Do you consider yourself an introvert?

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Kurama

Quote from: SAINT BENTLEY. on April 09, 2018, 11:48:29 AM
Quote from: Poseidon on April 09, 2018, 03:33:38 AM
Like, I just get shit DONE. I don?t let anxiety get the best of me. An overachiever if you will! Coming from a working class background it?s essential to be loud.
tbh Mack, it sounds like you?re deflecting or over-stating to hide some type of deficient view you or possibly others in your past have had.

It reminds me of Nene a bit
?I worked for mine! Nobody getting me down! Rich bitch?

Yet was in tears when Xscape pulled the plug on that opportunity.

Ppl have a negative view of reflective or introspective ppl (which you didn?t really answer lol), but there?s old sayings in America, say you have a room full of ppl

The loudest person in the room is silent inside.

The person laughing at/judging everyone else is crying inside.

The reflective person in the room is processing and learning.

The meek/humble person in the room is grateful to be in the room with all 3

Now neither of these 3 denotes how happy a person can be nor am I saying there aren?t exceptions

But I believe this reflects how the universal energies works.

kind, reflective ppl receive good karma in the end

Meek/humble people usually find themselves in some position of power

Loud obnoxious ppl receive the hard knocks in the end (that usually their mouth started), and receive the same treatment they put others too
exp. Nene, Tamar, Tupac, Suge, all high school bullies :dead:

And the ppl laughing or judging end up in the most trying times.
exp. Tamar, Khia, most comedians actually go insane

Wait ... Why?d you go off in here anyways? :dead:
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SouravMay

April 09, 2018, 02:52:09 PM #108 Last Edit: April 09, 2018, 03:12:30 PM by Poseidon
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AIDS

Quote from: Kurama on April 09, 2018, 11:12:51 AM
Quote from: Poseidon on April 09, 2018, 03:33:38 AM
Like, I just get shit DONE. I don?t let anxiety get the best of me. An overachiever if you will! Coming from a working class background it?s essential to be loud.

Hey,

what does any of this have to do with introversion and extroversion?


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AIDS

Quote from: Poseidon on April 09, 2018, 03:36:07 AM
It?s the silent ones that low key be very jealous sometimes and really deep down don?t want to be silent. I mean yeah I?m obnoxious and self-centered sometimes, but you learn to embrace it and count your blessings. I think we Nigerians we just like to overshadow a bit LOL

:feelinmyself:

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AIDS

Quote from: element on April 09, 2018, 03:12:00 AM
I think some people confuse being annoying with being extroverted. A lot of people just love to hear themselves talk :dead:


whoa

AIDS

Quote from: Poseidon on April 09, 2018, 03:31:02 AM
Quote from: squid on April 09, 2018, 03:10:40 AM
Malc seems like a sociopath anyway. Doesn't surprise me that he doesn't understand introversion.
Fuck you. You are the sociopath to be honest. If you are overwhelmed with a fucking crowd. I?m just a regular optimistic and life loving person. I hate negative folk. They are really draining.

I'm crying

AIDS


b7

Quote from: shanghai. on April 09, 2018, 03:09:09 AM
ndfnfn

I see everyone's POV in here honestly.

All about what you're comfortable with - it's your time and your life. Your space as well.

I went to a lil rooftop party last weekend and honestly had fun. Found myself working the room a bit, hopping from one person to the next chatting it up (friendly convo nothing skank like), etc.

Saw it as a bit of practice - I really am going to have to get used to comfortably networking. It's kinda mandatory for what I'm planning. But I'd much rather work a nice room like that than to be up in a sweaty hot club. It was definitely more in my lane of comfort.

Once I had a margarita or two I was def good to go. :woohoo: Loosened me up just a tad. Just had to be careful not to drink too much. Kept it classy and professional.

But a lot of confidence comes from me taking better care of myself, I believe. My posture is much better (people think I've gotten taller  :dead: ), I feel better. It's really important I take care of myself because when you're not doing that, you don't want to get out as much.
It's mandatory that I get out a bit. No need to party hard and mess, but I need to be comfortable speaking in front of and presenting myself to people.
!!!!!!! Been there


Go King :blush:

b7

Quote from: squid on April 09, 2018, 03:13:31 AM
Dddd getting spicy in here (feat. Fabolous)
bcncnncncncncn oh God

Of course it is. mess  :dead:  the first 4 pages were so good

lemme read through

Scott.

Malcolm didn't do himself any favors in here with the BS.

Sinpool

I honestly don't know anymore.

I think Im naturally extroverted, but living in the south made me introverted. So I'm both.


Navyman

Quote from: Poseidon on April 09, 2018, 03:55:29 AM
Yeah I?m sorry, but you are a hobby psychologist who gets overwhelmed with big crowds. I don?t know what would qualify you to call anyone a sociopath, when clearly you have severe issues going on with your self and your self esteem that you should reflect on. And that?s just being honest. It is very unhealthy to be so overtly bothered by actual human interaction. It seems like you might have an actual condition the way you discribed it, and I apologize for being ignorant cause I can?t relate. I need to learn to also understand people going through mental health problems.
Yeah, you are clearly a sociopath. You're unable to step into her shoes and she it from her perspective.