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[b7]

And had I lied and said I was an introvert you guys would have made it a problem too lol

If that's the case, it yet again speaks to an issue with your personality specifically as opposed to extroverts in general.

People act like being an extrovert and being unpopular can?t go together. People cannot stand Donald Trump or Kanye West or Azealia.

Us Gemini gorls are just polarizing, I acknowledge that. Doesn?t mean we can?t be extroverted.

babe i think you?re missing the point

There was never a debate on whether or not you?re an extrovert. they haven?t disputed that

[AIDS]

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[b7]

I definitely am.. once I moved out my parents place n lived on my owns in early 20s though I did challenge myself to not be and live more out my shell cause a part of me didn't wanna Miss out on life or whatever it is...but now almost 30  I definitely Been noticing how I kinda gradually fell back in place back in that shell... I truly love to travel alone, go out alone, n rather be Chillin in my skin comfortably than out somewhere with a crowd.


I will say I have found dating/love life a bit difficult being as introverted as I am ... Because ppl initially will be cool with it but once few years pass or excess months pass they kinda start trying to change what comes so natural to me. But I think a big part of that is because as an introvert I often am attracted or pull to those opposite of me ...only because I like that they take me out my character a bit n I tend to be able to tame them a bit as well.. but at present I realize I am who I am. ?

that makes a lot of sense. I think balance is beautiful

Don?t get me wrong, i absolutely love that balance, and i love eating alone, going to the movies alone and all of that myself. I have and will continue to do so whenever i can.

I hope you don?t beat yourself up for that at all. Anyone that makes you feel like you?re crazy for enjoying those things, just isn?t for you. And that goes for anyone in ur space, not just someone you choose to date. Friends, too.

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Dese paragraphs Chile.

[b7]

Anybody that posts online regularly is.     

definitely can?t agree with this at all

[Kurama]

 

I definitely am.. once I moved out my parents place n lived on my owns in early 20s though I did challenge myself to not be and live more out my shell cause a part of me didn't wanna Miss out on life or whatever it is...but now almost 30  I definitely Been noticing how I kinda gradually fell back in place back in that shell... I truly love to travel alone, go out alone, n rather be Chillin in my skin comfortably than out somewhere with a crowd.


I will say I have found dating/love life a bit difficult being as introverted as I am ... Because ppl initially will be cool with it but once few years pass or excess months pass they kinda start trying to change what comes so natural to me. But I think a big part of that is because as an introvert I often am attracted or pull to those opposite of me ...only because I like that they take me out my character a bit n I tend to be able to tame them a bit as well.. but at present I realize I am who I am. ?

that makes a lot of sense. I think balance is beautiful

Don?t get me wrong, i absolutely love that balance, and i love eating alone, going to the movies alone and all of that myself. I have and will continue to do so whenever i can.

I hope you don?t beat yourself up for that at all. Anyone that makes you feel like you?re crazy for enjoying those things, just isn?t for you. And that goes for anyone in ur space, not just someone you choose to date. Friends, too.

Rigs 

Dese paragraphs Chile.

shush

[b7]

Tbh all of society is becoming introverted, in a sense.




I don?t really like FB or Twitter, I think that?s why I stayed posting on BSource.

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I was walking through the mall the other day and everyone was literally walking around like zombies glued to their phones or fidgeting with their headphones.

People don't know how socialize anymore.

     

true

I feel like social media is a form of extroversion too, depending on how you use it.

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[AIDS]

Anybody that posts online regularly is.     

definitely can?t agree with this at all

yh drais is right 

[b7]

I used to think I was, but I think it has more to do with the personalities I'm surrounded by. Its much easier to be sociable with someone I have a genuine (platonic) chemistry with. And the minute I feel negativity or someone being stoic, I usually return the favor.

ooooh yes

Giving someone the same energy they?re giving you will fuck them UP   kinda wakes that ass up

[b7]

Like, I just get shit DONE. I don?t let anxiety get the best of me. An overachiever if you will! Coming from a working class background it?s essential to be loud.

tbh Mack, it sounds like you?re deflecting or over-stating to hide some type of deficient view you or possibly others in your past have had.

It reminds me of Nene a bit
?I worked for mine! Nobody getting me down! Rich bitch?

Yet was in tears when Xscape pulled the plug on that opportunity.

Ppl have a negative view of reflective or introspective ppl (which you didn?t really answer lol), but there?s old sayings in America, say you have a room full of ppl

The loudest person in the room is silent inside.

The person laughing at/judging everyone else is crying inside.

The reflective person in the room is processing and learning.

The meek/humble person in the room is grateful to be in the room with all 3

Now neither of these 3 denotes how happy a person can be nor am I saying there aren?t exceptions

But I believe this reflects how the universal energies works.

kind, reflective ppl receive good karma in the end

Meek/humble people usually find themselves in some position of power

Loud obnoxious ppl receive the hard knocks in the end (that usually their mouth started), and receive the same treatment they put others too
exp. Nene, Tamar, Tupac, Suge, all high school bullies

And the ppl laughing or judging end up in the most trying times.
exp. Tamar, Khia, most comedians actually go insane

Wait ... Why?d you go off in here anyways?

i love when you get serious sometimes

Slay me. Brilliant self

[b7]

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I see everyone's POV in here honestly.

All about what you're comfortable with - it's your time and your life. Your space as well.

I went to a lil rooftop party last weekend and honestly had fun. Found myself working the room a bit, hopping from one person to the next chatting it up (friendly convo nothing skank like), etc.

Saw it as a bit of practice - I really am going to have to get used to comfortably networking. It's kinda mandatory for what I'm planning. But I'd much rather work a nice room like that than to be up in a sweaty hot club. It was definitely more in my lane of comfort.

Once I had a margarita or two I was def good to go. Loosened me up just a tad. Just had to be careful not to drink too much. Kept it classy and professional.

But a lot of confidence comes from me taking better care of myself, I believe. My posture is much better (people think I've gotten taller  ), I feel better. It's really important I take care of myself because when you're not doing that, you don't want to get out as much. It's mandatory that I get out a bit. No need to party hard and mess, but I need to be comfortable speaking in front of and presenting myself to people.

!!!!!!! Been there


Go King

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people say to u "i didnt realize how tall u were ? "

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posture really makes a difference

brfggghhhh well no they know my ass is tall but i meant taking better care of yourself, and what that does for your level of confidence

[b7]

that's definitely not why he called you a sociopath

yea. I don?t necessarily agree with that malc, but sociopaths lack any sort of empathy and don?t care to acquire it that?s how you?re coming off in here

I?m not judging you. Just saying that?s what ur posts in this thread are giving

Maybe you?re just trying to spark debate, idk.

[Sinpool]

I used to think I was, but I think it has more to do with the personalities I'm surrounded by. Its much easier to be sociable with someone I have a genuine (platonic) chemistry with. And the minute I feel negativity or someone being stoic, I usually return the favor.

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Actually this is more me.

When Im comfortable and the girls give a energetic let's have fun mess out I do too and we have some fun, but when they're being energy draining vampires and I do the same thing they can't take.

Like sis, am not here to entertain you. If you're boring me I zone tf out and then people start thinking something is wrong with me. Like no lolz I'm not about to begs you to talk to me wtf.

I can either be the life of the party or sit in the corner to myself and I'm perfectly fine with both, but I feel like it makes people angry sometimes that I can do that, but hey that's not my issue.