Do you consider yourself an introvert?

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Quote from: squid on April 08, 2018, 10:40:32 PM
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I?m not but I wish I was.
Why's that?
Beacuse not being one gets too tiring. I always have to have people around me so I feel dependent in that sense..



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Quote from: element on April 09, 2018, 03:12:00 AM
I think some people confuse being annoying with being extroverted. A lot of people just love to hear themselves talk :dead:

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Lately I've noticed people falsly using the word introvert to describe themselves. Like RuPaul and Oprah. :dead: I mean, I don't know them personally, but I think a real introvert wouldn't be able to do the things they do. :nowgorl:
Well Michael was an introvert as well and he still did his thing.

Some people are able to "perform" for whatever their job/career requires, but when they are at home, etc. they could be quiet as a mouse and not wanting to go clubbing and mess.

We did a personality test at my job for fun and my managers were really shocked that I came back as an introvert personality, cuz they feel as if I'm the life of the office.

But my best friend knows how I am down to a science - when I don't know a group of people, I am extremely quiet. Based on what I've heard, that sometimes leads people to believe I am something I am not (stuck up, too good, etc. ) But once I am warmed up to them, I get very warm and friendly.
Yes, but if it's 50/50 like with Michael, then it's neither introverted nor extroverted, IMO. It seems like a balancing method to cope with their job that has to do with being around tons of people.

I mean, it's not a competition of who's more introverted :dead:, but someone like Oprah saying "I'm introverted" kind of takes things away from people who really spend weeks or months being alone and being fine with it PLUS hating being in crowded places etc., if you know what I mean.
Yeah, there could be different levels to it.

Being in crowded places creeps me the fuck out.

It's one reason I put music to the side - I'd never want to perform in some hot, overcrowded club. And that's something you kinda have to do if you're making club music.  :dead: I had to really come to terms with the fact that even though I love music and the creative process, I am not a "performer" personality.

I'm a textbook INFJ.

https://www.16personalities.com/infj-personality

Being real with myself helped me to go into another direction with the app. People always come to me for advice and inspiration . I'm a giver down.

My best friend hated the fact that I disliked walking through big crowds. Like at the mall, I become tense when I'm around a lot of people at one time. If I hear people laughing as I walk by, I get defensive. But that's because of my childhood.
:stressed: aww

It was worse in college. If i was walking to class and saw a huge crowd and I?ll wind up being late for class cause i took the opposite way JUST to avoid the crowd

Scott.

Quote from: NATHAN. on April 09, 2018, 03:11:50 AM
A wanna fit in tea.

Thank god im nothing of the sort and can stand alone.  Ackkk
Same here.

Honestly some girl was just like Malcolm when i was at my best friends wedding rehearsal. Upset cause l wasn?t engaging with her or the rest of them. Mind you i had never met any of them

Chick: what?s the problem
Me: what do you mean
Chick: why are you engaging with any of us. We?re all having fun and you?re just looking in your phone.

Me: cause l don?t know you and I?d rather look in my phone

Chick: :hmph:



Later on i thought i was being rude, but i didn?t care

Hatsumomo

I am a strong introvert. Dealing with people just drains me.

Scott.

Quote from: Poseidon on April 09, 2018, 03:36:07 AM
It?s the silent ones that low key be very jealous sometimes and really deep down don?t want to be silent. I mean yeah I?m obnoxious and self-centered sometimes, but you learn to embrace it and count your blessings. I think we Nigerians we just like to overshadow a bit LOL

:feelinmyself:

That?s not true at all. I?m just not a warm and fuzzy person. But most people like me but if i don?t know you, I?m not quick to be giving small talk and be all in your face

Hatsumomo

Quote from: Scott. on April 09, 2018, 10:19:47 AM
Quote from: Poseidon on April 09, 2018, 03:36:07 AM
It?s the silent ones that low key be very jealous sometimes and really deep down don?t want to be silent. I mean yeah I?m obnoxious and self-centered sometimes, but you learn to embrace it and count your blessings. I think we Nigerians we just like to overshadow a bit LOL

:feelinmyself:

That?s not true at all. I?m just not a warm and fuzzy person. But most people like me but if i don?t know you, I?m not quick to be giving small talk and be all in your face

He is way off. Just because you're an introvert doesn't mean you are insecure. Jealousy is for the weak. I can honestly say I've never felt jealous of anyone. There is always someone with more than you have.


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Tbh all of society is becoming introverted, in a sense.




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Quote from: Nine on April 08, 2018, 10:27:55 PM
Definitely.

People exhaust the shit out of me.

The time I spend just being with myself >>>

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