Why are most blacks afraid of those that are "corny?"

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BAPHOMET.

Quote from: Two Spirit on October 23, 2018, 08:59:27 AM
Intelligence is such a turn on for me.
Like huge turn on.

Strong sense of responsibility and leadership.

Ambition.

Key things I look for in a man - aside from the initial physical attraction.
I'm very careful of who I associate myself with. Too much going on right now for me to be playing stupid games.

Quote from: BARD? on October 23, 2018, 10:38:44 AM
Every thing you said is so true. You have to be retarded not to get this.

Black people are LATE

Agree to both of these.


Kurama

You fuckers, this actually could have been a good topic.

Young

Quote from: TROLLISA mess on October 23, 2018, 08:58:54 AM
Quote from: Young on October 23, 2018, 08:51:01 AM
Is this secretly about Ci becoming Whitewashed and corny a bit
this is more about the thought process of blacks who compute anything outside of hood behavior as corny or lame.

It's a topic closely related to hyper-masculinity, but not one that is brought up enough


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oh okay!

Well I get what you mean-- I guess I definitely fall more into that category over a HOOD mess
Although I click and get along with the hood gworls I don't particularly act like that


Young

Quote from: TROLLISA mess on October 23, 2018, 09:02:48 AM
Quote from: Two Spirit on October 23, 2018, 08:59:27 AM
Intelligence is such a turn on for me.
Like huge turn on.

Strong sense of responsibility and leadership.

Ambition.

Key things I look for in a man - aside from the initial physical attraction.
I'm very careful of who I associate myself with. Too much going on right now for me to be playing stupid games.
since Ciara was brought up, this reminds me of thousands of niggas that tried to discredit Russell for being a "corny" and believed Future was a better fit for Ci because he's not corny, a real recognizes real type a nigga :dead:

Are blacks poisoning themselves? Are we our own toxin?
I think w/ Ci its a two-part discussion

I think that definitely falls into what you were talking about though In some senses because the hood definitely loves future lolz

But overall I think that for Ci, many girls just didn't seem to see how Russell and Ci would "click" because she was a....hood girl..at first.
So w/ Future it made sense --outside of him being a fuck nigga
I couldn't wrap my head around Ci and Russell's connection at first, until I saw that she became a Valley Girl


Young

Quote from: Two Spirit on October 23, 2018, 09:07:50 AM
Only real criteria for a one night stand mess is the physical attraction and "swag".

Am mean, let's be real. Hood niggas are sexy.

But you gotta really dig deep for husband material. A (reasonably lengthy) checklist comes out and you really evaluate someone for filth.

Very true.

Although for me, Dave East is "bring him home to Momma" material :justabit:


Cartierline

This is a good point.

This could even extend past 'corniness'. Black people tend to ostracize or look down on other blacks who aren't 'black' enough.

I read an interesting Twitter thread about creativity/nerdiness in brown Asian girls; how it's acceptable for girls in their culture to be intelligent enough to get good grades but still be girly and feminine, while if a girl is too creative or too much of a nerd, it's a bad thing.

It all just boils down to people being close-minded.

Gilgamesh.

Well, what do we consider "corny"?

Cause to me, Rocstar (LAHH) is corny AF and he's "hood.

Young

Also I think that a big part of it is we as society view being "black" as having a certain bit of "soul"/"sass"/and "swag" that other races just simply don't have.

From being able to dance
Being raised in the Black church & the "extraness" that comes with that etc..

So when we see someone who's "out of the norm" or away from the stereotype, many gorls will give a kinda mess to those anomalies that stick out




Young

Quote from: Two Spirit on October 23, 2018, 10:55:11 AM
There are plenty of "hood" men out there who are great people and are very intelligent.

I never let a certain accent, or "swag" , define how good of a person someone is. That's simply a result of their environment in most cases.

But there's only but so far the hood tea will take someone - unless you're gunning for a rap career. It has to be toned down at some point for success in corporate America. You have to play the game.

If by a certain age someone hasn't realized that, it's probably best that we keep our interaction short and sweet.



Doesn't mean they're a bad person, just means that we may have different outlooks.

!!!!!!!

But sis my inner HOODLUM wants to creep on OUT a bit  :plzstop:

I told my Mom this weekend I either want a small face or neck tattoo and she looked at me like I had lost my mind sdddddddd
I'm the ONLY person in my entire fam with a tattoo mess dddd

I just LOVE tats sssss

but then I think about maintaining my career and pushing it further and I realize how hard it would be to do so while having a certain image that may turn heads


Freemala Harris

Probs hyper masculinity and the way people glorify thug appeal and such

Sad

yummy

Trying to decide if I should indulge in the convo or just quote someone?s post with a letter

Young

Quote from: ANIMMAI on October 23, 2018, 11:12:33 AM
Trying to decide if I should indulge in the convo or just quote someone?s post with a letter



Kurama

Quote from: ANIMMAI on October 23, 2018, 11:12:33 AM
Trying to decide if I should indulge in the convo or just quote someone?s post with a letter
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Scott.

Quote from: Two Spirit on October 23, 2018, 10:58:17 AM
At my core, I'm honestly hood as fuck. Get me angry enough and it comes right on out.
That sassy fag from Southside Jamaica Queens will let you have it. Real quick.

So there's nothing wrong with loving where you come from and embracing that.
I love reppin' the hood. It's taught me a lot of things.

So this isn't me sitting here trying to bash hood people. I'm from the hood.

Hmmmmm

I?m more country than hood tbh.