things about the mom who abductee you? She really needs to decide who she is, who she wants to be, and what kind of relationship she want to have with all of her parents. But the disrespect is unwarranted.

[Vonc2002]

right

alot of serial killers were hurt badly as well ... let's start handing out get out of jail free cards to them too

she needs to understand healing is a choice, if you choose to stay mad, that's on you

even when you're hurting, it doesn't excuse making your situation worse by acting out

RIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
His mother hurt him as a child, OF COURSE he's gonna kill people
Like WHAT

[Vonc2002]

Ivanla gave her the choice to leave.
She lied and said Iyanla made her stay.
Her bio parents are going to tip-toe around her and give in because they missed her for all of those year and in their heads, she was a perfect angel for all those years. It?s hard to change a mindset.

I think Iyanla was very fair but firm. She needed to be. Everybody around her seems to give into the pity party the girl throws.

Why have your bio mom on your social media as a friend but post things about the mom who abductee you? She really needs to decide who she is, who she wants to be, and what kind of relationship she want to have with all of her parents. But the disrespect is unwarranted.

!!!!!!!!

[Lane Bryant Jumpsuit]

Everyone done cussed her out lmao at the end of tge day shes not a professional

[brocka4life]

Everyone done cussed her out lmao at the end of tge day shes not a professional

She?s actually very professional because she never stoops to their level. She lets them get their anger out until it reaches a point of threats of violence. Then she shuts it down. Her methods are actually very good and they don?t just leave people to fend for themselves after the show is over. We only see what?s filmed. That?s doesn?t mean that?s all the help that?s provided.

People are there because they are anger, depressed, violence, or combination of these things. It?s only natural that when faced with help, they lash out because they?ve either never been offered the proper help or they aren?t ready to stop playing the victim. Some people?s whole lives are wrapped around their victimhood so once they are threatened with no longer being a victim, they lash out because it?s all they know.

[fresh]

Ivanla gave her the choice to leave.
She lied and said Iyanla made her stay.
Her bio parents are going to tip-toe around her and give in because they missed her for all of those year and in their heads, she was a perfect angel for all those years. It?s hard to change a mindset.

I think Iyanla was very fair but firm. She needed to be. Everybody around her seems to give into the pity party the girl throws.

Why have your bio mom on your social media as a friend but post things about the mom who abductee you? She really needs to decide who she is, who she wants to be, and what kind of relationship she want to have with all of her parents. But the disrespect is unwarranted.

!!!!!

[ya rock muh world.]

It is an interesting episode
I have wondered during previous episodes why she would say harsh things (sometimes I can?t stand her)..I guess they trigger something in people. In this episode she explains that she has to provoke people to get a reaction. I don?t know if that is the best way to handle the situation. Sometimes she does force people to open up and that is good, but I can tell this time the girl was so uncomfortable. Never did I hear Iyanla console her and say it was going to be alright. She basically said it would be the hardest thing to do, clearly this girl is not strong enough. It could even be traumatic..I mean this victim and her reactions will be online forever. This fragile girl needs a safe environment, but now she is on tv as the ?angry black female?

did u just call someone a slave

[ya rock muh world.]

And this girl is completely disrespectful.

Completely!!!!!

there is no way, I'd feel comfortable cussing out an elder like that. Especially at that age.
and the person didn't do anything to disrespect me.

this new generation of kids are out of line

I couldn't see myself disrespecting an elder either as a child.

BUT I never had someone up in my space with cameras around talking about i'm here to fix ur life. No shade but if I said move and they didn't get the message I would have opened a can of southside jamaica on that ass too. I don't care how old you are. She clearly felt cornered.

It's not simple as saying "This rude lil girl is so disrespectful, poor Iyanla" IMO

Iyanla hit a nerve or triggered her in a way.